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Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by sweetlaw: 7:52am On Jan 17, 2018 |
eyinjuege: He is making them up just to score some cheap points. Mr. Fruitful husband, all these problems u mentioned can be treated. Fibroid can be removed, fallopian tube can be unblocked and if she is ot ovulating, she can be treated and d ovulation will come, so what is ur excuse? What was ur diagnosis, tell us so we can also advice u on how to get treatment because I believe u must have been testing dff women yet non have been pregnant for u 1 Like |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Gkemz: 7:54am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Kids who don't understand the meaning of marriage entering into marriage. Building a house without your consent is not enough reason to divorce her except there are other things which you are not telling us. In the first place, let's address the foundation. If your people rejected her, why did you go ahead with marrying her. If nobody forced her on you, then you must as a man take the responsiblity of your action. She's your wife, try and to know why she's behaving that way. Don't let the opinion of outsiders ruin your relationship. Be a man, confront every challenges posing as a threat to your family. Women are emotional beings and they tend to easily yield or give in to situations around them. She maybe passing through trauma and shame of not conceiving after 6yrs of marriage hence prompting her to make a decision to relocate. Though she should have consulted you but you don't have to hold it against her for too long. Try to treat her well and she'd open up to you because it seems like there's a communication gap between you and her. If you treat a woman like a queen, she'd treat you like a king. 1 Like |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Brugo(m): 7:59am On Jan 17, 2018 |
NoToPile: Lol. Cos she collected her money back (probably with interest) and her husband doesn't realise it. No stress, no argument but she has made her profit. Simple. I respect that. |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Whobedatte(m): 8:01am On Jan 17, 2018 |
GrammarCheck:This beautiful piece changed my mind. God bless u |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by libertyfather(m): 8:11am On Jan 17, 2018 |
jasper83: Best comment on this post only few will understand the bolded and see reason I give ur comment the best( to me me anyway) 3 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by NoToPile: 8:11am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Brugo: No need to fear now. A lot of women don't know the kind of influence they have, just normal influence power. The man will exert authority, the woman will just keep calm let him shout and show he is 'the man' then influence him to do her bidding quietly with or without him realizing it. It's one of the silent powers women have. 1 Like |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by samuk: 8:13am On Jan 17, 2018 |
keepingmum: Did you read the part he said he gave her #800k for the roofing after the deception? And when he tested her by asking for for #20k she refused despite having a balance of #200k. Some women is to take all they can and jump ship if the man find himself in a situation when he is not able to provide as much in the future. 1 Like |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Funkybabee(f): 8:22am On Jan 17, 2018 |
[quote author=alizma post=64262639][/quote] So that one na blame,I just quote his mistakes anyway I can't judge without hearing from other person |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 8:22am On Jan 17, 2018 |
keepingmum:and she told him because a "pastor" told her to do so. Most women are the ones that let people like freeze insult pastors. How do you reason? People maintain the houses.. did he boast about the 2 houses. Call a spade a spade. This is a woman that has hurt a man here.you are all about and so?? Who is against a woman building? Why didn't she tell her hubby? Why did she deny? She couldn't tell a right from wrong until she talked to a pastor. Please think well. 2 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by sweetlaw: 8:22am On Jan 17, 2018 |
safarigirl: He has been cheating and expects the wife to just fold her hands and watch everything taken away from her. He has been cheating yet no pregnancy or babies from his side chic meaning he is the one who is infertile. Man, go and check urself jor. I give the woman three gbosa. Her head dey there. No be this 21st woman go mumu till she enter grave 3 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by cbrass(m): 8:23am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Iseoluwani: Bro i can't blame Adamrealman78 it has happened to me too, though slightly different from his. Though I don't like adultery |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 8:24am On Jan 17, 2018 |
keepingmum:na d woman no get another husband for lagos |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by kekeolu(f): 8:26am On Jan 17, 2018 |
To me, you are looking for ways to justify your unfaithfulness. Before a woman can do such she must have seen your unpredictability and possibly your irrationality. Thumbs up for her, she's smarter than you think. Excuses such as your parents non acceptance of her is a bullshit. Marital survival is not based on excuses as these. .Success in marriage is the ability of the two people involved commitment. I can see that to you marriage is not for better for worse. How I wish we could here your wifey' s side of the story! Good luck to the unfortunate girl who thought she has seen husband!!! Pansan ta fi na iyale..........,.. Your life your cup of coffee |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by pattybf(f): 8:27am On Jan 17, 2018 |
cooker: Every man is a cheat, op clearly stated he is cheating anyways! Glad d wife is wise, she has no future beside him. Who knows, op may even be infertile, but he is here applauding himself for being wt a childless woman! |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by kekeolu(f): 8:27am On Jan 17, 2018 |
