Selling of girls is it allowed lol

XhosaNostra:


Which tribe in South Africa demands food as a bride price?
In my culture the only thing a groom is expected to bring along with him during lobola is tobacco (our elders love to smoke, it's part of the culture), brandy & things like blankets etc. I've never seen anyone bring groceries. Also the "cattle" thing is metaphoric nowadays, people deal with MONEY. They charge what it costs for cattle, not necessarily mean you must come ushering a herd of cattle.

The xhosa and zulu tribes dont demand for food stuffs but the lobola are always cattles and the amounts depends on the bride's virginity and how many kids she had before, either with the groom nor with her ex.
Once they conclude on the amount of cattles, it would be converted to its monetary value and then handle over to the groom's family.
Lobola could also be paid installmentaly.
Never meant you must come with a truck load of cattle.

Zuluhead:

The xhosa and zulu tribes dont demand for food stuffs but the lobola are always cattles and the amounts depends on the bride's virginity and how many kids she had before, either with the groom nor with her ex.
Once they conclude on the amount of cattles, it would be converted to its monetary value and then handle over to the groom's family.
Lobola could also be paid installmentaly.
Never meant you must come with a truck load of cattle.

You got that right!

XhosaNostra:


Which tribe in South Africa demands food as a bride price?
In my culture the only thing a groom is expected to bring along with him during lobola is tobacco (our elders love to smoke, it's part of the culture), brandy & things like blankets etc. I've never seen anyone bring groceries. Also the "cattle" thing is metaphoric nowadays, people deal with MONEY. They charge what it costs for cattle, not necessarily mean you must come ushering a herd of cattle.

LMFAO, this got me laughing. Never heard of a South African tribe taking groceries for lobola . Only on nairaland will you hear such tales lol.

Lionessza:




LMFAO, this got me laughing. Never heard of a South African tribe taking groceries for lobola . Only on nairaland will you hear such tales lol.

Nokukutya kuyoyikeka Kwaaaaa. I'd rather not get married. Where's the money, bhuti? Cash ONLY.

Op stop misleading people. It is either the groom decided to show off his wealth or it is for some other event other than payment of bride price.

XhosaNostra:


Nokukutya kuyoyikeka Kwaaaaa. I'd rather not get married. Where's the money, bhuti? Cash ONLY.

LMFAO, I was looking at that. Hayi , it's like isithuko . Only hard cash will be accepted, no deposits or cheques either .

Lionessza:



LMFAO, I was looking at that. Hayi , it's like isithuko . Only hard cash will be accepted, no deposits or cheques either .

LMFAO. Sizobethwa
Hayi you're late, omadala have moved on with the times, kuthiwa they take "transactions" ngoku, sana Was reading an article just a few minutes ago about bank transfers etc. No stories lol. Pay anyhow as long as the money arrives qha. Not lemfitshimfitshi yamadumbe or whatever those things are. What is idumbe anyway, do you know?

But I agree. Ngathi niyalamba. Ukutya for the why now?

XhosaNostra:


LMFAO. Sizobethwa
Hayi you're late, omadala have moved on with the times, kuthiwa they take "transactions" ngoku, sana Was reading an article just a few minutes ago about bank transfers etc. No stories lol. Pay anyhow as long as the money arrives qha. Not lemfitshimfitshi yamadumbe or whatever those things are. What is idumbe anyway, do you know?

But I agree. Ngathi niyalamba. Ukutya for the why now?

LMFAO, new age typa lobola. Awe uncles . Lol@ amadumbe, I've heard of the name but don't know what it is .

Lionessza:



LMFAO, new age typa lobola. Awe uncles . Lol@ amadumbe, I've heard of the name but don't know what it is .

Yaaas. When I think of amadumbe, I think "hairy" vegetables or something like ezizinto balobola ngazo aba. The sweet popatoey things. I'll Google it

Lionessza:



LMFAO, new age typa lobola. Awe uncles . Lol@ amadumbe, I've heard of the name but don't know what it is .

Apparently here they are, amadumbe akhona.

XhosaNostra:


Apparently here they are, amadumbe akhona.

Lol, oh I see. Hay dankie .

XhosaNostra:


You got that right!

Nelson mandela paid a lobola of 60 cows, just knowing that. Xhosanostra how many cows did they pay for your lobola?

Zuluhead:

Nelson mandela paid a lobola of 60 cows, just knowing that. Xhosanostra how many cows did they pay for your lobola?

I want 100 Come & pay.

XhosaNostra:


I want 100 Come & pay.

Okay thats settled then. tell mkhulu and magogo that some guest would be coming soon.

Zuluhead:

Okay thats settled then. tell mkhulu and magogo that some guest would be coming soon.

Hahaha. Ok. Which tribe do you belong to?

its Amazing.

XhosaNostra:


Hahaha. Ok. Which tribe do you belong to?

Does it really matters... Am a nigerian.

Zuluhead:

Does it really matters... Am a nigerian.

Ok. Good for you.

XhosaNostra:


Ok. Good for you.

Where are you located, jozi, durban, cape town or p.e?

yet the ibo girls keep flirting and rude in marriage.

Zuluhead:

Where are you located, jozi, durban, cape town or p.e?

PTA. You?

XhosaNostra:


PTA. You?

Durban but would be in jozi by weekend.
Check your pm.

SamoaJoe:



Your Mbaise people are very terrible in bride price. Till date, Mbaise is the worst place to marry from Igbo land.They will demand an arm and leg for bride price!

Very beautiful fair Queens with terrible characters and toxic, life sucking attitudes. I have never seen a place with high concentration of beauties more than Mbaise people. But the problem with them is that its also the place with a high co concentration of evil and wickedness. Quote me anywhere!

It is very unfortunate that many people do not think nor weigh their words before they type. Shame on you!

Zuluhead:

Durban but would be in jozi by weekend.
Check your pm.

I'll read it later. Oh, OK. How is Durbs?

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lefulefu:
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Her kindred go get a piece or pieces naa

Opentokwowledge:
AuroraB's people

I dey look you like Fettywap so
I won't bother asking how you got to know this

AuroraB:
Her kindred go get a piece or pieces naa

hmm na wao

AuroraB:
I dey look you like Fettywap so
I won't bother asking how you got to know this

If you care to know, ask. I kuku know how to lie very well