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She knows your mum and I suspect you would not like to know that your mom also knows her or have met her in a bad corner before

just get her pregnant and she go follow u see anybody wey u wan see.,even ur grandfather.

kingxsamz:
just get her pregnant and she go follow u see anybody wey u wan see.,even ur grandfather.

kingxsamz:
just get her pregnant and she go follow u see anybody wey u wan see.,even ur grandfather.

do u knw the type of mother he have @ home?Let her try it .

u dnt need to rush,stampede /put her under duress to meet ur parents. Not all people are bold.She's probably a shy type.Trust me,she'll surely visit ur people soon.

ay2012c:
Please fellow nairalanders I have a girl I'm dating for some months now and I really love her I have met her mum and brother but the problem is anytime I invite her to come meet my mum she always gives excuses please what should I do

sit her down and ask her what her problem is. Is she an introvert? shy?

Uuuuummm...


Maybe she's not ready yet..

QueenSuccubus:
Uuuuummm...

Maybe she's not ready yet..

guess so

Martin0:


guess so

Somebori no go sleep eehn.

QueenSuccubus:




Somebori no go sleep eehn.

I don wake up jor

QueenSuccubus:




Somebori no go sleep eehn.

comea make we Waka

They both belong to the same club....

Martin0:


comea make we Waka

Waka where? I felt so tired even after drinking a cuppa coffee..still on ma bed sha.

What's ur plan for today?

QueenSuccubus:






Waka where? I felt so tired even after drinking a cuppa coffee..still on ma bed sha.

enjoyment
What's ur plan for today?

well i may go to work, but if not I will just lay on my bed chatting and reading.

QueenSuccubus:






Waka where? I felt so tired even after drinking a cuppa coffee..still on ma bed sha.

What's ur plan for today?

come to za oza room

Have you proposed to her? Put a ring on her finger
What does meeting your mum have to do for her?
You don ready for marriage?
Do you live alone or with your mum?
There are so many ladies that have met their boyfriend's family (including their ancestors) and at the end, they parted

Maybe she's just nervous. Chill.

On another note, people are really becoming westernized. When did we develop the guts to parade around & introduce our BFs/GFs to our parents? In certain families that is still a no go area.

You'd be like, this is my BF.
Their reaction:

She has another boyfriend.

I am in d same conditions

From a woman perspective...She isn't ready to be committed.. Cos once she goes with you..oti di Iyawo wa.. Anywhere your mum sees her.. Iyawo wa niyen...

You can ask her sha...
Just like a friend would say. She would only meet your parents if she is ready to get married to avoid stories that touches...

This world is small you know...

Don't put her under DUREX if you want her to meet your mom,Irie haha

Those Kinda Babes Who Want Their Mother In Laws Dead Before Marriage. If She Doesn't Want To See Your Mum Ask Her Why, And Tell Her She Must Meet Your Mum
Can She Cook? Or What Is Your Bae Hiding?

How old are you?



She no love you stop forcing yourself on someone that doesn't love you!

dude,.have you ever discussed things implying you both spending eternity together and she goes positive if not dnt try it oh.

cos if she change her mind morrow and u get another one go show mama she go begin think say u don dey craze sef.

cold feet
meeting your mum is a very big deal and shows you are raking the next step

she is probably scared and anxious .. I WS the first time I met my hubbies mum was like
how do I greet her . what do I wear ..its a lot cause u obv want your mum to like her and vice versa


just talk to her and calm her down that it will be on

Mothers are known to be very sentimental a lot.
First visitation used to make some ladies shiver because if the mother just hate her that first time, her own don be be that.
Now that you want her to meet your mum, did she know whether you want to take the relationship to another level? She might even have heard of how you'd taken another girl before her home and was rejected by your mum, thus developing cold feet.
Sit her down, you are closer to her than any NLers, let her tell you her fear, then you can handle it from there.
Dialogue! My bros, communication is very important in any given relationship!

If all the guys she dates demands she sees their mother, my question is, how many mothers will she see/visit before marriage? Some of you have got no values/principles and respect for your parents that the second you're in a relationship, an introduction must be made. What is this meeting for?

ipobarecriminals:
u dnt need to rush,stampede /put her under duress to meet ur parents. Not all people are bold.She's probably a shy type.Trust me,she'll surely visit ur people soon.

I concur.
Either that or she doesn't want a long term commitment with OP. Either way, she's not ready, don't ambush her, she'll either eventually come around or you'll realise she never wanted the long haul.

pressplay411:


I concur.
Either that or she doesn't want a long term commitment with OP. Either way, she's not ready, don't ambush her, she'll either eventually come around or you'll realise she never wanted the long haul.

pressplay411:


I concur.
Either that or she doesn't want a long term commitment with OP. Either way, she's not ready, don't ambush her, she'll either eventually come around or you'll realise she never wanted the long haul.

nah Fear .

What I see here is that she's not ready to be committed

You are the one eager to commit, but she is not that interested yet

or

Maybe she had a terrible experience in the past with regards to meeting the in-law thing. You can probe her to confirm