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Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by bethyz(m): 10:13pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
7years is a long time. My piece of advice . Try to calm down pray about it. If you love him deep inside your heart try as much to remain calm . You have to build your home yourself. You are going into another phase of your life my dear things will change. Now the main seriousness have started . Don't let the change seperate you let it build you.. 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 10:13pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
Honestagbons: amen.. thanks |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 10:14pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
nlanded: nice one |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 10:14pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
Tombrown3: its a toxic relationship. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by pharmagba: 10:14pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
jbaby265:To love is a decision to live in peace is a decision ironically it is independent on your partner but solely on you. Now to help you, if he complains, first tell him he should not be angry, that you are sorry. This is the first thing above any other, Please note what he is complaining about, can you make amendments without you destroying your moral, emotional and spiritual fabric?.If yes, make amends right now, then thank him for helping you become better, if NOT then then in your most humble way tell him why you did what you did, why you may not be able to change based on moral or spiritual reasons. But if he still want change then it's time to move your separate ways. seven years is indeed a long time you should have known each other inside out, please don't leave your man for a day not communicating due to quarrel, I bet you another lady or ladies will engage him. In relationships there is no vaccum. Try and sort out any quarrel maximum 2 days and move on the same page or its time to agree to disagree Best of luck least I forget respect you man and be careful on your choice of word 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 10:15pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
gypsey: 156 women, and i've had none. Phew No wonder one said i was strange |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by ACE1010: 10:16pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
AntiWailer: Na wa for you ooo 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Angelyna(f): 10:17pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
Both of you needs a marriage counselor and of course you guys should retrace your steps and calm your ego... There and then your love will be renewed.. Good luck guys jbaby265: |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by NairalandSARS: 10:18pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
Sorry |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by olaoye4(m): 10:18pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
Counselor full here o 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 10:19pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
thetrailseeker: I really appreciate |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by blessingsonflee(f): 10:22pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
I personally think he has a new catch and needs space/time for him to devour her and until then will he discover that old/former meat tastes better. i won't advice you to wait for him. Move on and perhaps he realises how precious u are to him, he might come back if it isn't too late for both of you ... ( but 7 yrs is not beans sha ) 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 10:23pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
jbaby265: There's no fun anymore, take some distance apart no calls nothing, if you both dont miss each other issa finished 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by godfrey01(m): 10:24pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
7 years releationship. haba aunty. thats too long na. who went to study law or medcine has graduated and you are still in a relationship. God help you. he os tired of you to be sincere. just pray God touch his heart make una wedding hold, otherwise, OYO is your case 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Oreofepeters: 10:28pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
genghiskhan007:You dey ask wether they never fornicate? Na wa o your matter tire me. How full grown up man and woman go stay for 7 years nd no go bleep? Body no be firewood na |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 10:29pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
mascot87: God bless you real good 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by tunjibadosnen: 10:30pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
HOW ARE U SURE HE STILL LOVES U? 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by legendsilver(m): 10:31pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
jbaby265:Hello dear, visit a counselor for proper advice because many people here will frustrate you out of your relationship because they can't keep or hold one. If you love him, try talk to him n stop doing what get him always angry. I am in my fifth n by December, the door will be opened for her to bring in all her belongings. God help you n us all |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 10:34pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
bethyz: God bless you for this |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by eni070(m): 10:36pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
well, is isn't easy to quit a relationship talk less 7years old relationship. . don't think anything negative yet.. this issue should not be post here yet. . because you haven't heard from him yet why he suddenly change. . try and ask him the sudden change of his attitude. . we all here also have problems in our relationships. . it only took God grace to solve our problems. . and I pray that the Good God will guide you. . I will like you to call this radio presenter.. There will be a program today you can call and seek for advice 07087751242.. his name is daniel apata.. the program start at 12am every Thursday. . for any questions you can call me on 07010567159.. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by godofuck231: 10:38pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
jbaby265:submit to his force, become passive and control ur mouth, stop reacting to every wrong he commits, observe for a month or two, if it persists he has either been charmed or is in another relationship 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 10:39pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
My dear I won't talk much but if you think you guys can just call it quits after 7 years you are mistaken. A breakup will leave both of you bleeped up. Tackle the root of your relationship issues because it is not guaranteed that such problems won't come up in the next relationship. If you can't handle this small issues then together forever, for better or worse is not an option anymore. If you love him, stick with him. Ignore these relationship experts advising you to call it quits, most of them have never had a 1 month relationship not to talk of 7 years. That man is your husband. Hold him well. 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by divineappo(m): 10:40pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
Cutehector:she nor go talk ooo |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Basiljoe: 10:41pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
@Jbaby265 This may not be abnormal. Sometimes two people in a relationship get tired and need space or a retreat rather. Try taking sometime off with him. You could maybe visit his hometown together, or go somewhere calm for a while. |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 10:41pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
How long you've been in relationship doesn't matter, feelings have shelf life and it is best to let go when it is no more there. Marriage is a religious/societal way of sending people into slavery (my opinion), it is a taboo to back out. In case you do not know, love doesn't possess, love doesn't manage, love doesn't struggle... No tension. Most marriages are lifeless because they were insensitive to signals like yours during courtship. Love is freedom, ability to let go when parties need freshness, forget about religion and society, focus on your happiness and don't be insensitive to others'. The choice is yours to make, matters like this doesn't need external opinion, it is your life and whatever the outcome is will be felt by you, only you. Be wise 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 10:41pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
thanks guys.. you guys are really wonderful.. I've heard the good and better Advice.. I promise to post my pre wedding photos soon.. cos am really going to pray and work on it as most matured minds here advice.. thanks all 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by divineappo(m): 10:42pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
ipobarecriminals:tosyne2much don get babe ooo, I won't mention her sha. so, just leave tosyne2much out of this matter, biko 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 10:43pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
beatcoins: I will do just that. thanks |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Babateemd: 10:45pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
YOU GUYS NEED COUNSELLING IF YOU BOTH HONESTLY LOVE EACH OTHER AS YOU SAID, IT IS JUST A MATTER OF MATURITY. YOU GUYS WILL BE FINE. LOOK FOR A CHURCH OR A MARRIAGE/ RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLOR. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by jbaby265(f): 10:45pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
eni070: God bless you dear. I appreciate |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by Nobody: 10:46pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
beatcoins: Smh @ Ignore these relationship experts advising you to call it quits, most of them have never had a 1 month relationship not to talk of 7 years. Couldnt you express yourself without this part? |
Re: Help! My Relationship Of 7 Years Is About To Sink by rexesq(m): 10:46pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
jbaby265:if a woman indeed makes a man's dick not his life hard, he will in turn wet her pants not her eyes. |
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