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A concerned Seegist.com.ng user sent this to us. He needs your help on how best to handle the situation/problem he’s currently facing in his marriage.
Read his story below:-

My name is Sylvester Moses from Jos, am sending this mail with my eyes full of tears � as I don’t really know what to do again.
I’m married with 2 kids. My kids and wife are the only things that makes me happy. I earn just 50k monthly but my wife earn more money than me.
So today, I got back home from work, walk into my wife’s room but didn’t see her. I called her name loudly and she answered from the Toilet and I told her it was me so she won’t get worried thinking it was a strange that entered her room.
I sat on the bed, saw her bag looking so full, I playfully dragged it closer to myself, I opened it but what I saw almost paralyzed me ���
I saw a bundle of 1000 Notes (About 100k in total I guessed), I dropped the cash and continue searching her bag only to see a Pack of Condom with 3 condoms missing.

These are the questions ringing in my head and giving me sleepless nights for some days now ��
Am tired, confused and frustrated. I don’t know what to do again at this junction.
Should I Just Let Her Go Or Continue With The Relationship?
I sincerely need your Advice so I can decide on what to do.
Please help me.
Thank you


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You obviously couldn't confront your wife because she earns more than you, are you that weak?

Had it been she's a housewife, would you have asked for our advise without confronting her?

How on earth can a man of the house see such things in her wife's bag and couldn't confront her or ask questions, are you scared to let her know that you went to her bag?


I detest WEAK men, they irritate me.

Keep on going from forum to forum to complain until you contact HIV from her.

What nonsense!!

Ah sorry o. I'll come back when this hits first page

This is ridiculous. Make sure you discuss what you discovered. Her response will give you the next line of action

dude..
your wife fvcking every dick and harry for money..
even a five year old will tell you that..
how do you explain condoms in her bag..
even if the condom weren't used why should a condom be in her bag..
now be a man when she comes out from the bathroom..
i expected you to donate slap to her face first
don't beat her just donate like 2 slap
weaklings calling themselves men everywhere

You let her know it was you.

So your wife does not recognise your voice anymore.

Add more items to the script to make it sweeter.

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Instead of confronting his wife eeehnnn...he go run to seegist.com for an advice...


As he said his wife earned more than him.. That cud be her salary And about the 3 missing condoms...who knows sha..she blown them up & popped it coz she got 100k that day

Good wife.

Cx

Lol

I hate it when grown and matured men always run to social media to cry for help when ever their wives or girlfriends misbehaves.One of the qualities of a real man is to be able to take decisions as at when do. Coming here now to wash ur dirty linings, has it solved the problem? Be a man and take charge of your family. Coming to tell us she makes more money than you is just very unnecessary. If your wife is cheating on you,treat her Bleep up like a man and stop whining.

Speechless!!

And you decided to bring it up here, instead of confronting your wife first, atleast to hear her own side of the story

You don't have to be confused

You found some packs of condoms missing

You gat to have a heart to heart discussion with her

Just forgive her if she confesses and apologises should in case she's at fault or should in case she cheated

MhizzAJ:
You don't have to be confused

You found some packs of condoms missing

You gat to have a heart to heart discussion with her

Just forgive her if she confesses and apologises should in case she's at fault or should in case she cheated

MhizzAJ:
You don't have to be confused

You found some packs of condoms missing

You gat to have a heart to heart discussion with her

Just forgive her if she confesses and apologises should in case she's at fault or should in case she cheated

. Should in case,should in case. What will a married woman or married man be doing with condoms if not cheating? You can't even call a spade a spade just because a woman is the culprit here.

FortifiedCity:

I don't know why people keep bringing all the problems of their life here especially when they know it's serious

He should talk to his family members or go see his pastor for counselling as the case maybe

The wife is the one feeding and providing for the family...So he should just berra brace up and be a man

But he should confront the wife first before taking any step...Who knows she might be innocent

MhizzAJ:



But he should confront the wife first before taking any step... Who knows she might be innocent

Innocent, in the sense that she's into selling of condom business or innocent in the sense that she's using them for balloon?

MhizzAJ:


I don't know why people keep bringing all the problems of their life here especially when they know it's serious

He should talk to his family members or go see his pastor for counselling as the case maybe

The wife is the one feeding and providing for the family...So he should just berra brace up and be a man

But he should confront the wife first before taking any step...Who knows she might be innocent

. So because she is the one feeding and providing for their family,she has the right to Bleep every Tom,Dick and Harry? But when some men who also provides for their families, does the same ,people like you will scream to high heavens. Hypocrisy is a diseases my dear. Use your brain when making contributions to stuffs like thus.

Perhaps she is keeping the money and condoms for her friend? . Stop over -reacting , this is just a big misunderstanding lol. Ask her , I'm sure she can explain .

JONNYSPUTE:
. So because she is the one feeding and providing for their family,she has the right to Bleep every Tom,Dick and Harry? But when some men who also provides for their families, does the same ,people like you will scream to high heavens. Hypocrisy is a diseases my dear. Use your brain when making contributions to stuffs like thus.

What is your problem
My battery is low...I would have answered you very well
You didn't even get what i was trying to say

You are the one who uses his brain when commenting Oversabi will not kill some people

I once had a neigbour who use condom as face cleanser tho,bt ur insecurity irritates me,how did she earning more enter the equation

MhizzAJ:

What is your problem
My battery is low...I would have answered you very well
You didn't even get what i was trying to say

You are the one who uses his brain when commenting Oversabi will not kill some people

. Your comment was glaringly written,so don't try to play smart. As for over sabi,I'm not one.

Guys accept it, women are polygamous in nature. The fact that they stay with one man doesn't mean they will remain faithful naa.
Just accept that and forgive your wife.
Watch war room, pray for her to stop cheating.
Above all don't think of divorce, it rains everywhere.

Nnemuka:
Guys accept it, women are polygamous in nature. The fact that they stay with one man doesn't mean they will remain faithful naa.
Just accept that and forgive your wife.
Watch war room, pray for her to stop cheating.
Above all don't think of divorce, it rains everywhere.

. Sarcasm. Lol. This is what men normally say.

You should have started like this....


Take the pack of condoms and leave the cash, shebi it was at the bottom of the bag ba? trust me, she will be scared. Follow up as though nothing happened. Then brace up and ask the question. If she rude, then your next action may be justified.

JONNYSPUTE:
. Your comment was glaringly written,so don't try to play smart. As for over sabi,I'm not one.

Okay

donstan18:


Innocent, in the sense that she's into selling of condom business or innocent in the sense that she's using them for balloon?

You never can tell
Let him confront his wife first

whether she cheated or not, whether she earns more than you or not,whether you want to continue with the marriage or not you still need to confront her, talk to her first, she definitely must have something to say. It's actually a tough one for you, but be the man you're.


is she a teacher??
does her job have anything to do with teenagers or youth,....... I'm just thinking out loud, may be she is innocent after all... you can't know until you confront her.

You saw a condom pack with nothing inside. 3 wasnt missing. she used everything. Confront her if you ask me. Talkng solves alot of trouble https:///BBFTrQ