Samrocker:
Please I really need your advice. There are two girls that came my way, but anytime I brought up the idea of moving on with on and leave the other i just got hooked up in a delimar situation.

The first one, we meet each other at church so I asked for her number and she gave me, but after friending her for a month I shoot my shot and we started dating. But through out the relationship she never allow me to near her phone but she did collect mine, so anytime I asked for her phone she will find an excuse not to give me. But still i love her to the extend that if she ask anything from me I will do that without thinking twice. even tho i asked her for sex she said she wonna keep her virginity and i dont argue with her..but her suspicion act push me away that I don't pick or call her anymore.


The second girl, we meet at a bank. I could remember i was at the ATM queue then when she also came to withdraw money, so to cut the story short. I also asked for her numb tho she felt reluctant to give me but she later did.. And after i hit her on watsApp. I really caught her attention on watsApp wit som funny chat that she is later fond of me. But to my greatest surprise she is the one that shoot her shot. She said is adapting to me within two weeks we have been friend so she said she really like and and want us to be in a relationship.. Tho i don't expect that from her Cus its too fast and i haven't develop any affection for her but i respect her feelings and moved on with her. At the first date with her, we had a hot romance that lead to "3ex " despite the fact that have never spend a penny on her since we meet . she take care of the bill herself ..

But the first girl sent me a strong message that I even pity her and it shows i broke her heart for no reasons.
My question is should I go back to the first Lady I loved or I should continue with the one that love me?