To me, you are looking for ways to justify your unfaithfulness. Before a woman can do such she must have seen your unpredictability and possibly your irrationality. Thumbs up for her, she's smarter than you think. Excuses such as your parents non acceptance of her is a bullshit. Marital survival is not based on excuses as these. .Success in marriage is the ability of the two people involved commitment. I can see that to you marriage is not for better for worse. How I wish we could here your wifey' s side of the story! Good luck to the unfortunate girl who thought she has seen husband!!! Pansan ta fi na iyale..........,.. Your life your cup of coffee. Men like you forming victim since that day of Adam. |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Adebowale89(m): 8:29am On Jan 17, 2018 |
you end the marriage the day you come up with the idea of renting a house for her in Lagos while you're at abuja. with due respect sir, if you have good motive, you would have move with her to your resident in abuja you expose a woman when you give her total freedom, do u know how many friends she would have made while in lagos? but there would have been a restrictions if she's staying with you overthere. I'm sure those friends corrupt her mind "evil communication they say, it corrupt good manners" you're even angry because she's building a house, you never can tell if she has been cheating on you with another man. I just believe you guys ain't meant together, destiny just want to teach you a bitter experience of 6years of parental disobedience |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 8:30am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Vyolet:wiser by building a house or building a home. Until you Africans stop seeing these materials things as the ultimate especially the women. You will never find happiness. Will she live in the house alone? Isn't marriage supposed to be a journey for 2. Wisdom is knowing what to do and doing it. 2 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 8:32am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78:they think you ll be stupid to come on here if you are the one with a problem. It just shows the level of brain drain in t society. |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by uzuede4(f): 8:34am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Donald3d:My broda ask am |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Rollins777(m): 8:34am On Jan 17, 2018 |
She is greedy and she will never change, the TRUTH of it is that she don't love you,with her building completed,she will no longer respect you,she will be hopping she will roof over her head if you Bleep up,just God intervention. |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Heavance(m): 8:34am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78:Ehnnnn, you say wetin? She told you to resign from federal whaaaat? Sir, please you need your peace of mind. Are some women this wicked and heartless? So she will prefer you sitting jobless in Lagos, or with one 50k salary, while she is getting bigger than you. Sir, you need whatever makes you happy, do whatever makes you happy, please. 2 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 8:35am On Jan 17, 2018 |
olisehcom:why hasn't taken a walk since she isn't happy?? Is building a house an option if the marriage ends. Is it the solution to her barreness? Vanity upon vanity. Living a life of no impact! |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 8:40am On Jan 17, 2018 |
FloraEC:another foolish post. So why did she decide to build a house instead of using the money to treat herself. She is there waiting for a man that can impregnate another woman. She sshould keep waiting and keep building. Borrowed 800k to build but not to treat herself. She isn't bothered about childbearing. Who know if she has a womb. 1 Like |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Busybodyii: 8:41am On Jan 17, 2018 |
keepingmum:God bless you. |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by olowobaba10: 8:41am On Jan 17, 2018 |
THIS IS A VERY USELESS AND NONSENSE POST keepingmum: 3 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 8:42am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Amarabae:Good bless you. You are good woman. |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by ipain: 8:44am On Jan 17, 2018 |
madridguy:say what? Say it again? So allowing someone make a fool of you is the best? Over my dead body. 2 Likes |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by cbrass(m): 8:44am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78: I feel your pain sir, I really do. Don't mind those people saying rubbish over there. They are mostly toddlers or those who have not experienced your situation. It would have been nice if you quit marrying her after seeing these signs in her. I saw this sign too in my babe who is now my ex by the grace of God. She has never given me 100naira before in the almost 3yrs of dating. I also thought like you too that she will change if I show more love and spend more but it even became worse. Am lucky am not married to her yet |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Heavance(m): 8:44am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78:Another wife is not the solution at this stage Sir, it looks like it is, but think deeper, and you will know it isn't. The new one may turn out worse than you ever imagined...... You legal wife probably did all that, in order to have something to fall back on (based on experience with other women). I won't advice a divorce, as I am not the one in putting on the shoe right now.... but you really need time to cool your head. Why not try to address the issue of her inability to get pregnant, do everything to make her have your child, you both need to relax and be stress free, in other to get pregnant. I just feel if she carries your child, she will feel secured with your name...... but for now, she probably wants to secure something for herself. just my 2 cents |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by ipain: 8:45am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Adamrealman78: She never loved you. |
Re: I Would Divorce Her- My Wife Is Callous by Nobody: 8:45am On Jan 17, 2018 |
frozen70:God bless you. Another wise woman here. I am sure the lady refused to relocate to abuja because of her shop and house she is building. I love ladies that think like you. 3 Likes |
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