yankeedodo:
I am new in relationship issue.

i called a girl, we have been friends for long now. i told her straight that I want to marry her.

she told me to call later, but not today


please like how many days can i call.

and i need advice from professionals in the house. thanks

yankeedodo:
I am new in relationship issue.

i called a girl, we have been friends for long now. i told her straight that I want to marry her.

she told me to call later, but not today


please like how many days can i call.

and i need advice from professionals in the house. thanks

QueenSuccubus:



Men nowadays sha...juz proposing anyhow. Anyway, ur not the first & definitely u will not be the last But make sure the ring is pawnable once u decided to put the ring on it...

yankeedodo:
I am new in relationship issue.

i called a girl, we have been friends for long now. i told her straight that I want to marry her.

she told me to call later, but not today


please like how many days can i call.

and i need advice from professionals in the house. thanks

Martin0:



abeg what the best way to propose to a philipino coz only that I know will be good and accepted by you

Lionessza:



I'm no " professional " and your post sounds funny. Lol, you called a friend to propose marriage? WTF? . Why not start dating her if she has interest?.

@the bolded, that should tell you she doesn't have time for you lol.

Sunexy:

In some parts of Africa, u don't have date b4 u marry...just ask the opposite of he/she will marry u or not..perhaps, he is from one of such place

Lionessza:



Lol, I didn't know people still do this. Perhaps you are correct. I wonder if such marriages last .

amprat:

According to the post, they've been Friends for long, meaning they should know and understand each other.
But proposing over the phone....?

Lionessza:



Yes , I got the part about them being friends. But I'm also confused about the over the phone proposal , it kind of suggests the friendship wasn't close enough or he wasn't comfortable discussing this with her in person , which speaks volume. Perhaps they should first try have a romantic relationship before thinking about marriage, what's the rush ?.

yankeedodo:
I am new in relationship issue.

i called a girl, we have been friends for long now. i told her straight that I want to marry her.

she told me to call later, but not today


please like how many days can i call.

and i need advice from professionals in the house. thanks

YOU'RE NEW TO RELATIONSHIP ISSUES..

MEANING YOU HAVE VERY LITTLE OR ZERO KNOWLEDGE OF HOW RELATIONSHIPS WORK.
AND YOU'RE HEADING STRAIGHT TO MARRIAGE?

I FELT MY OWN SHARE WHEN I HAD A FIRST TASTE OF POSITIVE EMOTIONS. I DESPERATELY NEEDED TO MARRY HER THAT DAY, WHEN I WAS JUST A FRESHMAN IN UNI.. A MONTH INTO THE SEMESTER.
ALMOST A DECADE NOW AND I LAUGH AT MYSELF, AND THE TERRIBLE DECISIONS I HAD MADE IN THE PAST.


YOU DON'T JUST MARRY THE FIRST PERSON YOU COME ACROSS THAT YOU LIKE, WITHOUT HAVING A FEEL OF WHAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE. DON'T BE A CLOWN.

yankeedodo:
I am new in relationship issue.

i called a girl, we have been friends for long now. i told her straight that I want to marry her.

she told me to call later, but not today


please like how many days can i call.

and i need advice from professionals in the house. thanks

amprat:

maybe he has self esteem issues, can't handle face to face rejection .

QueenSuccubus:





Honestly...it's very seldom to find a filipino guy that will propose to his gf unless both them like a fancy proposal

Usually & it's very common that the guy will bring his parents or relatives to his gf's house and ask her hand for marriage..

Martin0:


waow in Nigeria such practice Is best described as old school pattern, u know Nigerians are copy copy

QueenSuccubus:





Well, Nigeria was part of the British colony for many decades so i am not surprised that until now y'all practising the Brit-ish way

yeah

But it's up for the new generation if they gonna change the usual custom or will juz continue to practised what they been taught..

Martin0:

we hope they will.

QueenSuccubus:





Hey...why ur friend said that he didn't know u posted his numba yeah coz he never told me to do so, I only informed him of it after I did.

He sent me a VN about killing in Ng nawa ooo

Martin0:
really? Na WA ooo

QueenSuccubus:



I tot it was his VN...only to find out its about someone talking about the killings in Ng


hahahahah Na WA for u ooo

Nawa for ur friend..but don't tell him i do undastand pidgin..i don't want to scare him

Martin0:
no wahala u know one time I was scared to talk to you coz I thought you a Nigerian scammer who portrays himself as a lady, but now I ve got that likeness for you and u never what I really thought.

no problem I work with your deal, won't tell him

QueenSuccubus:


@bolded.. Chaaaaaiiii!
I juz joined NL to learn pidgin ooo...

1stfamous:
I did the same thing you did, and now am married, pls call her today and tell her you want to see her, fix a place and open up to her, pls dont break her heart! God bless your union