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I Think I Need A Therapist by LBK1: 7:18am On Feb 15, 2018
Y do pple always fall out of love?
Is it bcoz they haven't met the right person or they are not made for relationship?

First I couldn't forget about my first love but thank God I am not thinking about him again.
I am now in another relationship though this is the third relationship.
The first one ended bcoz of religion and tribal difference
The second one ended bcoz he couldn't create time for us to be together
This is the third one and I am already tired of it. It is a distance relationship
I don't love him as I used to before. And he has called it a quit yesterday.
I have never had a relationship that lasted for a month without me falling out of love. And I can't stop falling in love.
Why?
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by XhosaNostra(f): 7:37am On Feb 15, 2018
A raging personality disorder, perhaps?
Look into love related personality disorders like narcissism, histrionic & BPD.

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Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by Opentokwowledge: 7:45am On Feb 15, 2018
XhosaNostra:
A raging personality disorder, perhaps?
Look into love related personality disorders like narcissism, histrionic & BPD.
Aren't you offering free service already?
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by Mzansian(f): 7:55am On Feb 15, 2018
Perhaps you haven't met a guy you deem worthy of it all . You can't force these things , you know .

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Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by MetroBaba1(m): 8:03am On Feb 15, 2018
Kindly Put Love Aside, And Work On Yourself. Self Development Is Important. That's What I'm Doing Right Now.

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Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by aumeehn: 8:08am On Feb 15, 2018
MetroBaba1:
Kindly Put Love Aside, And Work On Yourself. Self Development Is Important. That's What I'm Doing Right Now.
You're right man, there's this gurl i met November last year, we broke up yesterday in a bar celebrating Val, there are things that u just let them go and continue loving yourself.

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Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by XhosaNostra(f): 8:16am On Feb 15, 2018
Opentokwowledge:
Aren't you offering free service already?

What free services?
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by Everest1989(m): 9:00am On Feb 15, 2018
You are suffering form IED: Internal Emotional Disorder

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Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by MetroBaba1(m): 9:19am On Feb 15, 2018
aumeehn:
You're right man, there's this gurl i met November last year, we broke up yesterday in a bar celebrating Val, there are things that u just let them go and continue loving yourself.

Just Imagine. I Can't Love For Now. All I'm Doing Right Now Is Self Development. Gat No Time For Love Anymore.

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Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by LBK1: 12:27pm On Feb 15, 2018
XhosaNostra:
A raging personality disorder, perhaps?
Look into love related personality disorders like narcissism, histrionic & BPD.




thank you
reading about those disorders
I now conclude that I am suffering from BPD

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Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by LBK1: 12:29pm On Feb 15, 2018
MetroBaba1:
Kindly Put Love Aside, And Work On Yourself. Self Development Is Important. That's What I'm Doing Right Now.



nice but I just can't falling in love
I will start my self development by deleting and avoiding contacts with guys
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by Cladez(m): 12:34pm On Feb 15, 2018
I think the problem is you not falling in love but just being loved.In those scenerios,they just woo you and you say yes because you want to be among.
My sister when you fall in love like seriously your life would never be the same.


N/B: i have never fallen nor being in love.

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Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by XhosaNostra(f): 12:49pm On Feb 15, 2018
LBK1:





thank you
reading about those disorders
I now conclude that I am suffering from BPD

Same here tongue

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Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by MetroBaba1(m): 3:10pm On Feb 15, 2018
LBK1:




nice but I just can't falling in love
I will start my self development by deleting and avoiding contacts with guys

Avoid the statement; "I will start my self development by deleting and avoiding contacts with guys".
I can't encourage you to do that.

Consider reason why your previous R/ship was a failure.

Ask yourself:

1. From my previous R/ship, what are my shortcomings?
2. Which areas deserve improvement?
3. How can I bring out the best in me?

Remember, not all Guys deserve your very best. Some guys are USELESS (quote me).

Self Development:

Start building yourself. Look presentable - Clean, Neat, Smart, body shape in position. If you're Jobless, start working. Avoid depending on guys, if you do, they tend to respect you alot.

Work On Yourself! That's The Best Advice I Can Offer.

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Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by LBK1: 4:02pm On Feb 15, 2018
MetroBaba1:


Avoid the statement; "I will start my self development by deleting and avoiding contacts with guys".
I can't encourage you to do that.

Consider reason why your previous R/ship was a failure.

Ask yourself:

1. From my previous R/ship, what are my shortcomings?
2. Which areas deserve improvement?
3. How can I bring out the best in me?

Remember, not all Guys deserve your very best. Some guys are USELESS (quote me).

