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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by Nobody: 7:43am On Jan 02, 2018
ur uncle is at fault, d woman needs child asap, instead of nagging u should volunteer and help ur uncle out.
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by Nobody: 8:01am On Jan 02, 2018
ojjp:
Happy new year nairalanders!
My uncle got married about 11 years ago to a lady who was a 'bad girl' but pretended at that time to be a changed person. 10 years after the wedding till now, no child.
Right now, she is going wild after men and the evidence is clear.
What could be her problem?
Could it be the delay in child birth, or something else?
How do i tell my uncle because he doesnt have a clue on this stuff. I really want to tell him but which approach do i use please?
I need help.


Now put yourself in your Uncle's shoes. If your wife was cheating on you and your nephew found out, would you not appreciate he tells you?

Please tell your Uncle and let your conscience be clear. If said Uncle later finds out and realises you knew all along, he will not be happy with you.

Go and tell your Uncle everything you know
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by jaxxy(m): 8:03am On Jan 02, 2018
sinceraconcept:
do you have any statistics to arrive at this? almost every girls cheat? and how come everybody doesn't have HIV by now? speak with tangible statistics conducted in at least 500k people from all zones in the country

Ok and If i tell u almost all men cheat will u also ask me for statistical evidence from sll zones of the country?
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by sinceraconcept(m): 8:25am On Jan 02, 2018
jaxxy:


Ok and If i tell u almost all men cheat will u also ask me for statistical evidence from sll zones of the country?
stop the hyping thing bro. there is a perception that men are naturally polygamous but I've met a lot of married men that say they can never cheat that what are they looking for outside when they have a beautiful wife inside,even some don't have beautiful wives. I've met many married men like that and they stick to their words,you would never see them cheating. I've met many guys like that also that say "oju kan lada temi ni' meaning that their cutlass has only one sharp edge. they say they date only girl at a time and would rather let the relationship go rather than cheat on her. its high time we stop putting everybody in bad image in this country because it only promotes immorality. the rate at which Nigerians exaggerate such things is just so alarming
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by lexy2014: 8:33am On Jan 02, 2018


Eldest of the family?
Must you be the eldest to diplomatically and lovingly communicate in such matters?
That's why I included, Be wise about it.

Knowledge is youth is wisdom in age.
when it comes 2d marital issues of others, wisdom demands that u stat clear until u are invited. even being an elder as I mentioned doesn't give a person d right 2 question d fidelity of any of d partners without d consent of d other partner
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by mechanics(m): 8:41am On Jan 02, 2018
just keep praying for her.
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by cardoctor(m): 9:00am On Jan 02, 2018
Tell him
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by Nobody: 9:07am On Jan 02, 2018
SirMichael1:


Ma, stop using the emboldened please.

You could use 'You've got' a point" or "You have' a point". It upsets my comprehension. Don't get angry for the correction please....

Lol... Right back at ya. You started with the blame on the man's potency 'cause you fight for women. The doctor might term them medically fit to reproduce but no result. I'm still studying why people would be medically fit but there won't be an issue. Fibroid causes some though.
What's the difference between "You've" and "You have?". You're funny!.
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by Alaminalpha: 9:16am On Jan 02, 2018
Do not listen to the dullarss telling you to hold your tongue. you owe it to your uncle to spill the beans on the cheating B****

Use a new sim card to drop an anonymous message or phone call.
Better still, send the evidence in pics to his email or through a courier.

Good luck
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by vallyjohn: 9:18am On Jan 02, 2018
am a guy but i think nairaland is being one sided they keep posting evil women do unlike men
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by NiRfreak(m): 9:51am On Jan 02, 2018
kimbraa:
If it's actually because her womb is destroyed, she won't be testing other men. What explains her actions is due to the fact that her husband is impotent.
You get sense so? So You think if she knows she has no womb, that it can't make her fvck around. u no get sense at all. I'm not surprised. all of you are all cheats, promiscuous and subtle prostitute. For the record, a woman who does not have any pregnancy scare will go around to fvck even without condom. its just like pornstars and women who have done contraception. They fvck around with reckless abandon. ode
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by jaxxy(m): 10:16am On Jan 02, 2018
sinceraconcept:
stop the hyping thing bro. there is a perception that men are naturally polygamous but I've met a lot of married men that say they can never cheat that what are they looking for outside when they have a beautiful wife inside,even some don't have beautiful wives. I've met many married men like that and they stick to their words,you would never see them cheating. I've met many guys like that also that say "oju kan lada temi ni' meaning that their cutlass has only one sharp edge. they say they date only girl at a time and would rather let the relationship go rather than cheat on her. its high time we stop putting everybody in bad image in this country because it only promotes immorality. the rate at which Nigerians exaggerate such things is just so alarming

U got me wrong i don't support cheating most especially in marriage bt i always look at facts on the ground and deal with the issue from there. I believe we still hv a good number of men who dont bt those dat do is quite alarming. Im guessing in every 10 men only 3 probably dont and im being generous. We can't act like it doesn't exist that's wat im trying 2 say. The reason why men cheat may help tackle or solve this problem i think.
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by SirMichael1: 10:39am On Jan 02, 2018
kimbraa:
What's the difference between "You've" and "You have?". You're funny!.

