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Pregnant Nikkah. by abdulkayus(m): 10:39am On Dec 08, 2017
As salaam alaykum waramatulah wabarakatu,,,
My beloved brothers and sisters, its being a while but can we talk? Yes, I mean now!
Aqidhu Nikkah is a great Sunnah............ Walimah Nikkah is nice too.............. But when the bride's pregnant, When she walks down the aisle bearing a protuding belly, The Nikkah has being dishonoured. And the bed? Defiled Then, its no longer 'Islamic Nikkah' It is called ''Thanksgiving celebration because the couple has already joined themselves. This is the common trend these days, I dont admire nor applaude it. Be the Zawjah before you become a Umm. If you have never heard it, pls hear this now,,,,,,, . that Introduction is not Nikkah........ Engagement is not Nikkah......... Dating and courtship ain't Nikkah......... 'Will you marry me?' 'I will', is not Nikkah...... 'His papa and mama already know me' is not Nikkah......
Your fiance/fiancee is not your wife or husband....... You dont own his or her body and can't demand for it!
Nikkah is the ONLY license to have sex... Make the Nikkah bed before you make babies........ Stop forcing yourself on a guy/ brother by proposing To him by getting pregnant..........................................
Sisters, you are not suya, so no tasting!! !You hear me so? He wants to know if you are good in bed, You are not a store sample..... .........................Tell Him that. He wants to know if you are fertile, , ,You are not a lab rat.
You come with a price (Dowry),, , dont you?? Some items comes with nice packaging, and Until their price is paid, you cant open to see what's in it...... A man who pressurizes you for sex because your Nikkah is days away will ruin your relationship with Allah...BE wise He's not worthy of you. And finally, when sin blinds our eyes, We claim Love is blind the same way we accuse the devil for atrocities committed....LOL Allah Ta'ala already set His standards (Sharia). He is not negotiating with you(sunnah). Allah will not ask you to fornicate, Beware of fake news......
I have heard stories of ladies who received such news,,,,,, 'be pregnant before Nikkah'. Watch it!
Allah Ta'ala cannot contradict Himself. May Allah grant us deep understanding of His words.(Amin) Wallahu Alam Allah know best

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Re: Pregnant Nikkah. by Samusu(m): 10:45am On Dec 08, 2017
Very true bro

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Re: Pregnant Nikkah. by dupzy05: 6:51pm On Dec 08, 2017
abdulkayus:

As salaam alaykum waramatulah
wabarakatu,,,

My beloved brothers and sisters, its being a while but can we
talk? Yes, I mean now!

Aqidhu Nikkah is a great Sunnah............
Walimah Nikkah is nice too..............
But when the bride's pregnant, When
she walks down the aisle
bearing a protuding belly, The Nikkah
has being dishonoured.
And the bed? Defiled
Then, its no longer 'Islamic Nikkah' It is
called ''Thanksgiving celebration
because the couple has already joined
themselves.
This is the common trend these days, I
dont admire nor applaude it. Be
the Zawjah before you become a Umm.
If you have never heard it, pls hear
this now,,,,,,, . that
Introduction is not Nikkah........
Engagement is not Nikkah.........
Dating and courtship ain't Nikkah.........
'Will you marry me?' 'I will', is not Nikkah......
'His papa and mama already know me' is not Nikkah......

Your fiance/fiancee is not your
wife or husband.......
You dont own his or her body and can't
demand for it!

Nikkah is the ONLY license to
have sex...
Make the Nikkah bed before you
make babies........
Stop forcing yourself on a guy/
brother by proposing To him by getting
pregnant..........................................

Sisters, you are not
suya, so no tasting!!
!You hear me so?
He wants to know if you are good in
bed, You are not a store sample.....
.........................Tell Him
that.
He wants to know if you are fertile, ,
,You are not a lab rat.

You come with a price (Dowry),, , dont
you??
Some items comes with nice packaging,
and Until their price is paid, you cant
open to see what's in it......
A man who pressurizes you for sex
because your Nikkah is days away will
ruin your relationship with Allah...BE
wise
He's not worthy of you.
And finally, when sin blinds our eyes,
We claim Love is blind the same way
we accuse the devil for atrocities
committed....LOL
Allah Ta'ala already set His standards
(Sharia).
He is not negotiating with you(sunnah).
Allah will not ask you to fornicate,
Beware of fake news......

I have heard stories of ladies who
received such news,,,,,,
'be pregnant before Nikkah'.
Watch it!

Allah Ta'ala cannot contradict Himself.
May Allah grant us deep understanding of His words.(Amin)
Wallahu Alam
Allah know best

Asalam alaikum waramotullah plz I have some important question I want to ask if u can permit me privately
Re: Pregnant Nikkah. by iamgenius(m): 1:33pm On Dec 09, 2017
May Allah bless you for this.
Re: Pregnant Nikkah. by abdulkayus(m): 2:31pm On Dec 09, 2017
dupzy05:
Asalam alaikum waramotullah plz I have some important question I want to ask if u can permit me privately

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Re: Pregnant Nikkah. by Rashduct4luv(m): 7:16am On Dec 10, 2017
Alhamdulillah for this post. All what the op mentioned are common in our environment as a result of the prevailing culture or Western Civilization.

However we Muslims should always view our actions/deeds with the Islamic microscope i.e.

Checking how that action was done by our Prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam or from his companions.

Our environment is corrupted with many wild and corrupted views of marriage. We see baby mamas, boyfriend/girlfriend, pre wedding pictures, baby bump pix, singles already living as couple, handshake of opposite sexes, staying alone with marriageable opposite sex, listening to music and watching it's video, movies, etc.

May Allah Guide us to the truth and make us follow it.

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Re: Pregnant Nikkah. by Fundamentalist: 7:34am On Dec 10, 2017
We should also not forget to state that "a child born out of wedlock cannot carry his father's name neither can he inherit him" .

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