mokset123:
Engage yourself with other forms of businesses like getting extra students to coach for lessons, using your spare time to get extra source of money by venturing into keke napep riding during weekends or using your own car for town service to get extra income or your bike. If the income you generate is substantial monthly, quit your teaching job and face your side hustle squarely. If after improving your income and your wife is not yielding, then i wonder what the problem is

Mavrick2012:
thanks so much for this.
Sir, i have sincerely been doing all within my capacity to prove am a changed person, but she still insist have not changed. I can't even understand.
sincerely, have been trying a lot when it comes to listening to her. Though am financially not too healthy, but am trying all i can in taking the family out.thanks sir

flokii:
She's probably tired of your cigarette dick poking her every night.

Your wife has seen a sweeter preek elsewhere.
Accept my condolences.

PSTEMMA1960:
u have to keep trying, i once had a girl friend, she does nt forgive easily （some women are like that ）anytime i wrong her she won't even tell me, bt from her actions i would know, if i should ask her how her day went she will jst say fine, and that's all..

she will jst serve me food and refused eating with me, saying that she is nt hungry..

now get this point right, if she doesn't love me, she won't even starve herself..

then when i discover that, i will be coming home earlier than i used to...

always buy small thing for her, mine loves icecream so much（so find out what she likes） it could be fruit or any other thing, so don't say u don't have money, because what they like is nt car or gold..

then when u are doing all these things, don't u ever ask her for sex, if nt u will ruin ur chances, she will think that it's because of sex that u have became mr nice guy all of a sudden..

then after i have done all the above mentioned, i will then take her out （nt mr biggs or mama cass）bt to a very cool place such as garden, where u don't even need to pay 1 kobo. then tell her how sorry u are and promise her that u won't let her down again..

remind her the good times that u guys have spent together, and that this junture u will see her go emotional （woman are emotional beeing） then allow her to cry as long she wants.. then take her home, cook for her and let the both of u eat together..

then go to bed together make sure there is a body contact, then u will know that she needs the sex more than u （jst that woman can control thier libido）

Mavrick2012:
thanks ma

tensazangetsu20:
This is why nice guys should stay clear off marriage and dating. OP you are a disgrace to all men . Divorce her and get another wife wtf. Life is too short to be unhappy. Remember you always have you so you should be worried about yourself and always put yourself first.

Orchid45:
You need money and lots of it. You should be focused on making money and ignore your wife's attitude. Money will solve 99% of your problems.

themayor4542:
Though I'm not married, but I think having silent relationship with you wife for three years doesn't bode well. In between those years you never know what decision and conclusion your wife might have arrived at. The idea of leaving a misunderstanding hanging for so long doesn't seem like the way to go. A stitch in time saves nine.
But anyway, what do I know. I don't even have a girlfriend yet talk more of being married.




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Mavrick2012:
thanks so much for this.
Sir, i have sincerely been doing all within my capacity to prove am a changed person, but she still insist have not changed. I can't even understand.
sincerely, have been trying a lot when it comes to listening to her. Though am financially not too healthy, but am trying all i can in taking the family out.thanks sir

Mavrick2012:
thanks so much for this.
Sir, i have sincerely been doing all within my capacity to prove am a changed person, but she still insist have not changed. I can't even understand.
sincerely, have been trying a lot when it comes to listening to her. Though am financially not too healthy, but am trying all i can in taking the family out.thanks sir

Mavrick2012:
Gooday house,
Am typing With a heavy heart and eyes full of tears, have been crying for the past 30 minutes.
I sincerely don't know how to win my wife back.
We have been married for the past 7yrs.
We have had issues in the past (some of which can be found in my topics here on nairaland).
Between 2011 and 2013,we had serious marriage threatening misunderstandings.
Between 2013 and 2016 we stopped fighting, but engaged in silent relationship.
By 2017, i felt we not growing younger, so i called my wife for total reconciliation. I pleaded to her telling her i have been wrong all these years.
The issue now is, my wife is not loving me the way she should. Whenever i demand for a pathing or welcoming hug, she does it with some level of hesitation, sometimes she even refuse.
If i tell her i love her, she scarcely respond.
My wife has refused me sex since January 27th 2017. While i desire we relate directly, my wife would rather be on wattsapp, sometimes down to 12 midnight.
I love my wife so much.
I desire to have my wife back to me.
House, please tell me what to do.
Have been on sleeping pills so i can sleep from thinking.
Am currently contemplating alcohol, if it could resolve my frustration.
I love my wife, as a matter of fact, my wife is the only woman i have known sexually in my entire 40yrs on earth.
HOUSE, PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO TO GET MY WIFE BACK

