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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by salmonkas178(m): 9:45am On Jan 17, 2018|
That's is so heartless of her....later ladies will say men are scum...I'll advice you look for a better lady and impregnate her.....why would a wife build house and wouldn't inform her husband of 6yrs? It looks like a joke to me....
In fact i don't even know what to say.....
Your parent sees better that's y they didn't bless the union....pray and God will lead thou through
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 9:50am On Jan 17, 2018|
Ariel20:have you read that love turns to hatred. Do you know how it feels spending your last kobo because of love. Do you know how it feels spending time and resources to make things work and in the end you get betrayed. If you are not in his shoes don't complain. I have been there
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 9:50am On Jan 17, 2018|
graciously2013:the same Abuja she refused to relocate to.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 9:56am On Jan 17, 2018|
sweetlaw:wisdom is not in building house but finding solution to your problem. Who will inherit the house?
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 10:00am On Jan 17, 2018|
Brugo:that's a wise woman. They make kings. I say it most women that are happy in marriages understand men. Except a useless man.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by stevenpaige: 10:05am On Jan 17, 2018|
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 10:12am On Jan 17, 2018|
uzuede4:why are people being silly. This isn't about children. This is about not having a companion or a helper. Shop comes and go... why can't she leave her shop and stay with her husband in Abuja. It's not about children. They are not best of friends. They are apart!
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 10:15am On Jan 17, 2018|
9ja083:does she need to be taken to a Dr. Can't she go herself. Ho often does she visit her building and church, how often does she visit the hospital. You think it's all woman that want kids. She is finding happiniess being alone an that building will sure help her.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Oyindidi(f): 10:23am On Jan 17, 2018|
majekdom2:Okay, enjoy your day
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by sniperr007: 10:36am On Jan 17, 2018|
madridguy:What is the answer
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Optimisticlady: 10:38am On Jan 17, 2018|
U hv already made up ur mind that there will be nothing good coming out from d marriage and d woman sensed it and decided to be wise. But how are u sure d second woman cannot be wiser n d future. My advise is if you can mend fences with ur first woman and show her love and make her understand she is in a safe hand you will see things turning around for ur good.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Adebowale89(m): 10:43am On Jan 17, 2018|
even at that, his wife declined of moving with him shows the marriage had lost its breath longwhile. thanks for pointing out that though
my main thesis was his parent against their marriage not the analysis of building house without his consent or not moving
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Amarisa(f): 10:47am On Jan 17, 2018|
You are right @bolded..He needs children and he's been enduring all these years, he feels she's not reciprocating his love...
Op pls have a one on one convo with your wife,communicate your feelings to her and vice versa..You can sort this out..Your wife is also going through some things you may not know..you mentioned her being scared of your parents throwing her out..talk to her gently, she will open up...its well with you..
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by id4sho(m): 10:47am On Jan 17, 2018|
paix:is it true story
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Adamrealman78: 11:06am On Jan 17, 2018|
I am a worthless sinner, not claiming to be a saint, but the affection that I show my wife in the 6yrs of marriage has been outstanding, my parents don't communicate with me, my siblings see me as been jazzed by her,at a time told me I was in an unviable relationship, I went with that same wife to the siblings wedding, had a lot of convincing to do cause they said it to her face. I still declared my love for her.asides her being a Christian, she lost faith in God ,saying why should God allow her to go through this, my remarks are,Is there ANYTHING God can't do.I am a living testimony to two miracles which I would share after God does this! I am short of words but after all my travails,God shall take all Glory. I pray for peace that surpasses human comprehension in all your lives.God bless you all.
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by niquee: 11:11am On Jan 17, 2018|
The way the word 'divorce' is flying right left and centre from most commenters makes me wonder how our society ll be in the next 10yrs. Op, if I were you at this moment, all you need is to calm down first. With the way you are sounding, you may end up regretting your words in 3months time. Spouses are not material thing you can easily replace because of clusters of problems arising in a particular period. What both if you need now is a professional marriage counselor that will upbuild and help you make your marriage beautiful again. Stop ranting in nairlaland in order to get sympathies n to score cheap points. Children are gifts from God. Listen to the inner voice of reason and calm down. I ve seen so many people that have gone through this path you are following now, they ended up regretting on why they didn't work more on their first marriage. Most times they strongly wish to go back to their first spouse despite the alleged badness found in the wife. Both of you are so hurt in different level, however the high tension existing between you two is blinding you to the voice of reason n making you focus on the negative traits. Stop involving your parents and siblings. Your wife is your main family now, others are extended. Let Love, Commitment, Faithfulness, Closeness and Honesty be the watch words in your marriage. In 5yrs time, you guys ll look at this problem and laugh it off. You ll equally be satisfied and happy that you guys were able to stand against this trial. May God bless you and your wife and provide you with all your heart desires.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by msylva2147(m): 11:12am On Jan 17, 2018|
Vyolet:then she shouldn't have asked him for the money in completing her project.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Osasmd: 11:13am On Jan 17, 2018|
Efewestern:Na man him be jare...what Kind of Wife would that make her if she cannot give her husband 20k out of 200k...mtcheew..
