There is this girl I met during service. She was madly in love with me and gradually I started getting into her. Am just 21 but as a boti boy m quite tall and very muscular for my age and the girl in question is 26. She narrowly escaped sex with me due to reasons only my village people can understand. Then after that I passed out (pop). She still kept in touch with me then after two weeks of pop I visited her and we really spent a lot of time together. It was from there she started studying me. I just noticed the next time we met she stopped respecting me like b4 and most importantly she started resisting my touching her. Then after that any little thing she will say am not your mate and most of the time she's always making reference to my elder sister. Then fortunately for me I discovered from their CLO that was in my ppa then b4 his appointment as clo that she came to the Secretariat to check something in my file and after that she and her friends were discussing my age. Please wat can I do to regain my love for her despite the age difference?

One word for you, DISCONNECT! Before you hurt yourself. Na Big thin dey kill Bingo......

Pusyiter:
One word for you, DISCONNECT! Before you hurt yourself. Na Big thin dey kill Bingo......

Just like that

Can't you see she doesn't love you,or are you blind...

You said you are 21 and bae is 26, which means she is 5years older than you. Dude that age gap is too wide.
I am sure you aren't looking to settle down in the next 3-4 years, whereas in 3 yrs time, she will be 29.

Guy stop being selfish and let her go.

tell her age is nothing but a number. make her see reasons why you are best for her. moreover, shakira is ten years older than pique & they're still waxing strong

Your answer to this question will judge if you re an idiot or not.
When she is 28/29. Will you be ready to settle down with her? You will be 23 by that time remember. The girl wise pass you if you answer yo the above question is NO

Oh, you just want to explore and unlock her hole without marrying her abi? What's the essence of dating someone you will not marry.

Richnero:
You said you are 21 and bae is 26, which means she is 5years older than you. Dude that age gap is too wide.
I am sure you aren't looking to settle down in the next 3-4 years, whereas in 3 yrs time, she will be 29.

Dude stop being selfish and let her go.

Honestly this is the part that annoys me most when it comes to people mentality in this part of the world concerning marriage and so what if she will be 29 in the next 3 years? Okay good,she got married at 27 to another guy and then the marriage didn't last up to 6 months? But if she eventually ends up getting married to this 21yrs guy and live happily ever after?............
My point is lets stop putting pressure on people especially ladies making them rush into marriage

Babe wey wan marry, na em you dey mumu around with. Sorry for you.

U wan friend ur aunty abi?? abi na sex way u Neva collect from her and spending way u don do on her dey pain u? shift joor
btw......

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If you really like her. Just play calm give her space to come to terms with the age difference.
Make her feel secure, no childish shït. And see wonders happen..

Richnero:
You said you are 21 and bae is 26, which means she is 5years older than you. Dude that age gap is too wide.
I am sure you aren't looking to settle down in the next 3-4 years, whereas in 3 yrs time, she will be 29.

Dude stop being selfish and let her go.

dude u obviously care too much, that's the Genesis of ur problem.... Speaking from experience, I have Bin dating older gal's from time immemorial, they are way bigger and older than me.
All u have to do is show her u re man enough to be with her, stop bin a chicken, or forming posh...