Self Development:

Start building yourself. Look presentable - Clean, Neat, Smart, body shape in position. If you're Jobless, start working. Avoid depending on guys, if you do, they tend to respect you alot.

Work On Yourself! That's The Best Advice I Can Offer.


I will adjust by doing that
thank you very much
God bless

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Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by Opentokwowledge: 5:03pm On Feb 15, 2018
XhosaNostra:


What free services?
Weren't you instructing her on what to look into?
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by XhosaNostra(f): 5:10pm On Feb 15, 2018
Opentokwowledge:
Weren't you instructing her on what to look into?

I suggested.

It's not my area of expertise, so I can't really offer her anything other than an opinion.

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Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by Opentokwowledge: 5:16pm On Feb 15, 2018
XhosaNostra:


I suggested.

It's not my area of expertise, so I can't really offer her anything other than an opinion.
Very well then, but please don't keep at it. She might feel the opinion is the "it" and she might not bother getting help where it would be nail on the head.
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by XhosaNostra(f): 5:21pm On Feb 15, 2018
Opentokwowledge:
Very well then, but please don't keep at it. She might feel the opinion is the "it" and she might not bother getting help where it would be nail on the head.

Don't keep at what? It's up to her to sift through the comments & decide what steps to take henceforth. All I offered was my rusty two cents. Nothing less, nothing more.
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by Opentokwowledge: 5:31pm On Feb 15, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Don't keep at what? It's up to her to sift through the comments & decide what steps to take henceforth. All I offered was my rusty two cents. Nothing less, nothing more.
Sorry, I clearly forgot opinions stink embarassed
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by XhosaNostra(f): 5:33pm On Feb 15, 2018
Opentokwowledge:
Sorry, I clearly forgot opinions stink embarassed

Ok.
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by Opentokwowledge: 5:35pm On Feb 15, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Ok.
Touché. I was expecting you to come for my head. So unpunkyveery-like!
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by XhosaNostra(f): 5:39pm On Feb 15, 2018
Opentokwowledge:
Touché. I was expecting you to come for my head. So unpunkyveery-like!

I'm not as argumentative anymore. It's tiring.

I had a sense you're bytchcrafts or whatever your other previous moniker was. Am I correct?
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by MetroBaba1(m): 5:42pm On Feb 15, 2018
LBK1:



I will adjust by doing that
thank you very much
God bless

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Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by Opentokwowledge: 5:43pm On Feb 15, 2018
Don't do that to us please!
XhosaNostra:


I'm not as argumentative anymore. It's tiring.

I had a sense you're bytchcrafts or whatever your other previous moniker was. Am I correct?
Wrong.
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by XhosaNostra(f): 5:47pm On Feb 15, 2018
Opentokwowledge:
Don't do that to us please! Wrong.

Lol, so you want me to argue upandan? grin No, I'm tired & retired.

Then please tell me what your previous moniker was smiley I was so sure. My senses rarely lie when it comes to picking up these things tongue
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by Opentokwowledge: 5:51pm On Feb 15, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Lol, so you want me to argue upandan? grin No, I'm tired & retired.

Then please tell me what your previous moniker was smiley I was so sure. My senses rarely lie when it comes to picking up these things tongue
You're indeed a witch from the South side... Where will my entertainment now come from? I overdose on these things....
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by XhosaNostra(f): 6:09pm On Feb 15, 2018
Opentokwowledge:
You're indeed a witch from the South side... Where will my entertainment now come from? I overdose on these things....

I'll start up if you tell me who you are grin
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by Opentokwowledge: 6:16pm On Feb 15, 2018
XhosaNostra:


I'll start up if you tell me who you are grin
No please, Let's leave that grey. I know you're still going into full swing sometimes. A little bit of teasing is all it takes mandingo to rise.
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by XhosaNostra(f): 6:17pm On Feb 15, 2018
Opentokwowledge:
No please, Let's leave that grey. I know you're still going into full swing sometimes. A little bit of arousal is all it takes mandingo to rise.

Lol, you're definitely bytchcrafts.
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by Opentokwowledge: 6:27pm On Feb 15, 2018
XhosaNostra:


Lol, you're definitely bytchcrafts.
Lol. What gave it away?
Re: I Think I Need A Therapist by XhosaNostra(f): 6:40pm On Feb 15, 2018
Opentokwowledge:
Lol. What gave it away?

I have strong instincts lol. I can recognise "energy" sometimes. When I read a comment, my inner memory bank tries to locate who had me feeling like that before. IDK how to explain it or how I do it, but certain people I can sense.

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