Very serious topic

tpiah:

can you quote some more bible verses to buttress your claim, because you've totally lost me. I do get your point though- you're trying to discourage intimacy before marriage. I hope you dont find it too hard.

shedding of blood by both parties involved.

so, no, I dont agree with the blood covenant thingy.

SOME people feel attached to their lovers because they feel intimacy makes them important to the other party and also because its a soulish thing, if that makes any sense.

@ Tpiah,
Sorry that this post confused you, like I said, I am not the one that manufactured this information, I simply shared it here on NL. But I will try to address your questions.

I do not know of any bible verses that relate directly to this claim but I know that many times when a covenant was made between God and the Israelites, blood was shed (an animal was sacrificed) to represent the covenant.

I do not support premarital intimacy (as the Bible instructs) but I am also realistic. We are only human and these days it is very hard to resist especially since marriageable age is being delayed due to education etc.
Virginity cannot be reclaimed but people can be more careful about how and who they sleep with.
As you know morals are declining and these days promiscuity, casual, non-commitment intimacy and one night stands are becoming more common place, acceptable and some people even regard it as 'healthy'.
People are unknowingly making soul ties with *all sorts* of numerous people and this can affect our future.
Thats why infidelity in marriage is increasing, divorces and marriage failure are more common. When so many soul ties are made with different people, it is harder to be faithful to one spouse because we have already shared that special bond with so many people.

Yes I do agree with what you refer to as 'soulish thing'. If you re-read my initial post you will see that I mentioned that there are soul ties related to intimacy.

God Bless 

Ha Ha !!! We have to many Ogbologbo guz in the House !!!!!

pls don't spoil we the innocent ones abeg ho oooo.

Thank you poster

how bout male virgins?

I wonder if any girl honestly wants to get married to a male virgin, i mean one that doesn't even know the right plug in socket. most virgins want a guy with enuff experience, do i lie please correct me

swiftycool:

I wonder if any girl honestly wants to get married to a male virgin, i mean one that doesn't even know the right plug in socket. most virgins want a guy with enuff experience, do i lie please correct me

You are saying the truth when you say most virgin girls want experienced men. I am not one of those kind of girls
I don't want my husband to have slept with a half the estate in the process of getting 'experience'.
If I keep myself for him, I want him to do the same! Sex is not everything.
Of course we will not be excellent at it but we have our whole married lives to get better - all the practice would be exciting and keep us from getting bored with our sex lives.

girl u have hit the nail on the head

No1 not all virgins bleed profusely when they fist have sex, in fact, even tho it hurts like hell you prob wont see any blood! what does the bible have to say about that?
no2 bravo bravo- whoever wrote that bullcrap must have thot he/she cracked the davince code, sounds to me like utter nonsense! HA
no3 how is ONE womans blood meant to secure a convenant
no4 what are the implications of breaking the convenant? i havent heard of non virgin brides getting hit by fruit trucks on the way back from the wedding?
no5 i got tired halfway through this. . . . .

the crap bible thumpers are pushing nowadays, blood convenant my ass

zebra543:

No1 not all virgins bleed profusely when they fist have intimacy, in fact, even tho it hurts like hell you prob wont see any blood! what does the bible have to say about that?
no2 bravo bravo- whoever wrote that bullcrap must have thot he/she cracked the davince code, sounds to me like utter nonsens[/b]e! HA
no3 how is ONE womans blood meant to secure a convenant
no4 what are the implications of breaking the convenant? i havent heard of non virgin brides getting hit by fruit trucks on the way back from the wedding? 
no5 i got tired halfway through this. . . . .

the [b]crap bible thumpers are pushing nowadays, blood convenant my backside

Why so angry sounding and harsh? All this wasn't necessary, if you don't believe then just keep it moving. Nobody is forcing you to believe this information. This is someone else's belief and she choose to share it in an open forum. Just be respectful.

