This is a serious topic and needs serious advice.

I love a lady. The lady is my mind and soul. I did not attempt to touch her as s-e-x was not the only thing in love (as i felt). we have discussed lot of things - our future, our present and ofcourse the budgets. More precisely, she is a banker and i am a software engineer. Things never match when both are in different professions. Her job is not 8 -5 nor is mine but she plays with numbers and i play with systems. But our case is different, as we understand each others feelings and the job demand. BUT, BUT, things went bad after some days, she stopped attending my calls and more important, she refused meeting me. I thought maybe its just another form of job demand and i gave her space and i continued to engage myself in my profession. But suddenly i hear from the newspaper about her wedding to some guy.

Did i give too much freedom to her.

Poor you.

Most women look at men who do not show sexual interest in them when in a relationship as being abnormal. Some think you probably don't like them enough or that you are not attracted to them.

So next time . . . .

@poster
that is to say you two never understood each other as much as you thot
the fact is not about you giving her much freedom or what so ever
there might be a probability that she never liked you as much as she should have
and you are not her kind of guy
anyway the deed has been done move on and learn from your mistakes

Yeah,move on.She wasn't yours to begin with or she won't be getting married to someone else.

adetoru:

Yeah,move on.She wasn't yours to begin with or she won't be getting married to someone else.

^^That is very true.

whenever am reading stories on nairaland, is like am watching a movie. What I find interesting is the
newspaper bit, why would a newspaper published news of ur ex gf wedding, is she some sort of celebrity,
or is her husband to be one?

Its not all about the sex,dont let the he-goats in here deceive you. She just wasnt meantfor you.