PSTEMMA1960:
u have to keep trying, i once had a girl friend, she does nt forgive easily （some women are like that ）anytime i wrong her she won't even tell me, bt from her actions i would know, if i should ask her how her day went she will jst say fine, and that's all..

she will jst serve me food and refused eating with me, saying that she is nt hungry..

now get this point right, if she doesn't love me, she won't even starve herself..

then when i discover that, i will be coming home earlier than i used to...

always buy small thing for her, mine loves icecream so much（so find out what she likes） it could be fruit or any other thing, so don't say u don't have money, because what they like is nt car or gold..

then when u are doing all these things, don't u ever ask her for sex, if nt u will ruin ur chances, she will think that it's because of sex that u have became mr nice guy all of a sudden..

then after i have done all the above mentioned, i will then take her out （nt mr biggs or mama cass）bt to a very cool place such as garden, where u don't even need to pay 1 kobo. then tell her how sorry u are and promise her that u won't let her down again..

remind her the good times that u guys have spent together, and that this junture u will see her go emotional （woman are emotional beeing） then allow her to cry as long she wants.. then take her home, cook for her and let the both of u eat together..

then go to bed together make sure there is a body contact, then u will know that she needs the sex more than u （jst that woman can control thier libido）

sisisioge:
Your wife is seeing someone else. You're gonna have to deal with that first. Catch her at it so you two can talk about the whole "marriage " thing. Don't ruin your health because of an inevitable situation. Pele.... It is well.

tensazangetsu20:
This is why nice guys should stay clear off marriage and dating. OP you are a disgrace to all men . Divorce her and get another wife wtf. Life is too short to be unhappy. Remember you always have you so you should be worried about yourself and always put yourself first.

ImaIma1:



Seriously how did you come to this conclusion?

ladycomfort:
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Has she ever caught you cheating on her

Eberechi24:
Money is the only solution to ur problem. Money commands respect for u as a man.

Forget about something-you-said-in-past-that-hurts-me story. If u have enuf resource to take care of ur family without needing her assistance i tell u she wnt tink twice b4 4gving u

make more money its nt easy but u gotta try. Ur Marriage has a long to go 'if u two agreed anyway'
Are u gonna keep beging for life?
#ManUp

antidisestablis:

Though u didn't tell us some of the things you did to your wife. But my fear is that your wife maybe cheating now. Pls try and find out this maybe one of the reasons she is not showing much love because someone maybe out there that is she is giving it to . Also pls work on your finances the moment you lose out in this aspect, she may not respect u much again.
The Lord will intervene in the situation , just move closer to God all will be well.

Mavrick2012:
seems you missed where i said "in my entire life i know only one woman, and that is my wife."

Sagamite:


Stop irritating the poor girl and get out of her life.

Na by force?

She does not want you anymore, move on.

When a woman makes it clear she does not want to be with you, you would need more than Professor Peller to change that.

SHE WANTS TO MOVE ON! YOU ARE NOT FOR HER! LEAVE HER ALONE!

She wants someone else.

sisisioge:


Ima! They've been flatmates for a while. No seex since January last year. Refused to completely accept extended olive branch. Prefers to stay on whatsap till midnight possibly chatting with her church members... Etc. Pls go and retake the Idetective 101 class

Mavrick2012:
this is why have been asking her if she has any serious friend, but, she said no.
The whole thing is really frustrating and traumatizing.
I don't even know where to start from

Mavrick2012:
this is why have been asking her if she has any serious friend, but, she said no.
The whole thing is really frustrating and traumatizing.
I don't even know where to start from

demelza:
Sir, I was in your shoes once even though we were not married. I was constantly begging for him to take us serious or even show that I meant something to him.
At a point I was totally frustrated and even thought of taking my life.
But I sat down one day and came up with a plan.
I gave myself a month to raise an amount that would enable me relocate far away from him.
I put my nose down and worked like it was going out of style.
I woke up by 4am, everyday apart from Sundays, to leave for work and closed by 8pm. I incorporated many side hustles, no amount was too small, to enable me reach my goal.
Long story short, I achieved my aim and most importantly, got back my peace.


You are in an extremely toxic environment and best believe it won't get better.
That woman has seen you finish, nothing you can do about it.
Yes you love her but for your sanity, you have to leave.
I agree with those who say your problem is money. Please look for any legit hustle to make money. Don't turn down your nose at anything.
Just focus on that goal.
This too shall pass.

PSTEMMA1960:
Women don't know how to pretend, expecially when she truly loves her man..

u broke her heart, she has nt forgiven u from the bottom of her heart..

my advice: take her out atleast 2 times in a week, always make out time to listen to her, they love attention so much..

prove to her that u are a changed person, and u will see her falling inlove with u all over again..