TonyeBarcanista:
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What manner of advice are these? Why should he stop doing what is appropriate in order to pamper his wife? She sould be learning good manners from him not the other way round.

Dear OP, PLEASE, don't stop showing appreciation to your niece! She is your niece, your blood and not some domestic help!

Your wife should get used to it but DON'T STOP!


Heaven will not fall

Domestic help are not worthy of appreciation?

ifyalways:
Since your wife is petty and won't let go, please stop the thank you sir. No point breeding enmity between them when you won't be there to save the poor girl from your wife's claws.

Thank you

Of course, your hypocritical nature displayed in all its glory. If roles were reversed, you'd have denigrates the man for having selfless esteem issues and a fragile ego and trying to bully. The woman in question sounds mentally/emotionally unstable.

Thanking his nice is the most benign, humane thing ever. You even threatened him with the possibility of the wife maltreating his niece because of thanks, because of fucking thanks. I truly doubt your capacity to empathise.

Mr. POTUS01, call your wife to order. Your house, your rules. Or if she wants to have all your thank yous, tell her to cook and serve you, that should be the quickest way for her to ensure your nice doesn't get any more thanks. Mark my words, if you capitulate on this, she'll do something more silly and you will still ask for even more ridiculous stuff.

One thing with women, never compromise on your values and principles. NEVER. NEVER. She will chipping away at you until you've got nothing left and you become a shadow of yourself. It's better to divorce now than 20 years down the line after you've given the best years of your life to her. When she wants to leave you cannot stop her. So, live everyday with her on your own terms or regret on the long run.

It's very funny when people who are not actually married, cannot even keep a relationship Kpa Kpa quote me when giving their textbook advisory on marital issues.

Internet warriors. You can drop your opinion without canceling mine or getting into my mentions, yes?

oyb:


Domestic help are not worthy of appreciation?

Of course, they are!

But within the context, she has NO moral standing to raise any objection to him appreciating his niece