I told you, it doesn't sit well with comprehension. It's like substituting 'I'm' for 'am'..

You've is read together, same as I've.

You can't use both words (you've a) without a conjugation between them.

More like saying... "I've mine" and "I've got mine" or "I have mine". When it's seperated, then you're correct.

The only thing that is allowed to come after 'I've' or 'you've' when 'a' would follow is a conjugation linking it to the next word. Kinda vague right?

...but I've met funny people'- correct
...I've a funny person- wrong

I don't really have it in me now to do some long boring schooling on you.

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by efighter: 10:43am On Jan 02, 2018
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11: And to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you, 12: so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by SirMichael1: 11:03am On Jan 02, 2018
sinceraconcept:
is it an African program?

Nah. It's an American documentary. They document weird stuffs that go on in an emergency room.

There was an incident that occurred during Halloween where a guy cut himself so bad and was dropping blood, his girl had to call an ambulance to take him to the hospital.

Now here's what happened. When he got rushed into the ER, the doctor were gonna start stitching when he said no, he has a fear for needles. The doctors were like, "if you don't get stitched, you're gonna bleed to death"

They gave him anaesthetic but didn't sedate him (dunno why though) but he kept on insisting on no needles. The doctors had to leave his girl to talk some sense into him. You need to watch the argument they both shared. Very annoying. He obliged after everything..

Then there was one again. This lady somehow managed to feel a bug screeching in her ears deep within....

It's a very informative program
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by Dcentglobal(m): 11:45am On Jan 02, 2018
Talk to your God about it. He will give you the perfect solution to help your uncle out of this mess.
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by Nobody: 11:54am On Jan 02, 2018
SirMichael1:


I told you, it doesn't sit well with comprehension. It's like substituting 'I'm' for 'am'..

You've is read together, same as I've.

You can't use both words (you've a) without a conjugation between them.

More like saying... "I've mine" and "I've got mine" or "I have mine". When it's seperated, then you're correct.

The only thing that is allowed to come after 'I've' or 'you've' when 'a' would follow is a conjugation linking it to the next word. Kinda vague right?

...but I've met funny people'- correct
...I've a funny person- wrong

I don't really have it in me now to do some long boring schooling on you.
Alright.
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by frozen70(f): 7:38pm On Jan 02, 2018
ojjp:
Happy new year nairalanders!
My uncle got married about 11 years ago to a lady who was a 'bad girl' but pretended at that time to be a changed person. 10 years after the wedding till now, no child.
Right now, she is going wild after men and the evidence is clear.
What could be her problem?
Could it be the delay in child birth, or something else?
How do i tell my uncle because he doesnt have a clue on this stuff. I really want to tell him but which approach do i use please?
I need help.
Pls for your own sake ,leave your uncle wife alone, your safety and progress is your priority right now not monitoring someone's wife. Women are wicked and deadly if anyone stands on their way.
Others saw her and overlooked because they want peace in their life, for the fact that she is barren makes her a wonder lion. Stay clear pls and fear women.

Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by frozen70(f): 7:42pm On Jan 02, 2018
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Pls for your own sake ,leave your uncle wife alone, your safety and progress is your priority right now not monitoring someone's wife. Women are wicked and deadly if anyone stands on their way.
Others saw her and overlooked because they want peace in their life, for the fact that she is barren makes her a wonded lion. Stay clear pls and fear women
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by MrIcredible: 8:18am On Jan 03, 2018
zinachidi:
I suggest u hold your tongue. tell on the wife and she go begin dey carry unnecessary akpo for u. if u tell and they have issues and divorce, u'll inevitably be termed homebreaker. I assure u the man will find out soon enough by himself.


but incase your tongue is itching u and u really want to tell, take a hint from nollywood and tell anonymously.

Afo Ohuru oma.
Shut up!
If your wife was cheating on you, would you like your cousin who is aware to tell you or not? I'll delete your stupld post.
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by tonytheme(m): 3:24pm On Jan 03, 2018
ojjp:
Happy new year nairalanders!
My uncle got married about 11 years ago

How is it yours talk about. Home breaker on the run[color=#990000][/color]. Why don't you allow your uncle to find out himself. Taking panadol for another person's headache


Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by Nobody: 8:04am On Jan 12, 2018
zinachidi:
I suggest u hold your tongue. tell on the wife and she go begin dey carry unnecessary akpo for u. if u tell and they have issues and divorce, u'll inevitably be termed homebreaker. I assure u the man will find out soon enough by himself.


but incase your tongue is itching u and u really want to tell, take a hint from nollywood and tell anonymously.

Afo Ohuru oma.
tonytheme:
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Pls for your own sake ,leave your uncle wife alone, your safety and progress is your priority right now not monitoring someone's wife. Women are wicked and deadly if anyone stands on their way.
Others saw her and overlooked because they want peace in their life, for the fact that she is barren makes her a wonded lion. Stay clear pls and fear women
So he should hold his tongue while his uncle is in a risk of contacting STDs from the wife?
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help by IIjulius(m): 12:22am On Sep 15, 2019
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