In this present times, men looking to marry a woman must add a new criterion, the potential woman is not brainwashed by social media already, the feminine imperatives (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/13/the-feminine-imperative-in-cooperate-world/) using their main language of feminism. I understand if you don't see anything wrong with this young lady's comments, after all we have all been preconditioned to believe for the last 50 years by the feminine imperatives to pedestalized women, this is why some men are quick to say Not All Women Are Like That NAWALD, always wanting to be seen as the nice guy who's different and want to defend her honor.

Women are two things only, an angel and a LovePeddler. The part you trigger of her is what you get, you defending her (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/01/12/6-things-nice-guy-attract-girl-every-real-man-must-never/)  and wanting everyone to know NAWALD is a display of your blue pill sexual preconditioned orientation of being a white knight to get her reward.

The problem today is many young boys in nursery, primary and secondary schools are also been preconditioned to act and think like a woman, taught to pdestalized women, repressed their masculinity and become emotional, weaker men in the future, school work is channeled to favor the girl child because the feminist believes empowering only the girls is equality. You need to know what the feminine imperatives are teaching young boys in schools before it's too late.

Below is a manifestation of how much damage they have created for the younger women of today:

"I am an 18 year old law student. I am a feminist. I want to get married before I am 20years old..."

This is one of the many superficial contradiction of women, feminist do not get married early, in many cases until they are about to hit the biological wall in fact they are brainwashed to believe they believe they can go for plastic surgery, load a heap of makeup on their face and tell themselves they still got it when they are in their 30s...it just that there are no good men to settle for them

The goal of feminism is to misguide the woman to believe she can have it all, do it all but expect the man to be a jack of all trade and master of some especially the ones that satisfies her id. (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/05/how-did-it-got-this-bad/) 

“I believe that a man should love a woman and do endless things to ensure that she is aware...We will have a timetable sharing the house chores between me and him. From cooking to washing to cleaning of the house...”

A typical self proclaim feminist want equality yet want the man to do 'endless things' for her. Notice she didn't say she will also do endless things for him, doing also would be equality but feminism is not about equality between man and woman but equality for the woman at the detriment of the man.

An ideology that believes empowering that believes empowering one gender (the female gender) is equality. Gentle men, there are male and female genders but feminism believes empowering only the female gender is equality. So what happens to the boy child being molested, raped, deprived privilege by the school teacher who want him to start acting and thinking like a woman.

Feminist cannot think about that, it's about how their feelings and how it's affect her, she acts on this feelings and think later. If she does think about she will realized that seeking for equality is a mirage created by her ever dynamic feelings.

A woman want to date/marry a man taller than her, richer than her, superior than her, good looking with a great body build up, good gene to reproduce and so on. The contradiction here is that she want equality, yet want a man superior to her in at least one area of her life.

No woman ever marry a man lesser than her, if a man don't have money, not tall, not attractive. For her to date you, she must see that you are superior to her in one area. Maybe you're a good cook, superior wisdom and patient to calm her emotional storm and ability to get her pregnant and most importantly you fu*ck her so good.

A woman will never settle for a man equal to her. If she is barren due to medical condition or series of abortion she will still not be looking for an impotent man but a man with capacity to reproduce. Logically, equality will have been for her to look for man with similar medical condition.

If she has limited education, she still want to date/marry educated and more smarter man than her.

Gentle men, where is the equality? Don't throw the equal pay at me unless you're sure her work commensurate with that of a man. I will only agree to that. Reading article, essays, social medial, main screen media MSM, brainwashing you with feminism ideology instead of acquiring skills and be so good at it, be feminine that no one man can ignore you that even as a woman you will be paid more is one of the best thing a woman can do for herself.

“After marriage I want my husband to wait for me to finish school before we can have sex...”

Dear men, always set the frame (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/08/the-frame/) and make sure all factors including the woman in your life is under that frame. Once once you lose that frame, you lost everything already! Sex will be weaponized, she will only reward you after performing a certain task demanded by her. People don't negotiate desires but will always at all times find a way to get what they crave for.

If a man can want a woman who will share financial responsibility aka household expenses with him, why is it a bad thing for a woman to ask for a man that can share household responsibility aka chores with her?

You made a lot of decent points

Most Nigerian women want to marry or date the man that is superior to them in at least one aspect of life i.e. good looks, money, which is the traditional mentality of most women

However, the same set of ladies will be preferred to be called feminists, when the issues of the traditional role of women in relationship comes up.

