I broke up with her when I found out she cheated on me by rekindling old flames with her ex.

Now I feel terrible, took time off school, I know it's going to affect my GP, we are in the same dept.

Not slept in three days, it's obvious I loved her too much, she's my first love.
I Can't get her off my chest, she's advocating for us to stay friends.

Thought I would feel better by dumping her, but I feel utterly miserable.

If this is what breaking up with a girl feels like, and if I can pull through this with my sanity, I'm definitely never going to date a girl, ever again.

And for the first time in my life, suicide seems like a plausible option right now.

It is like that both ways. Take time off and start learning something new. Even if it's art and craft.

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How can u be thinking of suicide because of girl wey never baff... You smoke?

joedesigns:
I broke up with her when I found out she cheated on me by rekindling old flames with her ex.

Now I feel terrible, took time off school, I know it's going to affect my GP, we are in the same dept.

Not slept in three days, it's obvious I loved her too much, she's my first love.
I Can't get her off my chest, she's advocating for us to stay friends.

Thought I would feel better by dumping her, but I feel utterly miserable.

If this is what breaking up with a girl feels like, and if I can pull through this with my sanity, I'm definitely never going to date a girl, ever again.

And for the first time in my life, suicide seems like a plausible option right now.

Love Nwantinti

Op just like you submitted, she is your first love and its not abnormal that you are feeling so. The only mistake you made is dating someone in the same department. You only fvck someone in the same department not date bro. When you want to date someone you will be seeing everyday, then you must be very careful and prayerful that things don't go sour. Now if your classmates knows that you guys were together and now separated, they can use it to mock you anytime. Remember, it is not abnormal you are feeling this way. I only have to tell you to wake up to the reality. Why do you think guys are more interested in sex these days, it is because, majority of the ladies can't be trusted.

Do take your time and sort yourself, then move on with your life.

I have another suggestion, accept to be her friend, be good to her, and you may even have her every night.

Remember, suicide is not an option but if you decides its the only way out, kindly extend the assurance of my most sincere condolence to your family.

Stats shows that ladies tend to go back to their EX. Learn from this boss.

Omg! This is so cute!

Biko accept the friendship offer for your Sanity's sake since it affects you so much. Another prettier babe will come along soon, she probably would break your heart too if you don't stop being such a baby. Eventually, you will learn the game like the palms of your hands anyways

Stay strong.

sisisioge:
Omg! This is so cute!

Biko accept the friendship offer for your Sanity's sake since it affects you so much. Another prettier babe will come along soon, she probably would break your heart too if you don't stop being such a baby. Eventually, you will learn the game like the palms of your hands anyways

Stay strong.

Lol, and the guy must have envisioned a nice Christmas hangout with the lady during this Christmas break. By the time he will meet the next girl and probably pass her assessment and due diligent study, my guy would have given up.

Women can know how to play with guys opinion. I just see the op on the long run being a fvckative with this kind of experience which is going to change him

Love is natural, but let us reason together. The time and energy devoted for the tales and episodes of love could be helpful if directed towards self development and career aiding activities. I told a friend of mine sometimes early this year wen he was brainstorming on how and what he ll do to make his girlfriend love him.. Can u just imagine. So he still needs to brainstorm on that. I told him I don't know as the feelings I have is for money and nothing else.

Love is meant to feature wen the Visivitudes of life has been matched in all aspect.

Mikelowe:
Love is natural, but let us reason together. The time and energy devoted for the tales and episodes of love could be helpful if directed towards self development and career aiding activities. I told a friend of mine sometimes early this year wen he was brainstorming on how and what he ll do to make his girlfriend love him.. Can u just imagine. So he still needs to brainstorm on that. I told him I don't know as the feelings I have is for money and nothing else.

Love is meant to feature wen the Visivitudes of life has been matched in all aspect.

my biggest mistake, I wish I'd channeled all that time and energy into something more productive.
I won't be at the receiving end of a heartbreak right now.

joedesigns:
my biggest mistake, I wish I'd channeled all that time and energy into something more productive.
I won't be at the receiving end of a heartbreak right now.

I am very sure you didn't have sex with the girl, that's why you're shattered and the could be the major reason she returned to her ex.
I can imagine what you're going through, losing appetite, confidence and weight. Thinking of how the ex will be hitting the place you never hit. You're preserving the girl as your FirstBank, majority of Nigerians ain't loyal.
Take heart, you will be fine. it's normal.

Go and face your books young man . Your GP is more important for now... Hmmmmm!!!

I wish you few more to come...

little by little you will learn the art of the game.

It is part of growing up. And do not deceive yourself...you will still date and probably get heartbroken again or break a girl's heart.

u no sleep for 3 days? ode kill urself becos of woman make we see if she no go live her life,i get snipper,my knife sharp & i get long rope with chair but snipper will be faster mtcheww

[quote author=joedesigns post=62847273]I broke up with her when I found out she cheated on me by rekindling old flames with her ex.

Now I feel terrible, took time off school, I know it's going to affect my GP, we are in the same dept.

Not slept in three days, it's obvious I loved her too much, she's my first love.
I Can't get her off my chest, she's advocating for us to stay friends.

Thought I would feel better by dumping her, but I feel utterly miserable.

If this is what breaking up with a girl feels like, and if I can pull through this with my sanity, I'm definitely never going to date a girl, ever again.

And for the first time in my life, suicide seems like a plausible option right

joedesigns:
I broke up with her when I found out she cheated on me by rekindling old flames with her ex.

Now I feel terrible, took time off school, I know it's going to affect my GP, we are in the same dept.

Not slept in three days, it's obvious I loved her too much, she's my first love.
I Can't get her off my chest, she's advocating for us to stay friends.

Thought I would feel better by dumping her, but I feel utterly miserable.

If this is what breaking up with a girl feels like, and if I can pull through this with my sanity, I'm definitely never going to date a girl, ever again.

And for the first time in my life, suicide seems like a plausible option right now.

Your mates are busy making money and you are here, wanting to kill yourself over a girl....girl...smh....grow up. Others are busy exploiting in their walk with God, and here you want to die over a mortal that passes away and withers with time...you need to change your view...woe unto you when you make man your trust.

And why the insults?

We all have been a victim at some points in our lives, who says its easy?

Its a process
You will definitely pass through
Just stay strong
Put your head high
If you wanna cry
Cry it all
Let it out

You will get over it

Oh sweetie...
Sorry aiit... I know it really hurts. And screw all those noisemakers berating you for feeling heartbreak because your first love didn't cheated on you.

When I feel pain like this, I try to concentrate on other things. I am not of the accepting her friendship opinion right now. I believe, you will probably spend more time obsessing about winning her back than you will on your studies. Hang out with your male friends. And gently explain you are not yet ready to sort through this until after you exams...

Always be in the company of productive individuals..
Like study buddy..
Business minded guys....
And if you are into that (religion).

The more time you spend with these set of people, the more your perspective changes...

Take this time to build you... And trust me when I say this..
If you've never fell.. You've never been in love.

After the exams, embrace the pain and be the best version of yourself... I don't know you so well, but I'm sure you're ten times the dog that was scrapping from your leftover...

And when she realises this..

It will be too late..

Why commit suicide when you can live to make her a fool?