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by msylva2147(m): 11:41am On Jan 17, 2018|
Adamrealman78:don't mind that olosho, they both birds of the same feathers that flocks together.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by msylva2147(m): 11:49am On Jan 17, 2018|
FloraEC:can you see your life? where in the write up did the op mention barren or name calling, you just jump into conclusions because you are equally the type.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by msylva2147(m): 12:00pm On Jan 17, 2018|
frozen70:you are the only lady that made sense amongst all the ladies on this thread
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by judgedredd22(m): 12:07pm On Jan 17, 2018|
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by judgedredd22(m): 12:11pm On Jan 17, 2018|
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by godofuck231: 12:17pm On Jan 17, 2018|
madridguy:OK let's try this one, I de listen, and old in English
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by solasoulmusic(f): 12:22pm On Jan 17, 2018|
I tried to read everyone’s reply before I said something the first thing that I noticed is the distance has barred communication and that’s probably a red flag in developing intimacy in a marriage or even any relationship also the comment that she wasn’t sure you will answer do you have an unhealthy way of not answering the phone when your upset? Many people do and they think it’s cool but in an emergency it’s dangerous it happened to me the guy I Love when upset can totally blank you not pick up not respond you don’t exist but guess who I won’t put on my emergency call list it’s just life doesn’t mean I won’t love him he never used to be like that but the love won’t stop because of that it finds a way. My second point you are both married to your careers and it has put a strain on your intimacy kids do come From God but more importantly two loving souls ready to create. Ready to fight for each other in honesty, truth and faithfulness.
Love is so spiritual that you can actually see the truth staring at your face but strength is when you can discuss it maturely instead of getting Angry did she put the house in your names that’s the question here because if she didn’t she has no plans to stay married to you even in a relationship I’ve made sacrifices that were slept on that a wife makes for her husband it’s all about his level of maturity and hers.
Women are everywhere but a wife helps you and makes life easier for you with the help of God.
Be careful of those who love material things they tend to treat you just as such
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 12:33pm On Jan 17, 2018|
do the magic,fly her abroad and they will remove the damn blocked tubes.......
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by msylva2147(m): 12:42pm On Jan 17, 2018|
sugah:the op is not talking about child here but keeping things away from him and not being supportive.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by FloraEC(f): 12:42pm On Jan 17, 2018|
When you posted first you didn't call upon God, you've already told yourself you're the best. So please don't try that pity party stuff. I'm still judging based on your previous posts.
1: Are you trying to say that since 6years of been married that your wife never showed you affection and love? But been callous to you?
2: Do you think is easy for her to swallow everything been said to her by your family?
3: What did you do concerning the infertility problem, is your SFA test perfect? Or were you expecting her to do everything by herself or a miracle?
4: Are you going to swear that your wife never told you about her plans about building house? What was your reaction? Did you listen to her or were you all Africanized "not under my roof" brouhaha? When she tell you something, do you listen to her? Cos if a woman hide something from someone, you'll never ever find out.
5: Did she cheat on you? But you have already cheated on her and planning to marry.
6: Are you also trying to tell us that since you have known her that she has been stingy and materialistic to you?
Next time if you want people to hail you and massage your ego, move it to romance section not family section and also try to be honest cos you've really labeled the woman(your wife for 6years) unkind, cruel, and without sympathy or feeling for other people. I'll love to hear from your wife's side of the story.
God bless you too, Shalom
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by chatupkay: 12:45pm On Jan 17, 2018|
I never wanted to comments on this. But, i had to
because u r such a wonderful and understanding woman. I wished all women could understand how d a guy's mind work. "FIRE FOR FIRE" approach in marriage don't usually provides a positive result.
U r such a rare gem.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jan 17, 2018|
So she holds her pastor in higher esteem than you. Issorait.
|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Sammye(m): 1:48pm On Jan 17, 2018|
Adamrealman78:No one seems to reason along side the OP. It's not that she built a house, but the fact that unlike an African man he closed his eyes to the fact that his wife couldn't bear him a child which is the fruit of marriage yet she did not reciprocate the Love he is showing to her.
Anyways OP, you did your part as a MAN even tbough I would not recommend your action, but since you have moved on, this advise might not be applicable to you
Guys, it's, high time we learnt that marriage supersedes Love and infatuation. Although love is much needed in the Holy union but it's not enough to keep a man and a woman together for a long time. Seek the face of God, go for counseling, check your compatibility rating, if your old folks object to your marriage dig into the matter deeply because they are old and wiser.
LOVE IS NEVER ENOUGH
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|Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by boyjo: 1:56pm On Jan 17, 2018|
olisehcom:How did you manage to guess he was cheating?
Adamrealman78 this is the answer you seek. You are the cause of what your wife is doing to you.
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