Cheating is the only thing i cant condone, no second chances for me no matter what.

It a strength when the innocent party has all the advantage but choose to forgive. But is weaknesses and stupidity when the innocent party choose to forgive because he/she is the disadvantage one hence left with no choice than to forgive.

OhiOfIhima:
Try an had a solid prove, confront if she refuse to open up, dump her ass out... Guy I was once in ur situation, I have to man up n decide at once. God can never be bais, do you knw y? someone more complete than her will surely come ur way as far as u didnt offend her. It work vise versa.

u right bro, buh jut confused right now, i dont know d reason why she cant tell me f2f buh when my friend ask she said yes that she``s doublr dating, nd d guy she double dating seems to b a G-boy(which i confirmed that he has money) promise her iphone since last year n d phone never land (maybe d thing hang for air)

[quote author=ogyunging post=65764958]Accepting a cheat back is a sign of strength. Acceptance means forgiveness and a second chance.

I have forgiven a cheat before, because even ogyunging needs forgiving. .. [/quot

U forgive her because y are guilty urself, dats not strength dat Is ROMANTIC POLITICS.
Strength is when u are innocent and have all the advantages to let go but choose to forgive.

greiboy:
He claimed he chased her because of the differences in ideology

Do you know the woman also had series of murder case on her neck

He was just claiming those ideology the reason was because of the cheating, he preach what he couldn't practice.

Josephdominic:
Forgiving a cheat is more of a strength than a weakness...........
And who said that because you have forgiven the cheat you must accept hi9m or her back??

Gud. Forgiveness dosent mean accepting back.

Josephdominic:
Forgiving a cheat is more of a strength than a weakness...........
And who said that because you have forgiven the cheat you must accept hi9m or her back??

Gud. Forgiveness dosent always mean accepting back.

donstan18:


Lies brO...Lies.



How about "Second chance"?

There's nothing like second chance there, talking from experience in fact I gave her up to third chance.

A cheat will still cheat even after you forgive her.

tosyne2much:
I have cheated on her before and she accepted me back (though the cheating was at the elementary stage)


I think it's strength on her path to actually forgive me. Ever since then, I don sit tight sha

with the way u dey flirt with NL babes, i hope u wont again.

I can't just get my head round to forgive a cheat. Especially when I know the circumstances in which she cheated isn't in any way my fault.

Infact, I noticed some strange behaviour in my Gf of recent, only for me to find out she's cheating, not once but out of loneliness. I confronted her about it and she begged,, cried and I just feigned I'd forgiven her. She doesn't know that what I'm about to do back to her would come in a hundred folds and her P**sy would be a living testimony.

Besides, my advice is "never agree to any long distance relationship if you are not mentally strong"

iamloyalty:


He was just claiming those ideology the reason was because of the cheating, he preach what he couldn't practice.

So he was a hypocrite

What about Dr Martin Luther king jr

tosyne2much:
I have cheated on her before and she accepted me back (though the cheating was at the elementary stage)


I think it's strength on her path to actually forgive me. Ever since then, I don sit tight sha

With the way u flirt with NL babes, u better sit tight.

iamloyalty:



With the way u flirt with NL babes, u better sit tight.

That was actually before not now

tosyne2much:
That was actually before not now

eh

greiboy:
He forgave her though, but didn't forget.

She was by the side of her husband during the period of his death

Read my write up again

Were they still married?

bukatyne:


Were they still married?

They still kept contact and she visited him from time to time before his death

I can't forgive a cheater, that is the only thing I can't tolerate in relationship. if my woman cheat that's the end.

QueenSuccubus:



I do have..Omo, we're in 2018 ooo ..abeeeg no joking

sugar I'm not joking

bizzy500:
sugar I'm not joking

Hahaahahha....okies sha

QueenSuccubus:


Hahaahahha....okies sha

oya hook me ur hotline

I don't see any need in cheating back... How about your self worth?

Although,everyone is entitled to their opinion...

I can't cheat because someone cheated on me.

I can't deal!

Jecciluscious:
I don't see any need in cheating back... How about your self worth?

Although,everyone is entitled to their opinion...

I can't cheat because someone cheated on me.

I can't deal!

Lol, you're way off point.

Calm down, re-read the question and give a related answer.

You are right Criis
Off point I swear

A cheat is always a cheat except when they encounter Christ.

I once captured my boyfriend sleeping with a girl who visited that he said was the cousin, i forgave him o but something in me left me. That was the end.

If your spirit can tolerate a cheating partner, it's up to you.

Dont mind those children advocating break-up, trust me they are not into any serious relationship, They should go an ask their parents the things they went through & how they were strong enough to forgive each other...

Deo1986:
Let's not view things in black and white or type trash simply because we are hiding behind our laptops and phones. People cheat mostly because of circumstances beyond their control, so a cheatee should put everything into consideration before taking a decision. We all cheat in various ways and adultery is one of them though considered the most heinous. But if the cheater begs for forgiveness and is genuinely contrite, what prevents you, me or the world from forgiving?