@poster, i think this is actually some good information, thanks

@benz190
190 still maintains that same culture of going after Virgins~., ^{crap kant believe i still left my pic with that my old profile~}

angry no, harsh definitely, you have to be harsh with illiterate bible thumpers they give christians that actually read the bible and understand it a bad name!

Wat u wrote is very right my dear. itz good to keep oneself till the wedding 9t. imagine dating 20 guys b4 marriage and sleeping with them all! itz terrible. u ladies should learn from this and stop distributing it about.

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Girl846: I found this information somewhere and it alarmed me! It makes soo much sense and explains why people sometimes feel "attached" to people they sleep with (even when attachment was not part of the plan).

In the bible times, old times and in old traditions when a covenant is made between two parties, there is shedding of blood (then it was an animal).
It has been discovered that this is also the case when it comes to intimacy.
That is why virgins are initially meant to bleed when their hymen is broken! This blood is felt and shared between the two people having intimacy. (Although some virgins break their hymens due to heavy sports or whatever, but that's a minority group.)
The blood of a virgin is significant of a covenant made between the two consenting parties. This is why it has been advised in the Bible (fornication & adultery prohibitions) and from old times to give your virginity to your one and only spouse, because it is a covenant and a soul tie,

Please nairalanders be careful how you give and take people's virginity and also who we sleep with, there are spiritual implications, 

What do you think?

Yes Niaralanders, another virginity thread!

Girl846: I found this information somewhere and it alarmed me! It makes soo much sense and explains why people sometimes feel "attached" to people they sleep with (even when attachment was not part of the plan).

In the bible times, old times and in old traditions when a covenant is made between two parties, there is shedding of blood (then it was an animal).
It has been discovered that this is also the case when it comes to intimacy.
That is why virgins are initially meant to bleed when their hymen is broken! This blood is felt and shared between the two people having intimacy. (Although some virgins break their hymens due to heavy sports or whatever, but that's a minority group.)
The blood of a virgin is significant of a covenant made between the two consenting parties. This is why it has been advised in the Bible (fornication & adultery prohibitions) and from old times to give your virginity to your one and only spouse, because it is a covenant and a soul tie,

Please nairalanders be careful how you give and take people's virginity and also who we sleep with, there are spiritual implications, 

What do you think?

Yes Niaralanders, another virginity thread!

Girl846: I found this information somewhere and it alarmed me! It makes soo much sense and explains why people sometimes feel "attached" to people they sleep with (even when attachment was not part of the plan).

In the bible times, old times and in old traditions when a covenant is made between two parties, there is shedding of blood (then it was an animal).
It has been discovered that this is also the case when it comes to intimacy.
That is why virgins are initially meant to bleed when their hymen is broken! This blood is felt and shared between the two people having intimacy. (Although some virgins break their hymens due to heavy sports or whatever, but that's a minority group.)
The blood of a virgin is significant of a covenant made between the two consenting parties. This is why it has been advised in the Bible (fornication & adultery prohibitions) and from old times to give your virginity to your one and only spouse, because it is a covenant and a soul tie,

Please nairalanders be careful how you give and take people's virginity and also who we sleep with, there are spiritual implications, 

What do you think?

Yes Niaralanders, another virginity thread!

Na tru tak oooo Na tru tak oooo

Interesting and enlightening.

I once had a run-in with a sweet girl just outta secondary school, with a huge crush on me. Just a look a her and you'd want to do her. She was Slim and tall, with bossoms that dare you to try and touch 'em.

At the long run, We became close, and I grew quite fond of her. Then the "$ex" thing crept into my mind, so I called her up, then informed her to come around. D-day, she came over.. I started teasing her as usual, after a while I drew her close and gently planted a kiss on her right cheek, I did the same to the left cheek. Before I dived in to taste her lips. I must say that up to this point I didn't know she was still a virgin ...
To cut the long story short, I just zipped up. Kissed her again on both cheeks, got her dressed up.

Virgin or not u r attached to every persin u sleep wid