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24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 10:24pm On Feb 13, 2018
a lady came to me for help today, more like ran away from home. both parents want her to remove the baby but she is convinced she would lose her life in the process yet they won't budge. would be speaking with my lawyer on it tomorrow but now what...
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 10:26pm On Feb 13, 2018
...options does she have? the dad has called to have his daughter sent back to him tomorrow. will of course respect his wishes as her legal guardian.
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by mymadam(m): 10:37pm On Feb 13, 2018
teemy:
...options does she have? the dad has called to have his daughter sent back to him tomorrow. will of course respect his wishes as her legal guardian.

shocked Hang on! Did you not say that she's 24?

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Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 10:41pm On Feb 13, 2018
mymadam:


shocked Hang on! Did you not say that she's 24?
aye, 24 by april this year.
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by wisdomdc(m): 11:01pm On Feb 13, 2018
Tell her to call this number I might be of help to her :08138907267
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by ifex370(m): 11:15pm On Feb 13, 2018
teemy:
...options does she have? the dad has called to have his daughter sent back to him tomorrow. will of course respect his wishes as her legal guardian.


24 and her dad still has Lord rights over her...



She shouldn't abort anything.. Send her to her Pastor

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Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 11:33pm On Feb 13, 2018
wisdomdc:
Tell her to call this number I might be of help to her :08138907267
thanks for the support.

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Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 11:36pm On Feb 13, 2018
ifex370:



24 and her dad still has Lord rights over her...



She shouldn't abort anything.. Send her to her Pastor
the pastor has since been involved except he has been adamant still.
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by sisisioge: 7:29am On Feb 14, 2018
She's old enough to set up her home now nau. All responsibilities on her!
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by thorpido(m): 12:01pm On Feb 14, 2018
Were you the one that got her pregnant?Give us the full story.

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Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 12:47pm On Feb 14, 2018
thorpido:
Were you the one that got her pregnant?Give us the full story.
If I was, no one would have the right to try and terminate my baby.
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by thorpido(m): 1:04pm On Feb 14, 2018
teemy:

If I was, no one would have the right to try and terminate my baby.
I'm pro-life so I'll say she should keep the baby.
However,she must brace herself for the life ahead.Her parents are not going to give her support,she has to take care of her bills and take care of the baby all by herself.
What does she do?How much money does she have?
Where's the pregnator guy involved in all this?
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 3:25pm On Feb 14, 2018
thorpido, pregnator is back with his other baby mama and wants nothing to do with either her or the pregnancy. my lawyer adviced going to the police who then invited her dad down. he would be sending girl's aunt tomorrow to determine her future plans
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 3:29pm On Feb 14, 2018
kids in our motherless homes don't just land there. if proper provision and planning was in place to monitor the pregnancy transitions, we would have lesser kids found in trash dumps. this is not the first time of my taking such women under my care.
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 3:32pm On Feb 14, 2018
i appretiate everyone taking interest in this girl's case especially wisdomdc who has been closely making a follow up on it. wish you all the best. cheers

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Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by thorpido(m): 5:20pm On Feb 14, 2018
teemy:
thorpido, pregnator is back with his other baby mama and wants nothing to do with either her or the pregnancy. my lawyer adviced going to the police who then invited her dad down. he would be sending girl's aunt tomorrow to determine her future plans
That's a right step to take.Involve the police and a lawyer.
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 6:13pm On Feb 16, 2018
update. aunt is trying to skip appearing. also, her dad tried to trick her into going back. seems the whole family is trying to avoid an undertaking at the police station. smelling ulterior motives.
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by wisdomdc(m): 11:09pm On Apr 01, 2018
teemy:
i appretiate everyone taking interest in this girl's case especially wisdomdc who has been closely making a follow up on it. wish you all the best. cheers
You made my night/Easter, happy easter to you

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Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by wisdomdc(m): 11:12pm On Apr 01, 2018
teemy:
thanks for the support.
You are welcome but you did not given me fitback and I tried to reach you but the numbers weren't going, but I am glad everything has been settled and one more life saved. Thanks and keep up the good job.
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 8:09am On Apr 02, 2018
wisdomdc:

You made my night/Easter, happy easter to you
apologies for not updating. she is fine and with her aunt after having settled with the dad. she plans on giving the baby up for adoption after delivery.
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 8:13am On Apr 02, 2018
the adoption thing came up a few days ago and knowing that i ought to update that here, i was a little hesitant so as not to put some foster people's hopes too high and later dash it. let's remember she still acts little and can change her mind.
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by ifyalways(f): 8:21am On Apr 02, 2018
If I'm the parent, I will have the OP arrested first for kidnapping my daughter, pimping her out to men and she getting preggie in the process.

