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I don't date girls that flashes ATM card. So I don't know.

sex b4 marriage cool but not right

i must sleep with the woman i want 2 marry before taking her 2 the alter to be sure~

we testdrive cars b4 we buy em,

so why shud this be different!

190:

i must sleep with the woman i want 2 marry before taking her 2 the alter to be sure~

we testdrive cars b4 we buy em,

so why shud this be different!

cos women are not cars, and how many will you test drive before making up your mind, what happens if you dont have a nice cruise or the very good develops some faults later, do you dump? Marriage is a commitment and a trust. All things in life is a learning process. I dont know where people get the fat lie from that you get better at sex by doing it with people before Marriage.

Marriage sucks anyways I don't know why people bother themselves with it, Oh yeah the society make us believe it's the right thing to do.

WhyAWhy:

cos women are not cars, and how many will you test drive before making up your mind, what happens if you dont have a nice cruise or the very good develops some faults later, do you dump? Marriage is a commitment and a trust. All things in life is a learning process. I dont know where people get the fat lie from that you get better at intimacy by doing it with people before Marriage.

I'll agree with you on the comments with bold letters but i need to ask you a question.
A guy who is sexually active and marries a lady without having s*ex with her till the wedding night, only to find out that she has low lubido or she's the not type that likes s*ex, what is he going to do?
I need an answer.

cantell:

I'll agree with you on the comments with bold letters but i need to ask you a question.
A guy who is sexually active and marries a lady without having intimacy with her till the wedding night, only to find out that she has low lubido or she's the not type that likes intimacy, what is he going to do?
I need an answer.

haba, !!!, She will, dont worry. it's probably because it is her first time. thats why she doesn't appear to like. (you do
know it's painful for first-timers right?)

change your style, try more pre-intimacy before doing it, , both of u click, that's why you married.,no be so.
believe me, do more pre-intimacy and you will be amazed

^^^ It shows you don't really know about people with low libido. A man/woman with low libido can go on without sex for months or up to a year. No amount of pre-intimacy or sweet talks can change it. Its just the way they are.
So my friend, sometimes its better to do that test-drive 190 suggested.

He doesn't know what low libido means

cantell:

^^^ It shows you don't really know about people with low libido. A man/woman with low libido can go on without intimacy for months or up to a year. No amount of pre-intimacy or sweet talks can change it. Its just the way they are.
So my friend, sometimes its better to do that test-drive 190 suggested.

tell them!! ooh!!

what happens to these women with low libido?

^^^look for men with low libido??
Or carry their abunna waka.

cantell:

^^^look for men with low libido??
Or carry their abunna waka.

look for men with low libido? is "low libido" written on the foreheads of these sets of men?

carry abunna waka go where?

honeric01:

look for men with low libido? is "low libido" written on the foreheads of these sets of men?

carry abunna waka go where?

o boy people wey dey around me think say i don kolo. Laugh go kill me hia ooo.
Since you're so concerned about women with low libido, why don't you tell them to bring their abunna over to you?lol
Oya make una follow honeric.lmao

Me likey sex. . . .gud execise and develops muscles

Me likey sex. . . .gud execise and develops muscles

cantell:

o boy people wey dey around me think say i don kolo. Laugh go kill me hia ooo.
Since you're so concerned about women with low libido, why don't you tell them to bring their abunna over to you?lol
Oya make una follow honeric.lmao

lol, bring them to me, all ye women with low libido and i will give you rest.

the fact is that 99.9% of couples test drive b/4 marriage,but me dont think is right & i must surely test drive just to remove all doubts.

sereques:

Marriage sucks anyways I don't know why people bother themselves with it, Oh yeah the society make us believe it's the right thing to do.

meh, if only everyone can see it like this, marriage wont be so overrated,

much more virginity and no sx b4 marriage, crap!!!

cantell:

I'll agree with you on the comments with bold letters but i need to ask you a question.
[b]A guy who is sexually active and marries a lady without having s*ex with her till the wedding night, only to find out that she has low lubido or she's the not type that likes s*ex, what is he going to do?[/b]I need an answer.

what happens if they have sex and in early/later in the marriage the lubido oil dries out or suddenly develops sexphobia?

Marriage is more like a hidden package. Whatever you see, is what you get.
If one of them develops any kind of problem, they can easily come together and solve it, since it wasn't there before they got married.

Ideally one shud not have intimacy before marriage but practically 99.9% of the time peole including urs sincerely have intimacy before marriage.

Yes please! Am not about to use $ex as a tool to secure marriage. I need to know that who I eventually choose to marry is totally compatible. And no, LOVE doesn`t maketh a good shag, trust me I know.

You fit go market go buy no testing Television, you better test the television see whether e dey show colour for real or dem put Lucozade wrapper for the screen .

I am all for no sex before marriage. Not saying all those who do it will not make it. Far from it. Sex makes things blurry. You think more rationally when sex is not in the picture. On a spiritual level it is no and then on a common sense level it is also no

Outstrip:

I am all for no intimacy before marriage. Not saying all those who do it will not make it. Far from it. intimacy makes things blurry. You think more rationally when intimacy is not in the picture. On a spiritual level it is no and then on a common sense level it is also no

[size=14pt]At last I found someone who makes sense. To think that people still feel Women are like cars that should be taken for a test ride? It's so sad some women (lots nowadays) feel they should go for a test ride. IT'S BAD ON EVERY LEVEL!![/size] and besides, do you know wat is waiting for you down that tunnel?

hey,
my sociology lecturer once told us to test drive any babe before marriage because some might turn out to be something different after marriage.and the most funny thing he told us is dont hook up in church or asalatu because that is where you found the worst pretenders there trying to woe men.

yes it is neccesary ok as far as you will not fail to marry the girl. Like me i mate my wife at school, have intemacy with her and finally married her. And we are both happy in our marriage.

Well i guess it depends on you religion. Christian and Muslim doctrine state that its a sin to do engage in intimacy outside marriage.
There is no way around that fact. Its a take it or leave it issue. If you are faithful God will give you the best partner you can have in all aspects including intimacy appetite.

But because people now feel that they are smarter than God they go out 'experimenting and testing' and end up making mistakes. This is the reason divorce rates are so high. It is statistically proven that couples that went about 'test driving' before marriage divorce at higher rates than couples who married as virgins and take their relationship with God seriously.

Also we are getting closer to the end times and living in an evil world with declining morals, you will always here of a lot of cock and bull, and deceptive manufactured false information about test-driving and compatibility etc. Do not be fooled.

God help us all.