To them, feminism is about promoting women's right and interest alone and not equality between the sexes.

We have plenty of these type of feminists on nairaland

Rubbish post so someone sat down and started typing nonsense.Leave feminists alone is it your feminism?

Ladyhippolyta88:
Rubbish post so someone sat down and started typing nonsense.Leave feminists alone is it your feminism?

And someone who is pained also type dumb comment.

CuriousMynd:


And someone who is pained also type dumb comment.

You made no sense your point is?

what is she sayingso every decision you make is now attached to feminism
stupid people everywhere

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Preshy561:
what is she sayingso every decision you make is now attached to feminism

stupid people everywhere

Abi ooo.

OrestesDante:


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Yes o just like our campaigns against Buhari and APC when half of the people complaining do not have PVC's.Don't live in delusions.All ends on social media.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Abi ooo.

some people can mumu eeh

Preshy561:

some people can mumu eeh

Yes o the Op is known for posting rubbish like this.

delishpot:
If a man can want a woman who will share financial responsibility aka household expenses with him, why is it a bad thing for a woman to ask for a man that can share household responsibility aka chores with her?

No one is saying you should not help your woman especially when it come to fatigue or sanitation, when she's REALLY in that condition you know it's you or no one. If you enjoy cooking or whatever, do so because you love it NOT because she asked you to or you are doing it because you DON'T want to offend her or because you will be DENIED the cookie if you refuse.

Desire is NOT negotiable, if someone desire you, they will not place a condition rather they will look forward to that opportunity to enjoy that special moments or feelings you make them feel.

The feminist version of African Ladies, especially the Nigerian counterparts is paranoid and nauseating.

This points the confusion of our ladies who use feminism to cover their gold digging habit and still want a rich man like dangote do wash their "pata gigan".

If only guys can stop parading these hungry ladies, hustle and settle with a mentality strong, focused humble and intelligent ladies, perhaps this one would have a rethink.

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Preshy561:
what is she sayingso every decision you make is now attached to feminism

stupid people everywhere

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She literally said "I am 18 years old and I am feminist..."
Use your eyes for Bleep sake

TheMenCode:


No one is saying you should not help your woman especially when it come to fatigue or sanitation, when she's REALLY in that condition you know it's you or no one. If you enjoy cooking or whatever, do so because you love it NOT because she asked you to or you are doing it because you DON'T want to offend her or because you will be DENIED the cookie if you refuse.

Desire is NOT negotiable, if someone desire you, they will not place a condition rather they will look forward to that opportunity to enjoy that special moments or feelings you make them feel.

But if a guy says he can not marry a liability she must have a job or no marriage would you say desire is not negotiable?

delishpot:


But if a guy says he can not marry a liability she must have a job or no marriage would you say desire is not negotiable?

A guy can decide what the fu*ck he wants. He goes for what he want.. Men think, then act, if he wants an asset that's what his focus will be.

He doesn't need to 'say'.. (like a feminized man who emote like a woman, acts and thinks like a woman, lack abundant mentality).

He doesn't need to act and think later like a woman. Rather takes his time to think it through and plot his strategy of how to get what he want. (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/03/16/13-things-nigerian-men-must-focus-on-and-have-under-control-before-35/)


Women act and think later. So as to find a way to rationalize it, so they don't feel guilty about what they did.

A woman desire to have sex with a man she's attracted to is non negotiable. She breaks her own rules to be with him.

TheMenCode:


A guy can decide what the fu*ck he wants. He goes for what he want.. Men think, then act, if he wants an asset that's what his focus will be.

He doesn't need to 'say'.. (like a feminized man who emote like a woman, acts and thinks like a woman, lack abundant mentality).

He doesn't need to act and think later like a woman. Rather takes his time to think it through and plot his strategy of how to get what he want. (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/03/16/13-things-nigerian-men-must-focus-on-and-have-under-control-before-35/)


Women act and think later. So as to find a way to rationalize it, so they don't feel guilty about what they did.

A woman desire to have sex with a man she's attracted to is non negotiable. She breaks her own rules to be with him.

Well this one ia thinking before acting why are you taking her stance personal? She beg you to marry her?

In essence, she wants to make a timetable out of her life and relationship with every activity based on what she wants and when she wants. I believe her friends where being nice when they said shes delusional