How do you break up with with a girl who wouldn't take a hint

You keep telling her that you not ready to settle down but she insist that she can't and won't leave you. She claims she will wait for you till you are ready

Who does that

A girl who's in love does that. How many years of her life have you wasted so far? I'm trying to understand why she's clinging on to you despite your obvious disrespect.

Lol...go & report her now to the police before we hear say an obsessed girlfriend stabs boyfriend to death.

MissWrite:
A girl who's in love does that. How many years of her life have you wasted so far?

Just 18 months, and I'm seriously considering her and trying to let her go so people wouldn't say I'm the one that tied her down but she's not having any of it. She wants to wait for me

MissWrite:
A girl who's in love does that. How many years of her life have you wasted so far?

Jumping into gender biased conclusions without having a full understanding of the matter is a serious problem. Why are you quick to assume that they have been in a relationship for a very long period of time that would amount to "wasting the girl's time?" And even if they have been in a long relationship, doesn't the guy have the right to decide when he wants to get married and to whom?

iamsammie:

Just 18 months, and I'm seriously considering her and trying to let her go so people wouldn't say I'm the one that tied her down but she's not having any of it. She wants to wait for me

Depending on her age right now, 18 months may not be "just 18 months". If you know what I mean. Anyway, I recommend you be straight with her. Don't insinuate anything. Tell her that you do not see a future with her, and don't give her any glimmer of hope to cling on to. If you tell her you aren't ready, she would think time is the issue. And it clearly isn't. Sometimes, you have to be cruel to be kind.

iamsammie:
How do you break up with with a girl who wouldn't take a hint

You keep telling her that you not ready to settle down but she insist that she can't and won't leave you. She claims she will wait for you till you are ready

Who does that

Maybe you have gone and promised her marriage, she gave you all-access pass to the cookie and now you are back to your senses and realized that you are just a broke ass niggggger.
I feel sorry for her
Now who are you leaving her for

XML33:


Jumping into gender biased conclusions without having a full understanding of the matter is a serious problem. Why are you quick to assume that they have been in a relationship for a very long period of time that would amount to "wasting the girl's time?" And even if they have been in a long relationship, doesn't the guy have the right to decide when he wants to get married and to whom?

Abeg just dump your issues somewhere far away from me. I'm not in the mood.

MissWrite:



Abeg just dump your issues somewhere far away from me. I'm not in the mood.

Don't give me that attitude. When you post something stupid and worthy of criticism, you should be ready to either sufficiently defend it or concede to the fact that your are a peddler of inherently stupid opinions. Responding the way you did just shines more light on your stupidity.

MissWrite:



Depending on her age right now, 18 months may not be "just 18 months". If you know what I mean. Anyway, I recommend you be straight with her. Don't insinuate anything. Tell her that you do not see a future with her, and don't give her any glimmer of hope to cling on to. If you tell her you aren't ready, she would think time is the issue. And it clearly isn't. Sometimes, you have to be cruel to be kind.

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