I dunno if it's OK or not... but me, I don't like it. i love privacy

tosyne2much:
Yes I read it.. But in that sense, she doesn't have a choice than to swallow her pride and accept her fate knowing that you can't always meet up to your standard in life.. There are situations in life when you will have to compromise your standard

She doesn't seem ready to, and that's the problem here.


By the way, how have you been?

bobokeshington:


Normal? How??

Like in India, theyve that deep extended family ish going on for them.

amokeme:

She doesn't seem ready to, and that's the problem here.


By the way, how have you been?

I've been so fine oooo... It's really been a while sha

tosyne2much:
I've been so fine oooo... It's really been a while sha

You went MIA naw

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Like in India, theyve that deep extended family ish going on for them.

I don't think this would work in this case

nedu2000:
If he isn't buoyant enough to cater for something as basic as shelter why bother getting married ? Let him not bring children into this world to suffer oh

Lol... no condition is permanent bro. Change they say is constant

amokeme:

Read the initial post well o. The guy doesn't have a problem leaving his parent's house, but the wife to be is not comfortable with the accommodation he can afford. So its safe to say, she is the one hindering him from moving. And then she isn't ready to contribute towards her supposed standards

You're spot on! That's is just!!

nedu2000:
If he isn't buoyant enough to cater for something as basic as shelter why bother getting married ? Let him not bring children into this world to suffer oh

no be say the dude no whole at nah... you sef how things be for we country these days nah...

no be lie sha,300k for 2 bedroom high sha

bobokeshington:


no be say the dude no whole at nah... you sef how things be for we country these days nah...

bobokeshington:
I have a friend who is getting married soon but still lives with his parents. Although, he stays separately in another apartment but still in that same building. He said he isn't buoyant enough to rent an apartment that suit his Lady's standards.

So is it okay for him to get married in his parents house or he should just find a means to move out?

For this reason, a man shall leave his father's house and be joined to his wife and the two will become one.

How is this an issue?

I would like to know how many of the individuals that commented above me is married and has an actual job (8 to 5)

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bobokeshington:


That wife isn't willing to live with you in that one room apartment and you really do love her. What Do You Do?

marriage should be about understanding, what is d meaning of For better for worse if she can't stay in a one room apartment with me? what's d meaning of endurance? if a girl should push u to stay in your fathers house because she can't manage in a room apartment, one day she will definitely push u into debt cos think about it, what if u are in a city that your father doesn't have a house,will she tell u to move into d mansion in d village?

tosyne2much:
Why would a man comfortably harbour his wife in his parents house and see nothing wrong in it? Some things don't just seem right even though it's not stated in the law

Even without being married, there was a point I was no longer feeling comfortable staying under the roof of my parents not to talk of bringing a wife into the same house. I will rather leave my father's duplex and live with my wife in a one room apartment

GOD bless u my brother, u took those words from my mouth. I will rather stay single than marry in my father's house. tufia

hollah123:
GOD bless u my brother, u took those words from my mouth. I will rather stay single than marry in my father's house. tufia

Na so jawe my brother

hollah123:
marriage should be about understanding, what is d meaning of For better for worse if she can't stay in a one room apartment with me? what's d meaning of endurance? if a girl should push u to stay in your fathers house because she can't manage in a room apartment, one day she will definitely push u into debt cos think about it, what if u are in a city that your father doesn't have a house,will she tell u to move into d mansion in d village?

Bro marriage isn't for better for worse anymore. It's now for richer for best o...
That's is the perception of most ladies nowadays...

Rather stay single til when you are ready to do it rightly! The whole essence of marriage is companionship, having kids etc apart from that nothing else. However do it the way you can, it's your life, but do it rightly.

The state needs to make legislation against people with misplaced priorities deliberately bringing children into this world to come and share in their "suffersticated" poverty.

It's thoughtless and senseless----heartless even.

We need to start pointing the sword's edge at them.

Getting married in your parent's house.

My relatives that are rich a.f. His kids are doing wonderfully well with jobs in oil company and own about 2cars each but all of his kids are staying in their Father's estate. So I don't see it as a biggie. For instance if my father is late, my mom and brothers are abroad so I should leave a massive 5bedroom flat or a duplex and go pay rent outside cuz I don't want to stay in my father's house capital B.S