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Man Shortage Is An Assumption by Orikinla(m): 8:37pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
Do we really have shortage of men or shortage of eligible bachelors? African-American women are the ones making so much fuss about "man shortage". But we do not have scarcity of men to marry in Nigeria. In America, there are more unemployed men than women, and of course jobless single men are not eligible bachelors. Most women will be afraid to date a jobless man if his future is bleak. So, there is really no shortage of men, but shortage of eligible bachelors. If your man has lost his job, please do not dump him. That is when he needs you most. See how you can help him to become self-employed or bear with him until he gets a good and legit job. Job security or financial security makes a man to be confident to date and marry, but without such security he is afraid of getting hooked or hitched. If women are ready to marry men regardless of their class, creed or colour, then they will not complain of man shortage. |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by hollandis(f): 8:39pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
Go sit down one place jor |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by fashionkid(m): 8:42pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
Well i guess u have just answered d question.poster |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by Nobody: 9:01pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
hollandis: Orikinla's actually right. |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by Sonofpeace(m): 10:10pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
@poster, plz next time you've to sound more logical. You just answered yourself. |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by Nobody: 10:26pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
I guess it's appropriate to post this Youtube link here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvosgtF6voI&playnext_from=QL&playnext=16 Man Shortage, by Lovindeer. |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by Orikinla(m): 1:56pm On Apr 19, 2010 |
My point of view may not be the final answer. The assumption of man shortage is not what anyone can dismiss without understanding the problem and how it affects the millions of single women in America and Nigeria. You see why single women are having relationships with married men in America and young single women are having babies for married men in Nigeria or you see one man having five different girlfriends My American friend has 10 girlfriends in different cities in the United States and he came to Nigeria and proposed to marry a Nigerian woman who fell for his sweet tongue. Then he returned to America to continue playing around with his girlfriends and he is in his 40s. He even boasted that he got one of them pregnant. His girlfriends are being misled until they end up as old maids or senior singles who whine about man shortage. They would have been married years ago, but they were chasing after players who took them for a ride and dumped them. So, the sooner they stop chasing the bling bling the better their chances of finding good men to marry. Others are free to agree or disagree. |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by Nobody: 2:04pm On Apr 19, 2010 |
Orikinla:true da most women complaining about the male shortage want perfection. And when looking for a perfect man, there is going to be a shortage in all races. Plus, these women are not perfect themselves. |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by ssumpta(f): 2:23am On Apr 20, 2010 |
I agree poster. D same thing for men who say good girls are scarce. They re everywhere. |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by johnterry4: 6:34pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
there is shortage of men and shortage of gud women |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by lordkrato(m): 12:45am On Apr 21, 2010 |
ssumpta: Sorry that does not go as true, "Men shortage" is caused by "Good Girls Shortage", if not You wouldn't hear "He who find a wife, finds a good thing" |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by johnterry4: 11:20am On Apr 21, 2010 |
lord krato: I LIKE DIS |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by tpia1: 6:22pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
Is it? |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by 100Cents: 11:10pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
Girls, running after success since 1635.. |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by 100Cents: 11:11pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
tpia1: Is it? Yes, is it.. |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by tpia1: 1:28am On Aug 30, 2014 |
^ evidence? there is no shortage of actual males, there is just a shortage of males to marry. |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by mencade5(m): 8:49am On Aug 30, 2014 |
