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|Gf's Mom Talks Way Too Much by kensmith33(m): 4:29am On Mar 08|
Okay... so, I really need to rant and release my anger somewhere. I’ll just rant here instead so I apologize in advance for any butthurt members out there. To make things detailed and clear, my relationship with my girlfriend has been going on for about 3 years now. We met during my visit in her hometown in Medellin for a meet foreign tour back then. Very lovely people. The locals are friendly and energetic wherever you go. But damn, I would’ve never thought there would be one friendly and energetic Costa Rican that would get on my nerves and it HAD to be my girlfriend’s MOTHER.
Where do I even begin?! The first time my gf introduced me to her family was during our first anniversary. I visited her over one weekend and that’s when I first met someone who I had to extend my patience with. She talks way too much and says the most obnoxious jokes. I know she doesn’t have any ill-intentions but come on, it gets annoying the more I hear them.
My gf doesnt know I dislike her mom but I dread the next time I’ll have to meet her mom again. How on earth can I explain this to her? She absolutely adores her mom and her talkative nature but I can’t imagine tolerating her for even a few days. I’d just hurt her if I were to be honest. I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m almost at my limit even by just meeting the woman for just about 5 times over the span of our relationship. HELP ME.
|Re: Gf's Mom Talks Way Too Much by Cutehector(m): 4:35am On Mar 08|
And how sure are we that if your woman meets your mum, she won't turn out to be like your future MIL who she will hate as much as you do to her's
|Re: Gf's Mom Talks Way Too Much by Donald3d(m): 5:41am On Mar 08|
Get close to her, find out her good sides and focus on that.Thats the best way to survive in this world,focusing on the good side of people.You should be happy her "problem" is just talking too much.Some MIL to be have far much worse problems.This can be easily dealt with, just get to know her and focus on her good sides.
|Re: Gf's Mom Talks Way Too Much by kensmith33(m): 7:40am On Mar 08|
Thank God I don't have to worry about MIL who are worse than her. I really extend my patience with her for the sake of my girl.
|Re: Gf's Mom Talks Way Too Much by ImaIma1(f): 7:55am On Mar 08|
Now that you have an issue with you gfs talkative mum and spoiled younger sister, what are you going to do?
|Re: Gf's Mom Talks Way Too Much by kensmith33(m): 3:54am On Mar 09|
My mom actually passed away a few years back even before I met my gf
|Re: Gf's Mom Talks Way Too Much by kensmith33(m): 3:55am On Mar 09|
You're right. I'll take this time to get to know her better and hopefully, bond with her. Thank you
|Re: Gf's Mom Talks Way Too Much by kensmith33(m): 3:56am On Mar 09|
Right. There are MIL out there who are terror but mine is just talkative and loud. I just need to befriend her some more and see how things go between us.
|Re: Gf's Mom Talks Way Too Much by kensmith33(m): 3:58am On Mar 09|
For my girl, tolerate everything.
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