it is one thing to take it is another to steal .if a woman takes money from her husband s wallet it is not a crime.something u might want to buy something urgently and his not around at the moment the only money around is in his wallet i dont think it is bad but when intentionally take a huge some of money from ur hubby without telling him it is pure stealing, and it is very bad

Do u give ur wife enough money 4 housekeeping each month?

Things r expensive in 9ja these day.

If u increase her monthly money & she still takes from ur wallet, then, she is a thief!

Report her to an Elder cuz our kids copy our actions!

na wa oh! some peoples reply here amazes me!, just shows people different understanding of this marriage thingy!

@Poster if ur wifey picks a "few naira notes" from ur pocket, WTH is wrong wif it?, d day u married her was the day she had every right to pick 'em naira notes from ur pocket, if she were a girlfriend, i wld have been a diff ball game!
, and of course u knew she picked it, why d u have to go into asking her?, Nice answer from her anyways!

The two shall became one does not extend to paper notes with a face on it
The man should be happy that he has money that the wife can take and proud of himself for being a breadwinner.
However if the wife is earning and does not contribute to the house or if she knew the money was planed for something that could be annoying.

What about those women that open a secret bank account and save like 10-15% of all the money you give them. This will be without your knowledge, is it stealing?

@ chaircover, are you guilty? Talk now o, I know a priest that will pray for you, lol

I found out that my woman is prudent with cash. I want to allow her more access as she keeps money longer than me. That girl! She could sit on a million and stay hungry for two days except I tell her to take money. Sometimes I think she is too tight.

As long as u let him know u took it, no long thing.

My husband leaves his wallet with me anytime we go out.

I am the one that is tight fisted with money.

If i want small money or big money, i will use his credit card n let him know so he can plan how to repay it.

It is only stealing, if i do not let him know about it.

Technically it's 'our money' . . . so it cannot be stealing!

I don't frown on women who take their husband money, I frown at those women who use the money to do illicit things or give the money for things the man will not have liked to spend the money for.

every lady must know her husband and what he will allow and what he won't. She should also know how to persuade him when need be to get what she needs.

last time I checked its called stealing when one takes without permission and has malicious intent. only this morning my friend wanted me to defraud her husband. just a small amt really but good for me I just prayed early this morning to desist from sin and I had done this some years before, helping another friend lie to her husband. it was all so innocent in those days but I never felt calm about it.

I was going to steal from my husband, it was the in thing, and it even had a fun name but that was then, I was a child. Now I am no longer a child.

at time when my husband is looking for change he takes from my bag and when i notice i don't bother to ask him cos i no we are one his money is mine and mine his i only take money from my husband's pocket when i ask and he says he is broke and i now see he has money some where else i will just take and comfront him at times i use it for wat i need it for and when he ask we smile ova it there is noting like stealing between husband and wife pls cos my husband is me and i am my husband i uses to joke with him that him and everyting he has is mine

at time when my husband is looking for change he takes from my bag and when i notice i don't bother to ask him cos i no we are one his money is mine and mine his i only take money from my husband's pocket when i ask and he says he is broke and i now see he has money some where else i will just take and comfront him at times i use it for wat i need it for and when he ask we smile ova it there is noting like stealing between husband and wife pls cos my husband is me and i am my husband i uses to joke with him that him and everyting he has is mine

It is very bad 4 u as a woman 2 steal 4rm ur hubby's pulse,becos it is stealing and a sin in d sight of God. then if u find ur children stealing 4rm ur bag or hubby's pulse what wil u do[color=#990000][/color]

Sure it's stealing if the man wasn't told after the suppose stealing/collecting/removing

I'll put her under house arrest indefinitely.

You won't blame some women for taking their husbands without him knowing. Some men are just terribly stingy. When a man is free with the finance and discusses such issues with his wife, then such things will not happen.@ poster check yourself too. U might be difficult when it comes to money, so the only way she can get it is to collect it when you are not aware.

Let's face it, most men do not know exactly how much they have in their wallet. They are wasteful too. This is why their wives often think it is not such a bad idea to take money from them and even deny it provided they spend it on the home.