There is this family friends of mine, they are notorious for making their neighborhood uncomfortable at nights. On the 08/04/2010 night at about 2:00 am I received a call initially I do not want to answer at second thought I picked the call.

The husband asked me to come early morning that him and the wife were having serious marital problems, though is not new to me that they are having problems in their marriage.

Since that time am short of ideas of how to wield into their matter, can the community help me out with suggestions on how to tackle the problems that they are going to present to me.

since we have no idea what the problems intale noone can give you any idea of how to deal with them. just sit and listen to both sides equaly. dont let either interupt, dont ignore one or the other or take side based on gender, age or how long you have known them. once you have the information at hand you will be better prepared to help sort through it

Stay out of their wahala.

Stay out of their Constant Fights and Quarrels and you'll see that they would stop.

ask them to see a more qualified person to help them out. maybe the best man at their wedding;the pastor, or whoever is well positioned to counsell them

i guess you are a single person,because you didnt mention your own spouse, if my asumption is correct,then i would ask you to avoid helping couples;being a single person disqualifies from counselling a couple. what do you know of marital life anyway?

its just my opinion. if i was married,i wouldnt trust an unmarried person to counsel me on matters of my marriage.

hope i was of some help.

thanx

@topic koboko with 2 heads!

Ask them to go and see a marriage councellor. shikena!!!