'Your View' TVC, 4 January 2018, Programme Was A Manifestation Of A Woman Hypergamous Desire

“woman should fu*k the bad guys in her party years but when it's time to be married, she should marry the 'good guy' because what makes the 'bad guy' so good with sex may not make him so good or suitable for marriage” -Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook

When I first wrote an essay about the Feminine Imperative FI (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/13/the-feminine-imperative-in-cooperate-world/)goal of achieving the dualistic nature of women, some people think it was just theory and a figment of my imagination. Today watching Your View on TVC this morning has helped to reveal the manifestation of the FI. The FI has become stronger with the advancement of technology, recently we saw this happened in Iceland where it's now a crime for women to be paid less for doing same job as the man, feminism which in the last six decades became a part of the FI made women believe they can have it all and then settle down later like the man.

Dualistic Nature Of Women

The dualistic nature of women makes them pre-select the suitable man for long term relationship LTR (marriage), the choice is between settling with the man who can meet her sexual, emotional needs with a good gene to have her children, and the man who's a social provider to meet her social needs, ready to take care of the children (of another man), so she can have the opportunities to go all out to live the life of her party years all over again. Basically, she need the Alpha Fu*k AF to satisfy her sexual needs and the Beta Buck BB for social provisioning and parenting needs.

Freedom From Consequence

It's no surprise to see a woman today, say she want to do what makes her happy – that's exactly what the FI is about, the goal is to make the woman believe she can have it all, while she's at it, sex is spontaneous and happens at the right place, right time and right moment. It's something that just happen. No judgment – freedom from been judge by other women, family or the society, having it all is the feminist religion, after all the sex and fun in her party years with the 'bad guy' AF, and when its time to settle down she will seek for the man that meet her hypergamous desire. She has no regret for her pre-selecting condition because a woman's hypergamous desire don't care who's man's ox is gored.

Now if she can't get a man that fulfilled her dualistic nature, she will make sure she's with the man that meet her desire for social provision and then seek the guy that will fu*k her so good. This is why women seek out for the older man with higher sexual marketing value that meet the social provider-ship role and then bang young and hot guys. They rationalized by saying the older man (Beta Buck) gives them freedom – freedom to cuckoldry.

The Inevitable Biological Wall

For the today woman, after wasting her party years to careerism, spontaneous sex, her mind hardened by so much investment in feminism equality propaganda and achieving her 'goal' in the process, when about to hit the biological wall with a declining sexual attractive value, her younger sisters sexually more attractive and gaining more attention, they want the man that meet their standard i.e their dualistic needs of a good gene and social provider-ship, when this man is not found, woman begins to blame the man for her inability to find the right man, she will blame him for not been serious and committed, there are no good men anymore, she will blame the biological nature of men for placing so much on visual or going after the young attractive woman, despite all her accomplishment.

In Your View, a caller actually asked if the guest was a Virgin? Men need to know that the medium is the message not the the talk when dealing with women. A woman who's involved in cuckoldry is easily recognized by how she say what she says, does what she does, her sense of dressing etc. - the medium is the message not what she says. Like I have written before in past essays, the woman want to have it all including been able to Bleep that hot guy she just met without strings, no judgment. She will rationalize it like.. it's just happens, the chemistry was strong, it was the right place, right moment etc.

The 'I Still Got It' Mask

The religion of the Feminine Imperative FI is for the woman to have it all right now, and settle down later with the man (good guy/Beta Buck) who meet a woman's hypergamous desire. Women never realized that they are been fed beautiful lies only until when they are about to hit the biological wall. A woman has one single decade in her life to prepare for all of her remaining years. Presently she is been taught to waste that decade. Use it to make herself happy, pursue a career and have it all like the man...but she cannot have it all, unfortunately she only realized this when it's too late. Her sexual attraction declines as she get older, but the FI recognized this and want her to believe she can apply make-up and go for plastic surgery to mask her blemish.

The Invasion

The FI have taken over the man space, it's every where, the Main Stream Media MSM is part of it, the feminized man (the self proclaim feminist) is part of, the social media is part of it, schools are now part of it, politics is part of it etc. They now set and control the narratives of inter sexual dynamics between man and a woman, only this time she want the man to man-up and accept her desire to have it all without consequences, she knows this is not possible but what can you expect from a creature whose decision are based on their ever changing feelings?

Mansplaining?

This is not mansplaining or claiming to know and tell the woman what her problem is, NO! No one actually cares about you, we already know the lonely woman will ruin herself if not now, at old age if allowed to have her way today. This fact just need to be said and for the Man to know that it's a jungle in the dating market right now, and to adopt the bitter truth or be ruined by an outdated idealistic concept of love.

wow wow wow. this is so on point OP. waiting for the feminist to come and have thier say but mehn OP you have communicated wella.