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'I Need Some Space': What Does This Mean In A Relationship? / What Do Ladies Mean By " It Is Well ".. / What Do Ladies Mean When They Say They Like Intelligent Conversations? (2) (3) (4)
. by phr0nesis(m): 3:17pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
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Re: . by Nobody: 3:22pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
To the best of my knowledge, you did what any reasonable person would since she wasn't ready to have a conversation with you, but to answer your question, she's in the right frame of mind to tell you what she meant by you're insensitive, careless, and heartless. 2 Likes |
Re: . by ubunja(m): 3:39pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
its obvious the problem is not with you. she's moody and u give her 3 days' space then she calls to say u're heartless then goes another period ignoring u?? dude why dont u just find yourself a normal GF. you wont win with this drama queen. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: . by phr0nesis(m): 3:55pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
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Re: . by Martin0(m): 3:56pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
There is little to no concrete
definition of "space" when it
pertains to a certain closing stage of
a romantic relationship. When
someone you were dating claims
that he or she needs "space," the
recipient has no idea what this
person means other than the fact
that they aren't going to see or talk
to each other as much as usual. It could mean many things, ranging from "I need to able to have sex with somebody else and not feel bad about it" to "I need to prove to myself that I can go through the day without seeing your face and hearing your voice" to "I'm so sick of hanging out with you but I don't have the heart to say it." The one conclusion we can draw from these different interpretations is that "I need space" mostly always has a hidden meaning or intention. !!!! 6 Likes |
Re: . by phr0nesis(m): 3:59pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
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Re: . by Nobody: 4:00pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
phr0nesis:Ask her what she'd like you to do differently in case of next time. What would work for Mr A won't work for B. 1 Like |
Re: . by phr0nesis(m): 4:02pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
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Re: . by phr0nesis(m): 4:03pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
kimbraa:Thank you. I'll try this |
Re: . by PeacenLove2: 4:09pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Op, this is quite simple. At first I thought maybe she didn't want to continue with the relationship. Guys and girls alike use the line "I just need some space " to break up in a lighter mode. But this case is obviously different. Looks like she was just having a bad day and was reluctant to share with you or anyone at the moment and you claim you care about someone and you left her that way for days, not cool. She obviously wouldn't do that to you case reversed. I think you guys just need to learn about each other very well, know how you both deal with challenges and you should be fine. Good luck, guys. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by Martin0(m): 4:09pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
phr0nesis:Is she not ur babe? |
Re: . by ubunja(m): 4:18pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
phr0nesis:understandable. but if your disagreements takes a third party to intervene then WTF!! are u gona always rely on others to help u solve your domestic issues. i never was a fan of mind games. if someone goes mute while u try to understand her problem only to get pissed when u do give her space its a big red flag. she is immature. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: . by Juliette05(f): 4:21pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
She is mulling over a new relationship 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:26pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
She's mumbled up with lot's of confusing emotions about u. So she needs space to think straight. Maybe u are always all over when u guys are together, and she simply need u to chill, just back off or be a friend. 2 Likes |
Re: . by phr0nesis(m): 7:38pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
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Re: . by sweetetlove(f): 12:44am On Dec 31, 2017 |
phr0nesis:she just needed you to hold her, women are complex and sensitive beings maybe she was having period cramps or just emotionally down. Next time just pull her into your arms and make her feel like she has someone that cares 2 Likes |
Re: . by Macgreat(m): 1:16am On Dec 31, 2017 |
Be careful Mr Man. These are the signs. . . enjoy them and when is time - Run! Obviously she is Emotional Unstable. You don't need such a woman in your life. You can see the level of confusion you are in right now. More confusion on the way. If someone can boldly say this things to you for not calling - boy! You are in for a bigger mess. But wait, most you date a Nigerian girl? Are there no good responsible girls out there? This sounds like she is the most normal Nigerian girl you've met. Forget about nationality or Origin and date a responsible girl who has control over her emotions. Wish you all the best. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by ksbusari(m): 1:20am On Dec 31, 2017 |
they think we r creative. we can create space 1 Like |
Re: . by phr0nesis(m): 1:07pm On Dec 31, 2017 |
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Re: . by popefuse(m): 2:09pm On Dec 31, 2017 |
She want to taste another joystick. Shikena |
Re: . by Nobody: 2:59pm On Dec 31, 2017 |
phr0nesis: Don't fall for this scam, they have been doing this for centuries and it won't stop any time sooner. It's called reverse psychology. She is sad because you are happy and wants to ruin your happiness by making you feel you are responsible. If not, why would she call you heartless, what heartless act have you done exactly or asking after someone's welfare is heartless and insensitive?? .. The truth is, women don't even know what they want, how much more Men. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: . by phr0nesis(m): 3:39pm On Dec 31, 2017 |
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Re: . by phr0nesis(m): 3:40pm On Dec 31, 2017 |
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Re: . by Konquest: 11:29am On Apr 22, 2021 |
Martin0:Spot on! |
Re: . by Konquest: 12:05pm On Apr 22, 2021 |
sweetetlove:Okay... lol. So she had to shoot verbal arrows at him by calling him: "insensitive, heartness, and uncaring." What kinda psychological warfare is that? Any way her dramatic reaction is kinda cute if it was done to gain her man's attention or true commitment after 10 months of dating. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by Konquest: 12:34pm On Apr 22, 2021 |
ubunja:Third party intervention... Big red flag. 1 Like 3 Shares |
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