midolian:
As expected. Every one accused of rape comes out to deny it in the end..probably because it is difficult to prove penetration.

And why is it that women of nowadays dont report rape cases immediately they happen? n why do we get to know on social media before the appropriate authorities? why?

No woman wants to be associated with rape.

this is the rout every one accused of rape takes , denial. I won't judge because I was not there but its on your conscience if you did it

The way I dey fear ladies these days because of rape allegations...

its like any lady am going to go out with in 2018, must sign a legal document that states she is here on her own accord.

Blackfyre:


You miss my point. My point was that, why will anyone use such thing as a publicity stunt even if our law system may not be that it, such thing will be too dangerous to toy with.

What is trending on SM; rape...what is his refutal "A growing brand" Who The FuçK Cares...it has all the xteristics of a publicity stunt...if it quacks like a BS and flies like a BS, my brother it is simply a BS.

This na why I no dey delete messages girls send me. Cos them fit put you for trouble.

Mariangeles:
No woman wants to be associated with rape.

True..if thats the case, then they should just let it go. why report the case much later after the incidence?

BruncleZuma:


What is trending on SM; rape...what is he refutal "A growing brand" Who The FuçK Cares...it has the smell of a publicity stunt...if it quacks like a BS and flies like a BS, my brother it is simply a BS.

Oh i see the logic there, it's the growing brand that refutes and in a way eases into our psyche as a reputable brand.. Arghhh, all na wayo

Lol.

Every sane mind would have known the allegation was false.

These women be playing the rape card these days, and stupid Nairaland girls be supporting them without knowing the actual facts of the matter.

Teewhy2:
Rape is a strong allegation that must not be taken lightly. I don't want to believe this is not the girl trying to get back at the guy maybe they had a one night stand and the lady was hoping to continue with the relationship with the guy but the guy isn't interested. The guy is not denying knowing the lady's friend or having anything to do with her but has said he hasn't done any photo shoot for females this year. I want to believe there is more to the two stories.

There was no photo shoot does not mean he couldn't have planned for fake photo shoot with the alleged victim

Blackfyre:


Oh i see the logic there, it's the growing brand that refutes and in a way eases into our psyche as a reputable brand.. Arghhh, all na wayo

you don see am bah...Its just too convenient remember Chidimma Okeke she got so talked about that Pornhub reached out to her...SM trends, Ebuka's tailor overpricing his BS tailoring, Efe's musical career, Davido and WizKid's beef...eeee too plenty to mention.

midolian:
True..if thats the case, then they should just let it go. why report the case much later after the incidence?

it's hard to report even harder to let go...it's complicated.
Only rape victims can understand.
Most of them never recover from the ordeal, it haunts them for the rest of their lives.

midolian:
As expected. Every one accused of rape comes out to deny it in the end..probably because it is difficult to prove penetration.

And why is it that women of nowadays dont report rape cases immediately they happen? n why do we get to know on social media before the appropriate authorities? why?

Till it has been truly proven that the guy actually raped her am not believing her. She might actually be lying because she knows the society we live in,that once dey talk about rape it’s the guy who’s at fault.

He didn't call me back is the new "He raped me."



Women ain't shït.

Blackfyre:


You miss my point. My point was that, why will anyone use such thing as a publicity stunt even if our law system may not be that it, such thing will be too dangerous to toy with.

Because there is something called bad blood, we don't know what transpired, he might have promised her something and didn't give her, after sleeping with her, we can only assume.

dey shud drag themselves b4 ogun shrine and1 swear with thunder

plz I advise y'all to go to xvideos and check groped category or hidden cam ..and see for your self what I have seen.. we need to redefine what consensual sex really mean cause me I am not understanding .. I took my time to watch 14 hidden cam video and I can't but draw my conclusion on the obvious fact ..that most rape allegations should be taken with a pinch of salt ..a girl visits a guy and he starts touching her she rebuffs him but he kept on disturbing some how raised her skirt before she say jack Robinson he is in ,,he rides her for fifteen minutes cums and goes for a second round this time she willing ..now this girl can go out and claim she was raped after all she rebuff him the first time .,even though subsequently she enjoyed it or moaned 5mimute into the act ,,,,the truth remains she was not willing but later on consented and even went for a second round do we still call that rape ..

Wesporting:
Few hours ago MandyNews https://www.nairaland.com/4261257/temitayo-ilesanmi-t.i-nathan-raped reported that lady accuses this fashion designer of raping her friend.

