O gaa

Do you guys have kids at all?? maybe he has been told you are the reason for that not happening.

clearly he needs to see a psychiatrist and maybe get native/mfm prayers cos tins happen every day in this our blessed country. The activities of village ppl is well known so act fast

I pray he recovers soon enough

There's an influence that wants to ensure you too are separated. You said he was once for inset but now timid and even afraid of you, and you said you did nothing. Well, you should ask any of your family or friend whom you have complained yo if they did something. Also ensure there was no man you were always running to for complaints whenever your husband showed his dominating ways. That man Gould have taken laws into his hands to see you are out from there and to him. People may call it hallucinations but it's something that causes it. It's not a physical health issue as many would suggest. Another thing, you may want yo consider going spiritus as cases like this are not hospital cases.

[quote author=KardinalZik post=62773166]All is not well with your husband.
You need to act fast; but then, your action must be well calculated.

IF YOU FAIL TO ACT, 3 outcomes linger:

1. your husband will go mental
2. your husband may commit suicide
3. your husband may commit murder.
. Rubbish. He will never be all you have said. Now listen woman you enter inside a bush cut a tree and run outside and ask who is cutting the tree. You are the architect of your problem. Your husband is regretting ever getting married to you. In your house you play the boss type. But let me tell you man must be man. There are a lot of things you did in the past with carrying him along. He will make money and that is our money and when you make yours it is my money. Woman you have never extended a hand of assistance to him in things that concerns him only. You only come in when it is a matter that concern him and the children. That is absolute wickedness. You amaze him. He has given you freedom to do anything that interests you in the house. And you do all that with impunity. Madame your husband is not afraid of losing you. Rather you have lost your man to another fellow that appreciate what you despise. There are things you do in your own name maybe buying property and all that. It surprise your husband. You choose when you make love to him. You are wrong. He is a dude and gets affections anytime he wants outside. But let me remind you that in all your husband sees you as a flirt,an adulterous wife. Be careful your marriage is in a sinking ship. You can make your marriage again to be sweet if you amend your ways.

Serene0:


He takes his bath barely twice a week. Always locking himself in a room. He will bathe if I'm not in the house. If I'm in the house, he locks himself in the room

There you have it.
Get him to a psychiatrist asap.

Coldplay007:
OP.. leave that house before your schizophrenic hubby takes steps to neutralise the Satan in his house..

Stupid advice. How you managed to accumulate 5 likes amazes me.

Crap

Dear OP,


It is obvious from all you have written here that your husband is suffering some kind of mental break down. Forget all those people telling you may be its your attitude or bad behaviour that is changing him, it is clear he needs psychiatric help. Please act fast, inform his family and you guys should decide on the best mental home to take him to.
No be all mad people dey tear clothe immediately when the thing start o. If you don't act fast, one of this two things will happen. Its either he eventually enters the "market" or end up killing ( himself or you).

Be wise.

Possibly you have a spiritual husband that is threatening your physical husband.

Oh jisos! Biko let him see a shrink asap! This isn't normal!

Why him no go fear? When wives are now killing husbands.

Truth is that, i think your husband went to these fake prophets out there and maybe he was told that you are a witch or the cause of his predicament.

First, this has nothing to do with Church or fake prophets. If prophecy is the reason he acts this way, he wouldn't be scared of going to Church.. Instead, he would spend more time attending Churches than staying idle at the guest room.


Secondly, your husband is seeing things you ordinarily can't see. Science called it hallucinations (seeing demons, beasts and hearing strange voices like birds, dogs backing or someone telling you to run faraway from people around you, etc.).

You need to handle this matter seriously. If you fail to act NOW, you won't like the end result cos it can be very devastating.

Now this is what you should do, see a psychiatrist! He probably wouldn't accept the fact that something is wrong with him. So you have to act whether he wants help or not.

It can either be acute depression, psychosis or schizophrenia. This isn't mid-life crisis, stress or spiritual problems. Most times, these three show similar symptoms, and hallucination is always the second sign. You said he sleeps late and wake early? Truth is your husband does not sleep at all. That's a sign of depression, and it starts with lack of sleep. His brain is working at an increasingly high velocity, you shouldn't allow him continue like this. Act now before some spirit beings (hallucinations) instruct him to hurt you.

The symptoms are very clear;
1. Hallucinations
2. Lack of sleep/quality sleep
3. Takes people around as enemies
4. Low self esteem
5. Speaking incoherent words and casting out demons you can't see.
6. Poor hygiene

So what are you waiting for??
Act before the mass illiterates start calling him 'm a d'.

duduade:
Won ti get e from the village.. Resort to serious fasting and prayers

Typical Nigerian. I'm sure you are a graduate with a BSc.

SUPER STORY

The efo you made is working already, baba did a good job.
Your once bossy husband is now turning to the gbewudani, hallelujah.

Samusu:
Did yhu refuse him a second wife?

No. He never mentioned anything about a second wife. Even if he does so, I would never allow it

Acidosis:
First, this has nothing to do with Church or fake prophets. If prophecy is the reason he acts this way, he wouldn't be scared of going to Church.. Instead, he would spend more time attending Churches than staying idle at the guest room.


Secondly, your husband is seeing things you ordinarily can't see. Science called it hallucinations (seeing demons, beasts and hearing strange voices like birds, dogs backing or someone telling you to run faraway from people around you, etc.).

You need to handle this matter seriously. If you fail to act NOW, you won't like the end result cos it can be very devastating.

Now this is what you should do, see a psychiatrist! He probably wouldn't accept the fact that something is wrong with him. So you have to act whether he wants help or not.

It can either be acute depression, psychosis or schizophrenia. This isn't mid-life crisis, stress or spiritual problems. Most times, these three show similar symptoms, and hallucination is always the second sign. You said he sleeps late and wake early? Truth is your husband does not sleep at all. That's a sign of depression, and it starts with lack of sleep. His brain is working at an increasingly high velocity, you shouldn't allow him continue like this. Act now before some spirit beings (hallucinations) instruct him to hurt you.

The symptoms are very clear;
1. Hallucinations
2. Lack of sleep/quality sleep
3. Takes people around as enemies
4. Low self esteem
5. Speaking incoherent words and casting out demons you can't see.
6. Poor hygiene

So what are you waiting for??
Act before the mass illiterates start calling him 'm a d'.

My thought exactly. That's why I suggested to him that a doctor be involved. He doesn't even want to move with me. But I'll try to bring the doctor home if that's possible.