menaxe:

Dear palz,, Blieve me!! I have been actin a gentleman 4 d past 1yr.Since she startd actin in strange wayz,, She abusez and insultz any öne no matter how big! I guess she took ma gentleness as weakness, cos Each time she uses those abusive wordz i alwayz say thank u 2 her,bt d more i do this the more she getz worse wt her disparage, I hv 2 slap her kos it wz too much, Nd hav since apologized 2 her nd her friendz who wanted ma head 4 supper, "She said it ws over". But life kontinuez,"one door closez another openz" i found nu love dt sameday,,were i ws smokin n drinkin ma life out kos of da incident., 

SA Goddess:

Dude hit her first so what are you going on about? What is our place by the way? I must say you sound like a "wife-beater"

menaxe:

Dear palz,, Blieve me!! I have been actin a gentleman 4 d past 1yr.Since she startd actin in strange wayz,, She abusez and insultz any öne no matter how big! I guess she took ma gentleness as weakness, cos Each time she uses those abusive wordz i alwayz say thank u 2 her,bt d more i do this the more she getz worse wt her disparage, I hv 2 slap her kos it wz too much, Nd hav since apologized 2 her nd her friendz who wanted ma head 4 supper, "She said it ws over". But life kontinuez,"one door closez another openz" i found nu love dt sameday,,were i ws smokin n drinkin ma life out kos of da incident.,

platinumnk:

if my bf slaps me?

Call the Morgue to collect their new occupant 

na2day?:

NA-2-DAY!

madlady:

^^If it's you then I would set my brothers on you.

babygirl22:

had an ex who slapped me after d slap he dint no wat hit i gave it back to him and kicked him outta my flat wtf my dad hardly hits me and one boy not even a husband wld now raise his miserable hand to slap me

babygirl22:

had an ex who slapped me after d slap he dint no wat hit i gave it back to him and kicked him outta my flat wtf my dad hardly hits me and one boy not even a husband wld now raise his miserable hand to slap me

stz: feminity is humble, kind, tolerance, understanding and above all PATient. Ladies of nowadays have allowed the so called jet age to spoil everything. I am against any guy who hits ladies but sometimes these ladies forget there place. My advice is any lady that behaves wild should be treated like a wild animal, maybe it will help train their manner of reaction toward issues. As for the guyz, bros make una work on una ability to ignore even in anger. Two wrongs never make a right

Pin her on the bed and make sure she cannot escape!

Richfella:

Femininity is what?? You must be living under a huge rock in gayland!

Women are the most devious, scheming, slimy, manipulative, back-handed, back-stabbing-motherfuckers. They are simply first-class. If you make the mistake of not seeing one as another player on the table; as someone with interests and motivations but instead as some beautiful, harmless, innocuous lamb - you will be ridden mercilessly! My brother, women are not the paragon of elegance we were thought they were.

If you want to win in this relationship game (yes, I said WIN!), you have to match their ruthlessness and cunning. . .and then surpass it. In kid's parlance, "Only a Ninja can kill a Ninja!"


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Sometimes, words can have greater weight/effect than a corresponding action. As Cardinal De Retz once said, "It is even more damaging for a minister to  say foolish things than to do them".

I don't subscribe to using physical force against women (except when you're trying to dispossess one of her virginity . Lol, I once read a very hilarious post here on NL where a guy giving 'Disvirgining Instructions' to some other guy said, "Pin her on the bed and make sure she cannot escape! "

The best way to treat an orally abusive female is to walk away - forever and ever (although I have on occasion been known to make a few girls cry by attacking the chink in their armour with a few choice words ). However, depending on the situation, I could treat you as a fellow combatant if am physically attacked. Rules of engagement.

pro01:

I can see the obnoxious solidarity between most of the girls here and none of them has been sensible enough to ask/answer the real questions.

Do you think 'abuse' is only physical? Don't you know that heart shattering words have driven some people to frustration and suicide? What makes it 'okay' for the woman to abuse her man with acidic words and for her man to just smile and walk away? Get real!

Now listen (or read). This aint just about man - woman thing. So many people have lost their lives all over the place 'cos of indiscretion and wanton foul-mouthedness. The police in naija, area boys, soldiers, road rage, 'confra' in school, all kinds of scenarios. Soft words can save your life, but harsh words bring out the beast in people. . .sooner or later.

My point is: any girl that is dishonorable enough to abuse her man should be ready to face the consequences. If you sow the wind you will reap the whirlwind.

bluespice:

will you marry me?

Warning: Potential harem [i]stock [/i]will be fed to the lions if seal is broken .

agathamari:

if my man lays a hand on me he better kill me with the first blow, i will beat the tar out of anyone who strikes me or ill die trying