I have a friend who has been in a relationship with this guy for close to three years. Recently, the guy protects his phone like his life depends on it and his behavior got my friend worried. She then took his phone when he was in the bathroom and went through his text messages and whatsapp messages only to see disturbing text messages and chats between her man and another girl. My friend knows the girl even though they haven’t really met. There were so many love messages between my friend’s man and the girl. My friend was heart broken and she confronted her man who admitted that he was seeing the girl but they have already broken up and he only cheated because he was confused. My friend forgave him and continued the relationship. The thing now is that she doesn’t trust him anymore and she keeps going through his phone and from the messages on his phone, it seems her man is still seeing the girl. She doesn’t know if she should confront her man again or harass the girl. She really loves her man and doesn’t wanna lose him. I advised her to just chill and not talk to the girl but I’m beginning to think that wasn’t a very good advice. What do you guys advice? Should she fight for her man or just pretend like he is not cheating on her?

Yes!!! She should even buy ammunitions

She should put more effort, tell her to keep the pressure on her bf otherwise husband snatcher would stop at nothing.

She should call the girl and tell her she going to kill her with juju if she no leave her man.

... Ammunitions?? Ewo.

vengedre:
Yes!!! She should even buy ammunitions

How? She's trying her best na? Will she now kill herself for the guy??

fuckerstard:
She should put more effort

Its always a friend's story

I like this.

fuckerstard:
She should put more effort, tell her to keep the pressure on her bf otherwise husband snatcher would stop at nothing.

She should call the girl and tell her she going to kill her with juju if she no leave her man.

... Meaning gini?

sweetetlove:
Its always a friend's story

It's you Op,isn't it?
You still want to remain with a cheat?

DerahAlex:
How? She's trying her best na? Will she now kill herself for the guy??

She need to let him know she aware they are still dating, and she wants it to end. Literally she has to fight for her man sha

I just don't subscribe to the idea of fighting for love, if the man truly loves and respect her he would not continue with the relationship with the other girl after been caught. Except she wants to play second fiddle she should face the reality of the guy no longer loving her.

if the relationship is worth fighting for..
she should buh wisdom should be applied in doing so...

DerahAlex:
... Meaning gini?

meaning I like your story

My friend says she loves the guy. That's the problem.

thorpido:
It's you Op,isn't it?
You still want to remain with a cheat?

That's what I thought too but it's hard for her. She Don dey cry since.

Olalan:
I just don't subscribe to the idea of fighting for love, if the man truly loves and respect her he would not continue with the relationship with the other girl after been caught. Except she wants to play second fiddle she should face the reality of the guy no longer loving her.

DerahAlex:
My friend says she loves the guy. That's the problem.

Dey dia dey deceive yasef.

Wahs dis one now?

thorpido:
Dey dia dey deceive yasef.

it's clear that the guy did not love her....a relationship without trust is just like a building without a solid foundation...which usually collapse at the end....she should move on.....

From what I read that relationship has no future,If you don't trust a guy then why be with him.He is not worth fighting for she should leave him alone.

DerahAlex:
My friend says she loves the guy. That's the problem.

love is kinda stupid sometimes..
buh sometimes its best we face reality and not be blinded by it..
if shes sure the guy is still in a relationship with the another girl i advice her to leave..
dont be a relationship where your not valued is poisonous..

She should get her man a sex doll. Everything wee be fine afterwards.

Blackhawk01:
She should get her man a sex doll. Everything wee be fine afterwards.

will you keep kwayet

DerahAlex:
I have a friend who has been in a relationship with this guy for close to three years. Recently, the guy protects his phone like his life depends on it and his behavior got my friend worried. She then took his phone when he was in the bathroom and went through his text messages and whatsapp messages only to see disturbing text messages and chats between her man and another girl. My friend knows the girl even though they haven’t really met. There were so many love messages between my friend’s man and the girl. My friend was heart broken and she confronted her man who admitted that he was seeing the girl but they have already broken up and he only cheated because he was confused. My friend forgave him and continued the relationship. The thing now is that she doesn’t trust him anymore and she keeps going through his phone and from the messages on his phone, it seems her man is still seeing the girl. She doesn’t know if she should confront her man again or harass the girl. She really loves her man and doesn’t wanna lose him. I advised her to just chill and not talk to the girl but I’m beginning to think that wasn’t a very good advice. What do you guys advice? Should she fight for her man or just pretend like he is not cheating on her?

Tell her to master her emotions and thoughts. Relationships don't go smoothly the entire lifespan of most relationships. This is an excuse to harbor grudge, if she has sense, she will let it go, otherwise she can bail and start a new search ( But what's the guaranty the next one won't do the same? Love comes with risks, tell her this.

this is what i will do if i am that your friend...i wil call the girl and my guy without letting both of them know,then the three of us will meet at a place..then i wil ask my man if he loves the girl? and ask the girl if she loves ur my guy?...finally i wil ask my boo if he loves me?and tel him he has to end it with one of us right now..and if it turns out to be me.then i wil move on with my life....tell your friend if she continue like this....the guy she claim she loves is preventing other men from coming into her life.we are created to enjoy life...

sweetetlove:
Its always a friend's story

I tire ooh.

we know its u. Dunno y some gals no just get sense. if a guy cheats on u dumb his ass, if u cheat on him will he not dump u too. shallow weak fish brained gals everywhere

Any love that causes you to always cry and question your sanity is not worth it......


Your friend should get her emotions together and move the F on

Nice.

Zykod:



Tell her to master her emotions and thoughts. Relationships don't go smoothly the entire lifespan of most relationships. This is an excuse to harbor grudge, if she has sense, she will let it go, otherwise she can bail and start a new search ( But what's the guaranty the next one won't do the same? Love comes with risks, tell her this.

marvin902:




will you keep kwayet

Is everything okay with you, sir?

DerahAlex:
Nice.

Words of wisdom, stay in it, and fight to defend your territory, whatever is left unchallenged is easily taken away, it's time to use the terminology " my man ",n the principle to protect her interests

Blackhawk01:


Is everything okay with you, sir?

yeap
advice the chick oga not telling to buy sex doll haba