Orikinla: My point of view may not be the final answer.me i agree ooooo many ladies are the architect of their own failure. Many of them cannot deny the fact that at certain point in their lives they have not encounter good and nice men who were serious with them and who wanted the best for them. For where! Most ladies are spoilt. When they were young they deemed it fit to enjoy life partying up and down, dating numerous men, trying to beat their friends in the dating game and of course in the ''sex game''. They want to be label as the best fvcker of their time. Not using their senses to know that time waits for no ''woman''. Before they could realise the reality of life they are almost 40. That is when they disturb pastors up and down for miracle husbands and forming saints in churches but all these showings is just for them to marry a man. If they succeed you will see the real devil in them. Make i talk true, i no dey pity ladies again oooo. If you like cry blood you are own your own. Wetin i want tell them again wey them never hear? *rides my bicycle out of thread* |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by mencade5(m): 8:51am On Aug 30, 2014 |
100Cents: Girls, running after success since 1635..hahaha.....i thought it was 19 bc. Your version is the updated one sir. Hahahahaha make i go re write my own |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by 100Cents: 8:56am On Aug 30, 2014 |
mencade5: hahaha.....i thought it was 19 bc. Your version is the updated one sir. Hahahahaha Your signature dooorh ! Dating more than one bf is called membership ! |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by 100Cents: 9:02am On Aug 30, 2014 |
mencade5: me i agree ooooo My guy, one girl wan turn me to mugu because we have been dating for 5 months now and I didnt ask her for sex not knowing she is dieing for it. She called me " castrated man " last week. Nah him i come shine my armor again. She has numerous male friends who I know that at least 30% of those guys are sex partners. Each time I complain how often she picks calls from men, she hushes me. Okay ? Me way be proper guy man way don park for future marriage sake. I swear she go scream today and turn the lover while i turn the monster.. I dey on top her mata now before I turn permanent mugu. Your guy dey hotel room dey wait her now. |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by mencade5(m): 9:05am On Aug 30, 2014 |
100Cents:hahaha...my brother its true. The last lady i dated. After i wooed her, she accepted but told me she has another guy but she still accepted me as her boyfriend. My brother no be membership be this? Most naija have countless numbers of boyfriends. Check their phones, their text messages, their bbm and whatsapp, there you will what your mouth cannot talk. Yet when you ask them they ''are you in a relationship''? Their answers will shock you. I dont know, maybe your girlfriend too is in a membership. Hahahaha.....i no dey oooooooo 1 Like |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by 100Cents: 9:07am On Aug 30, 2014 |
Orikinla: My point of view may not be the final answer. This is exactly what is happening. Big and beautiful.ladies chasing after.bling bling and fake guys while they tag the honest marriageable.man as a mugu. Hmm ! These people... Infact we may graduate to impregnating them. Smh... |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by mencade5(m): 9:12am On Aug 30, 2014 |
100Cents:chaaiiiiiiii.....o boy that girl dey crase. Na crase dey worry her. But u fvck up ooo. 5 months u no shine her congo? She tell u no sex till marriage abi? Abeg i wish i fit transfer all the power of twenty men. So that you nack her left right and centre. Me you no pity the babe abeg. No be like that then dey take get woman for marriage na. Try look for another sensible girl as par marriage tins. Go for younger generation. But i go like to hear the complete details of this sexcapades oooo. Goodfvck my brother |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by 100Cents: 9:20am On Aug 30, 2014 |
mencade5: chaaiiiiiiii.....o boy that girl dey crase. Na crase dey worry her. But u fvck up ooo. 5 months u no shine her congo? She tell u no sex till marriage abi? Abeg i wish i fit transfer all the power of twenty men. So that you nack her left right and centre. Me you no pity the babe abeg. No be like that then dey take get woman for marriage na. Very fresh school girl @ 24. Her beauty turned her a player but I have handled her type before so nothing new. I was drifting to marriage side treating her like my younger sista not knowing she wants escapades. If I still want to wife her, just trust your nigga. The rate way girls dey take ask for hotel Tinz these days is scary but this one deserves the effort.. |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by mencade5(m): 9:51am On Aug 30, 2014 |
100Cents:hehehe...hotel to some naija ladies is like going to america. Them like am die! Most times the lady u care so much about turns out to be a public toilet. It has happen to me before. Just do ur tin bro. |
Re: Man Shortage Is An Assumption by 100Cents: 1:28pm On Aug 30, 2014 |
mencade5: hehehe...hotel to some naija ladies is like going to america. Them like am die! My bro nah pretence the girl dey pretend for me since. I am seeing things now. I dedicate this weekend to her bashing. She is probably a fork about.. Details later ! |
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