How on earth do you think you love the girl more than her parents? Just look at the situation sef angry The baby daddy is irresponsible, already has baby momma and does not want the child, the girl is 24 and obviously have no source of income to take care of the child. Reality is different from fiction and making babies is not same as making bread. It requires lots of money, time, attention to say the least,not fiction and wishes . Add jobless, irresponsible parents to it all then safe D&C is an option.
More reasons we keep having house helps maltreatment, touts, irresponsible children begotten by irresponsible parents who never wanted or planned for them. The vicious cycle of poverty continues while we continue hoping and praying.
The frustration we are suddenly seeing manifesting daily in our society (daddy burning baby's hand cos he ate a piece of meat, a spoon of rice, mothers selling their two years old children for 150K,madams beating their 7 years old house helps to death etc) are all effects of keeping unplanned, unwanted pregnancies.
Abortion is not the solution, safe sex is,but also the best and only genuine safety a young girl can have in the face of unwanted pregnancy are : financially and/or emotional support from her parents, financial support from baby daddy and financial and emotional independence. When none of this is in place, the earlier she picks option 2, safe D&C, the better for her.

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Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by ifyalways(f): 8:26am On Apr 02, 2018
Also, y'all should stop flaunting this "adoption" on our faces biko. Millions of babies are in orphanage homes in Nigeria (most homes are struggling to survive, take care of the kids), no one is adopting them, so I wonder what makes this very child special that s/he will just be adopted the moment s/he is birthed.

Of course, y'all's idea of adoption is selling the baby to the highest bidder online. So continue. . . Not like I'm buying this story Sha, could be scam. Developing story undecided

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Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 7:18pm On Apr 02, 2018
ifyalways:
If I'm the parent, I will have the OP arrested first for kidnapping my daughter, pimping her out to men and she getting preggie in the process.
Ifynwa always on point. grin
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by Femsyn(m): 9:35pm On Apr 02, 2018
As unpopular as ifyalways could be at times, she's 100% correct in this case. Yes! Abortion isn't the best option, but the quality of children being raised nowadays is appalling. Immature parents begetting unruly children. The society, at the long run, is at the receiving end.

Raising just a child is no child's play, even with all the financial support (if raised accordingly).

Ify is a grandmother. I am a father. I can tell you it takes a lot to raise a child.

This is becoming a cycle. Parents being responsible for their children even after marriage. They keep grooming them into their 30s and 40s. Their lives are on pause cos they had a child...

Even single parenting is no fun for the single parent, the society and most especially the child. The fall back is always there.
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by Seahawk: 5:59am On Apr 03, 2018
What if she doesn’t pick abortion as her choice?
Do we tie her up and forcibly abort the fetus?
ifyalways:
If I'm the parent, I will have the OP arrested first for kidnapping my daughter, pimping her out to men and she getting preggie in the process.

How on earth do you think you love the girl more than her parents? Just look at the situation sef angry The baby daddy is irresponsible, already has baby momma and does not want the child, the girl is 24 and obviously have no source of income to take care of the child. Reality is different from fiction and making babies is not same as making bread. It requires lots of money, time, attention to say the least,not fiction and wishes . Add jobless, irresponsible parents to it all then safe D&C is an option.
More reasons we keep having house helps maltreatment, touts, irresponsible children begotten by irresponsible parents who never wanted or planned for them. The vicious cycle of poverty continues while we continue hoping and praying.
The frustration we are suddenly seeing manifesting daily in our society (daddy burning baby's hand cos he ate a piece of meat, a spoon of rice, mothers selling their two years old children for 150K,madams beating their 7 years old house helps to death etc) are all effects of keeping unplanned, unwanted pregnancies.
Abortion is not the solution, safe sex is,but also the best and only genuine safety a young girl can have in the face of unwanted pregnancy are : financially and/or emotional support from her parents, financial support from baby daddy and financial and emotional independence. When none of this is in place, the earlier she picks option 2, safe D&C, the better for her.

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Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by Omojudy: 10:30pm On May 25, 2018
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Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by Omojudy: 10:31pm On May 25, 2018
The reason millions of children are in orphanages is that most adoptive hopefuls want new borns. You need to see the long lists of applications yearly for adoption that Lagos state can't accommodate, it's easier in other states.
So seriously I would advise a pregnant ladies or girls with no option to walk to the manager of reputable orphanages and seek their help, we never know until we try. We shouldn't subconsciously keep discouraging people from following the high road.

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Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by 1Sharon(f): 11:29pm On May 25, 2018
Omojudy:
The reason millions of children are in orphanages is that most adoptive hopefuls want new borns. You need to see the long lists of applications yearly for adoption that Lagos state can't accommodate, it's easier in other states.
So seriously I would advise a pregnant ladies or girls with no option to walk to the manager of reputable orphanages and seek their help, we never know until we try. We shouldn't subconsciously keep discouraging people from following the high road.

Reputable orphanages indeed
Re: 24 Year Old Lady Being Forced To Have An Abortion Needs Help by teemy(m): 12:08pm On Jun 06, 2018
Update.

Baby daddy to be is offering to take care of the child when born but after a blood test.

I Will keep this thread update up till child is born and final decisions by all parties is concluded

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