4 times,4 gud times i shud have lost my virginity with my last 4 ex girlfrnds but i just culdn't do it nd anytime i don't,they break up with me calling me a small boi!The most painful was ma last GF,she came 2 ma house nd we started talking nd teasing each other then she said she wanted to drink "natural yoghurt" .At first,i tot it was this N100 plastic yoghurt she wanted so i got up 2 buy it next door,but she grabed me said she want to suck ma manliness.As she was tryin removin ma belt,i just push her away nd she fell on the floor,she got up took her bag nd called mi a loser and a freeeak then left.That was d last time i saw nd heard frm her, So what do u guys tink,am i psychologically impotent or theres sometin wrong wit me(i'm definately not a gay)

Ahahaha don't u get b*ners?

Maybe you are not ready yet. You shouldnt rush into these things.

You will get over this by waiting until you are with someone you love, are comfortable with and the right time
when you feel ready.

Djdamian:

4 times,4 gud times i shud have lost my virginity with my last 4 ex girlfrnds but i just culdn't do it nd anytime i don't,they break up with me calling me a small boi!The most painful was ma last GF,she came 2 ma house nd we started talking nd teasing each other then she said she wanted to drink "natural yoghurt" .At first,i tot it was this N100 plastic yoghurt she wanted so i got up 2 buy it next door,but she grabed me said she want to suck ma manliness.As she was tryin removin ma belt,i just push her away nd she fell on the floor,she got up took her bag nd called mi a loser and a freeeak then left.That was d last time i saw nd heard frm her, So what do u guys tink,am i psychologically impotent or theres sometin wrong wit me(i'm definately not a gay)

May I please ask, how old are these girls and how old are you? And what kind of girls are these anyways? Sorry, no disrespect but I really get disgusted at girls who ask so explicitely for sex   makes me wanna puke, I know some girls are like this but maybe i underestimate just to kind feel better about my fellow sisters, First of, i know u are a guy and maybe that's a guy thing, but you really should not rush or give in to pressure just because you "need to lose" your virginity. Second, if i were in your shoes, i would never even wanna have sex with a girl that tells me she wants to drink "natural yogurt". Is she your girlfriend? Or were you guys just friends? or you guys just met and she wants sex? I dont get it. I really believe you should do it with somebody who is not going to make fun of or make you feel uncomfortable because of your inexperience, somebody who at least cares for you. Third, with these kind of pseudo-hookers, do you know how many times she has said that to a man? Do you know how many men she's slept with, and had MouthAction with? Goshhhh   Sad state of affairs for young african women,

I certainly cannot buy this story.if u cannot behave like a roman why goin 2 rome?

then she said she wanted to drink "natural yoghurt
@Poster,
Keep fantasizing! better get laid and stop making up stories that sounds like crap.
Natural Yoghurt my arse!

These girls are 20,20,19 and 21 respectively, Honestly,i'm 19yrs of age,but i don't look ma age,i'm much older than ma age.Never-d-less pple ma age are already experts in it, Ma last ex girlfrnd which is 23,shes very wild nd nasty,funny enough she was d only girl dat knew my real age,she said that there was something she loved about mi but she didn't know dat i was sexually inactive, Others,i lied to them, they where all nymphomaniacs,they just wanted 2 try it out wit me mayb becos of i look so innocent,And wen i don't do it wit them,they dump me just like that, nd i do not beg people @ all,so thats how we end things up

please dont call me a liar, Cos ma post isn't a lie, This is a problem i have taking 2 many places and people.nairaland isn't d only place i av brought dis problem, Some pple even call me gay,dats why i put it in ma last statement, I posted ma problem here not 2 b insulted but to seek help, Thanks 2 u guys dat have said meaniful suggestions and advices,i appreciate it

@pweety,yeah i do have erections, But i just can't do it, I guess ebonyeyes is rite mayb i'm not ready 4 it lets hope dat it will not affect my future

Wow, it sounds like the poster doesn't know the meaning of Virginity, lol.
How can you lose your Virginity 4 times?
Please guys, be careful with the replies/advice you give to this poster as he might be underaged.

He's 19. . . lolz plse don't bully him!

Djdamian:

@pweety,yeah i do have erections, But i just can't do it, I guess ebonyeyes is rite mayb i'm not ready 4 it lets hope dat it will not affect my future

Yur just 19 no need 2 be in a haste. . .just because your guys r pumpin every1 shawty in d corner. . . or your babes dey request 4 am don't mean u should force urself 2 do it. . .do it when d tyme is right when u feel it's right ,dat probably ain't just now. . .remember u don't wanna regret later it's gud 2 take your tyme bro u will be proud of urself later.

Atleast you are not dealing with crabs (itchy d33k), syphilis, gonorrhea and HIV things your male friends are paranoid about. I have met guys who will fook anything that breathes but are too scared to get checked at the health clinic, they usually say ignorance is bliss. .

@ Poster: Yes, theres something wrong with u, terribly wrong. My diagnosis? YOURE FREAKN GAY!!!

I HAVE SEEN THIS STORY BEFORE ON NAIRALAND[size=30pt][/size]

19? Had my first Bleep at 16. And yeah a 25 yr old tot me. Lol, Funny huh. Sumtins wrong wif , go get laid ok. Bt wait i hav a drug wil get u in d muud wifout much ado. It is called BEAUTIFUL. U wuld be as Hot as a goat.

Hey dude, nothing is wrong with you, you're simply shy to be unclothed with a woman.
My advice to you is to try and break that barrier now with someone you really like; else it will affect you tomorrow.
You might find it hard tomorrow to get girls, it like karma, I'm saying from experience.
Do it now, and become a man.

The comments on here are interesting to say the least. If the poster was a girl telling this story everyone would be horrified that a guy dumped her cos she wouldnt give it up. But the poster is a guy and being accused of being gay! Very confusing .

Poster, dont worry about it. If your not ready your not ready, no big deal. Those girls werent worth your time anyway. When you find someone who really cares about you she will understand and go slow for you. Take it easy!