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Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by crackhaus: 12:57pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
bukatyne:Lol, she was the one who introduced the word into our short conversation. I was more concerned with the point at which one will be taken for granted. |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by crackhaus: 1:03pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
bukatyne:I walk around completely nakëd when I have to, wearing a wrapper can't beat that when it comes to circulation in the right places. |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by ImaIma1(f): 2:44pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
crackhaus: Hmmmmm |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by ImaIma1(f): 2:48pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
ndubueze92: Wow!! So you are going to die off early and your wife gets to enjoy everything? That is an interesting perspective. Well...try to enjoy your life right now since you hope to die soon 1 Like |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by ndubueze92(m): 3:23pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
ImaIma1:I never said that! We go die together from 90. Realistically, check the society the ratio of that! you will know that the view I shared is real and happening. |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by bukatyne(f): 3:40pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
crackhaus: I agree with you that the social media madness is something else. Almost everyone is quick to post something on SM to validate themselves and intimidate others. |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by bukatyne(f): 3:41pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
crackhaus: Well, depends on the couple |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by bukatyne(f): 3:48pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
crackhaus: The question was for her, that's why I copied her. It is the same sentiment that makes men feel doing chores is beneath them. |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by bukatyne(f): 3:51pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
crackhaus: Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by ImaIma1(f): 6:01pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
ndubueze92: It could be a lifestyle issue. There are exceptions |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by ndubueze92(m): 8:52pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
ImaIma1:True. Truly I have been expecting an insult from you... We have exchanged mentions many times now without any.... Well done. I go help my wife do some things sha. |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by ndubueze92(m): 8:52pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
ImaIma1:True. Truly I have been expecting an insult from you... We have exchanged mentions many times now without any.... Well done. I go help my wife do some kind things sha. |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by ImaIma1(f): 10:14pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
ndubueze92: I am shocked myself that you didn't throw insults. It is good to find a guy here that can communicate without insults. 1 Like |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by ndubueze92(m): 11:41pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
ImaIma1:Insults, hating,cursing and abusing has become a Nairaland thing very recently. I have been on this forum for a long time though, I have never been an active member and, In those years, the new entrants have damaged the reputation and the serenity that existed and should i also add that the mods are accomplices in this. 1 Like |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by Nobody: 1:34am On Mar 29, 2018 |
yes Unless she a housewife. Then its a clear trade off of duties. He work,she cooks |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by ImaIma1(f): 6:34am On Mar 29, 2018 |
ndubueze92: There are too many children and overgrown babies that feel the need to hurl insults and profanities at every turn, especially to ladies. I respond to them accordingly but sometimes i overlook. 1 Like |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by ndubueze92(m): 8:13am On Mar 29, 2018 |
ImaIma1:The best way is to overlook them all, replying only makes you look pained and fuels their nonsensical acts. I have found out that some people still retain the bad attitude you're "suggesting/advising them to change ". Arguing with them makes you cut a frustrated figure. |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by crackhaus: 8:52am On Mar 29, 2018 |
bukatyne:They want to trend |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by crackhaus: 9:02am On Mar 29, 2018 |
bukatyne:Honestly, I don't even know any G that will be 100% comfortable with having his wife contribute half (or even less) of every single thing they have to do financially. Nigerian men, well most, are not built that way. Never mind what my brothers type on the internet about having it 50/50. |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by bukatyne(f): 9:43am On Mar 29, 2018 |
crackhaus: When i mean contribute, it is not necessarily per project or stuff; they have a joint or common pot either 100% or in percentages. I don't know the Nigerian men who are referring to; I know that MOST working wives contribute and at some point totally support the home financially alone. I don't even do internet references, I am talking live. The only people I know expected the husband to solely handle the home is Ibos and most times, their wives did not work. Right from time, in Yoruba land, a wife is 'shamed or called lazy' if she expects the husband to finance the home alone. They are even called 'alabodos'.... Interestingly, the husband is not really expected to do anything domestic. |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by bukatyne(f): 9:44am On Mar 29, 2018 |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by crackhaus: 10:40am On Mar 29, 2018 |
bukatyne:I like this so much. This is where a sensible man comes in, not expected to do anything domestic doesn't mean not actually helping when necessary. |
Re: Retired Soldier Takes Over The Kitchen. Says "Help Your Wives, You Wont Die" by nlPoster: 8:47pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
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