According to what the lady, Shelbs wrote below;
"I am 120 pounds. I have been for about 5 months.
My partner said this to me. Am I overreacting for feeling hurt by this? I’m at a loss and just can’t even comprehend how someone who claims to love me can say this."

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/04/lady-shares-the-chat-she-had-with-her-boyfriend-about-her-body.html






Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

My dear move on to where you will be celebrated. Don't manage a sadist that makes you hate your self

The guy was just been honest... .

Honesty is a fools game....

By mentioning that She’s getting bigger - guy obviously loves her; or may be still cares about her.

Some other persons won’t even mention at all. They’ll change just get a new model, rather than update the older version.

She should be grateful. Nothing wrong with wanting your girl to look a certain way rather than cheat.

I sincerely don’t see anything wrong with what the guy said, maybe it’s just me

Me self no want fat woman o ... Although, One man's food is another man's poison....

The guy never say anything that bad na.....he loves his babe sexy and smart....who doesn't love smart babe.....not too many I guess

Fkforyou:
The guy was just been honest... .

Honesty is a fools game....

WORD

Nutase:
My dear move on to where you will be celebrated. Don't manage a sadist that makes you hate your self

People like you can break up a relationship.
I see nothing wrong in what the guy said. He did not insult her and of course it might be her shape that attracted him to her in the first place.
She should be grateful the guy told her, it shows he loves her. Some guys won't tell you, they would just start cheating and yes there's nothing wrong if he wants her to look a certain way so he won't cheat.
I'm annoyed the girl is hurt self, she should be grateful she has a partner that cares.
And the guy is no sadist mister, stop advising wrongly.
I love guys that says what's up instead of cheating

My girl friend is currently in training to get a bigger ass just because of her boyfriend.. It's well

farano:
My girl friend is currently in training to get a bigger ass just because of her boyfriend.. It's well

would advice you to join her

She Hard A Great Body, she Should Work Out And See Her Shape Create confusion

queenitee:

People like you can break up a relationship.
I see nothing wrong in what the guy said. He did not insult her and of course it might be her shape that attracted him to her in the first place.
She should be grateful the guy told her, it shows he loves her. Some guys won't tell you, they would just start cheating and yes there's nothing wrong if he wants her to look a certain way so he won't cheat.
I'm annoyed the girl is hurt self, she should be grateful she has a partner that cares.
And the guy is no sadist mister, stop advising wrongly.
I love guys that says what's up instead of cheating

My dear you have what they call sex doll syndrome. A man defines what you should be and you follow him blindly because you do not have any self worth. A man says get a boob job, liposuction, abortion etc and you jump at it to please him even though you really do not want it and you know the damage it will cause to your body.Remember he is still a boyfriend and not a Husband. If he cheats its his loss if you really know your worth.

About the breaking a relationship that's your opinion. But you have to first love yourself before you can love any mortal genuinely and these kind of guys come only to kill your self worth and make you hate yourself then start controlling your life.

Lastly, change is the only constant thing in life if he cannot handle the changes he notices in you he should take a walk. Even the fairest of flowers will wither and fade away. True love is accommodating. A man that loves you for your looks will leave you when the looks fade and trust me it will fade. Its better you don't marry him because he will definitely leave you in the future.

CastedAyo:
According to what the lady, Shelbs wrote below;
[i]"I am 120 pounds. I have been for about 5 months.
My partner said this to me. Am I overreacting for feeling hurt by this? I’m at a loss and just can’t even comprehend how someone who claims to love me can say this."[/b]

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/04/lady-shares-the-chat-she-had-with-her-boyfriend-about-her-body.html






Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

You are getting too fat. The guy was just being nice. If I was the one I would have told her plainly.

Watch what you eat and start working out. It's that simple. The guy loves you that's why he is even telling you. Other guys will just move once you start competing with hippos for size

farano:
My girl friend is currently in training to get a bigger ass just because of her boyfriend.. It's well

Tell your girlfriend to do squats. Her ass will be the bomb

Nutase:
My dear move on to where you will be celebrated. Don't manage a sadist that makes you hate your self

He was being honest. Would you rather he lied to her and then later cheat on her and dump her?

BluntBoy:


He was being honest. Would you rather he lied to her and then later cheat on her and dump her?

I prefer you take a walk than body shame her. If he really loves her he doesn't need to body shame her but can even join her in the gym as an encouragement to develop a good physique and maintain a healthy weigjt. The truth is that if she marries that guy he will cheat on her or divorce her in the future because child birth is definitely going to change her body.

If he thinks ur getting bigger, come to me baby.

I like em all sizes.

Nutase:
I prefer you take a walk than body shame her. If he really loves her he doesn't need to body shame her but can even join her in the gym as an encouragement to develop a good physique and maintain a healthy weigjt. The truth is that if she marries that guy he will cheat on her or divorce her in the future because child birth is definitely going to change her body.

Very right that he had the option to join her in the gym, But you do really know not every guy has the kind of time to visit the gym with a gf? Some guys are just really genuinely busy 14hrs a day!

Plus, the guy was quite polite about passing that message. He didn’t even say he disliked her for adding weights, he just wanted her to know she had to watch it doesn’t get worse than that. I think that’s fair enough - considering whites are more promiscuous than our African brothers.

I love people that are plain and truthful,hurt me with truth i will appreciate.

I see nothing wrong with her sha

marieolae:
I sincerely don’t see anything wrong with what the guy said, maybe it’s just me

Long time madam

CastedAyo:
According to what the lady, Shelbs wrote below;
"I am 120 pounds. I have been for about 5 months.
My partner said this to me. Am I overreacting for feeling hurt by this? I’m at a loss and just can’t even comprehend how someone who claims to love me can say this."

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/04/lady-shares-the-chat-she-had-with-her-boyfriend-about-her-body.html






Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

ma dear. I don't kW how both of u roll in Ur relationship. but I don't feel its cool to have told u DAT stuff on d fone.may b u guys wod have had a more intimate n one on one discussion. der is need for more diplomacy diplomacy on d part of d guy. d guy is in necessarily blunt.
das ma take on dis matter.thanks.

wristbangle:


Long time madam

What’s popping?

This one na break up na

That guy is cool and honest and girls don't love that. She has preprogrammed her mind with an expected answer. Anything contrary triggers a negative response.

farano:
My girl friend is currently in training to get a bigger ass just because of her boyfriend.. It's well

Big ass is attractive to most men, but protruded belly, big boobs are all anyama stuff

Nutase:
My dear you have what they call sex doll syndrome. A man defines what you should be and you follow him blindly because you do not have any self worth. A man says get a boob job, liposuction, abortion etc and you jump at it to please him even though you really do not want it and you know the damage it will cause to your body.Remember he is still a boyfriend and not a Husband. If he cheats its his loss if you really know your worth.

About the breaking a relationship that's your opinion. But you have to first love yourself before you can love any mortal genuinely and these kind of guys come only to kill your self worth and make you hate yourself then start controlling your life.

Lastly, change is the only constant thing in life if he cannot handle the changes he notices in you he should take a walk. Even the fairest of flowers will wither and fade away. True love is accommodating. A man that loves you for your looks will leave you when the looks fade and trust me it will fade. Its better you don't marry him because he will definitely leave you in the future.

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Thank you. I learnt something

marieolae:
What’s popping?

Nothing much. U disappeared just like that. How is the states?