T.I Nathan (@Temitayonathan) has quickly gone on Twitter to debunk claims that he raped the girl.

He wrote:

"Over an hour ago, I began to recieve several calls and text seeking to draw my attention to the allegations being made on Twitter against my person. Rape is one very sensitive issue that is beginning to occupy the front burner of social discourse online and offline. I am greatly concerned about this allegation, as I would be if this involved my mother, sister and friends. I have read through the thread and the allegations and wish to expressly deny that I raped anyone as alleged or at all.
In light of this, I encourage the 'whistleblower' in good conscience to refer this issue to the appropriate government agencies for investigation. I am willing and ready to submit my self to scrutiny in order to clear my name.
T.I Nathan is a growing brand and we’re all aware of the damage that allegations such as this could cause the brand. I have instructed my lawyers to take active steps immediately to see that justice is done in this, without compromising the identity of the alleged rape victim.
I wish to however state for the record that that T.I Nathan has NOT done any female shoot this year. I hope everyone who is following this issue would be circumspect. I believe at the end of this, I will be vindicated."

https://twitter.com/Temitayonathan/status/947105041374203905

Source: http://mandynews.com/2017/12/30/fashion-designer-t-i-nathan-temitayonathan-denies-rape-allegation-pics/

Awon rapists!

Am sure d boy had refused to date her...am having a feeling dat she lied


Wen ur being raped u go straight to the police and not the social media.It annoys me d way people hav misused social media

Girlfriends need to be careful of friends rape allegations. Some girls are too stupid or too vengeful that they will stop at nothing to make false claims.

The truth would have been so easy to get if only people will swear by ogun, sango or amadioha...sharp sharp we will get result and whoever is lying will n wasted.

Honestly guys need be more carefully with the kind of ladies u roll with...Why i so hate rape allegations., unlike any other allegation.,society sees the guy guilty until proven innocent...

Mariangeles:
I sincerely hope this guy is innocent of the charge made against him...it's not by posting crap online claiming you're innocent.
There's something about guys that are into fashion, it's either they're gay or a hopeless womanizer

Don't be stupid. For stereotyping them really show how hopeless you are. spit.

midolian:
As expected. Every one accused of rape comes out to deny it in the end..probably because it is difficult to prove penetration.

And why is it that women of nowadays dont report rape cases immediately they happen? n why do we get to know on social media before the appropriate authorities? why?

The stigma is the problem. Also, the police may treat the victim more like a wise ass who got it coming. Basically saying she asked for it.

The police report that 10% of rape cases are men who have been molested most likely be other men.

If it was you, would you report it?

sarafa68:


Don't be stupid. For stereotyping them really show how hopeless you are. spit.

No...you're the stupid one with no home training.
Didn't your mummy teach how to make your point without insults or you grew up on nairaland where manners don't exist... NONSENSE!

The victim should go to the police rather than social media

The only issue I have is why wait from Feb to Dec to make the claim when the trail is already cold?
A rape victim should first go to the hospital. A doctor is bound by oath to be discreet so you can be rest assured no shaming there. Get a medical report to show you were raped or physically assaulted. Take a snap shot of your bruised face or knuckles because for rape to occur you of course weren't just lying there except you were drugged and in that case you want to do a check of what was pumped into you. Keep the pictures and results in your mailbox. If you can get him to confess via audio or chat, try. Go through therapy if you can afford it, keep the receipts.
Then you can heal. Take all the time you need to heal and get over it because talking about it can be really distressing and seeing the perpetrator can bring out too many emotions and cloud your reasoning too.

By the time you're ready to speak, you have all your facts intact and you're going for the jugular not all these false allegations.

#MeToo

Mariangeles:
No...you're the stupid one with no home training.
Didn't your mummy teach how to make your point without insults or you grew up on nairaland where manners don't exist... NONSENSE!

See who is talking about manner. Mtcheew.

Just when you finish generalising all tailors(including me) as gay and hopeless.

Never again should you quote me with your miserable ass, this is the last reply you get from. Oponu.

sarafa68:


See who is talking about manner. Mtcheew.

Just when you finish generalising all tailors(including me) as gay and hopeless.

Never again should you quote me with your miserable ass, this is the last reply you get from. Oponu.

You're the miserable one...giving yourself so much importance... don't be silly!