1. Work hard for your money and be your own person, don't turn a guy to your ATM machine because you're in a relationship with him, he's not dating your wahala.

2. If you don't like a guy simply let him go, stop leading him on and friendzoning him, stay away from him as well

3. If you're not romantically involved with a guy, refrain from visiting him, being alone with him but if you must, it has to be in a public place, if you get raped its kind of your faullt.

4. Don't leave your drink unattended to, if you must, discard it and request for another when you return, in otherwords trust no one.

5. Don't spend his money if you won't be with him, its like washing your mouth with water you can't drink

6. Stop being loose and too friendly, you often end up sending the wrong signal and guys easily mistake little gestures as a greenlight

7. Don't be quick to open your leg because he's a smooth talker, sex doesn't keep guys and some get bored of you after a while, abstain if you can

8. Stop dating more than one guy at a time, I'm sure you're keeping your options open but think about the hearts you're using to play ping pong

9. Stop dressing in a sexually provocative manner if you don't want people to treat you like a slut, guys aint robots,they feel things just like you and I, that pervert who tried to touch you in a sensitive place did that because you tortured him emotionally with that exposed part of you.

10. Always try to know if there's a future with him, you can ascertain this from his character, how he treats you and how responsible and hardworking he is

11. Stop being a live_in girlfriend, moving in with him and performing wifely roles doesn't give him the impression that you're wife material, infact it reeks of desperacy, and you sort of offered yourself on a platter of gold, how generous of you.

That's all.

Misypee:


3. If you're not romantically involved with a guy, refrain from visiting him, being alone with him but if you must, it has to be in a public place, if you get raped its kind of your faullt.
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guys you heard that? if you see a gal stranded alone or needing help walk away. you will be called a rapist.
and male managers never invite female staff into your office alone, always have many people present as witness against a potential rape accusation.

Many girls are guilty of number 8 and once they start, to stop is problem.

But number 9 chooooiiiii, only God go save them. They don't even know they provoking anything let alone repenting.

lemme book this space down incase an e-brawl ensues later in the day cos it seems the main e-fighters (feminists and masculists) are aiint online ATM


meanwhile oga ubunja you're a clown

the only problem I have with the list is 3....rest on point

Good write up babe

one of the best post av read in this forum so far