I still wonder what ladies gain from an elaborate wedding ceremony.It baffles me seeing mature ladies preparing for a one-day ceremony as if their life depends on it.The elaborateness of your wedding can never determine the success of your marriage.Instead of them taking time to study marriage book and listening to audio tape concerning matrimony, they are more concern channeling fund into a one-day ceremony.They try to impress their useless friends and ex.Two things that cause problems in marriage is money and sex. if your lady cannot manage both your marriage is bound to collapse.

Arthurwinner:


thanks slot... I think I should just stop seen her for now

Putting an end to this relationship will be the best option. Break up and wish her well

Take to the family section, you will get better advise there

dingbang:
Never marry a woman who lacks understanding...

Co-signed. That's all I could see in his post.

Papanwamaikpe:
Sissy spotted

ewu

Arthurwinner:


thanks bro.... but she kp crying

Don't let anyone push u into bondage wit emotional tears joor.
a lady once cried dat i shouldn't travel out to further my studies cosi might leave her, in my mind i was laughing cos i knw she was stylishly dating a guy i knw nd ve diverted her chats to my mail box.

Tell her to be patient till next year, wetin remain one don finish already.

vingeophysicist:
I still wonder what ladies gain from an elaborate wedding ceremony.It baffles me seeing mature ladies preparing for a one-day ceremony as if their life depends on it.The elaborateness of your wedding can never determine the success of your marriage.Instead of them taking time to study marriage book and listening to audio tape concerning matrimony, they are more concern channeling fund into a one-day ceremony.They try to impress their useless friends and ex.Two things that cause problems in marriage is money and sex. if your lady cannot manage both your marriage is bound to collapse.

God bless u, u re very much on point.

dollyjoy:
So he should leave her? Do you know what they have been through? What about appealing to her conscience, to be more patient?

Why are nairalanders so quick to advice others to leave their partners? Will you give them a "better" companion if they do??

never pressure a man to do what he don't wish. Instead they sit to discuss. Dec period is not always rosey for men of low class for example. She realise dat marriage is always sweet but she's yet to realise what will come next.