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How Do I Carry On From Here When My Husband Needs Me. by liquidlove2018: 7:28am On Apr 03, 2018
Good Afternoon Jzhane,

Please keep my identity private. I am writing you with a heavy heart and I hope I can get some good advice from you and your platform readers. Please I beg you readers,this is a real story. It sounds unreal but its real. Its happening to me and I am at my wits end.My friend recently introduced me to LS and I must say you have done a very good job.

My name is Abigail. I am 36 years old. Three years ago,I married my husband Bankole. Bankole was a divorcee with two children,two boys. Before I met Bankole,I lived a very fast life. I was trying to keep body and soul together. I had made some unwise decisions. I slept with married men cos I wanted a certain level of living. I am not proud of this but I didnt know better. I was just happy enjoying money and trips to different parts of the world all paid by my various sugar daddies.

When I was 32 years old,I met Bankole on a flight from Dubai. I wanted to hook up with him. He looked rich and not too young. We got talking and all. He took my number and said he would call me when we got to Nigeria. Two days later,he called me and said he wanted to see me. I went to see him,dressed to kill. When I met him in Sheraton that evening,he ordered for food and drinks. As we eat,he said he wanted to tell me something. It turns out that Bankole is an evangelist. He said when he saw me on the plane,God told him to marry me.

I was shocked. Me,Abigail,a runs girl? Well,he sounded very confident. He preached to me there and I got born again. He took his time to start mentoring me and in two months time,we were married in a very lavish wedding which held in Warri. I was happy. I didnt ever think I would ever be married. To a good man,a rich man and a man who loves God. All was fine until almost a year after our marriage.

Exactly 11 months later,Bankole fell ill. At first,we thought it was just a normal sickness and he would get better. Well,he didnt. He got worse and worse. In three months,my husband was so sick you could hardly recognize him. We flew him abroad where he spent six months there. All the tests they carried out on him all came back negative. Devastated,we returned home where we continued to fast and pray for him.

Almsot two years later,my husband has not gotten better. He is confined to a wheel chair like a vegetable. He cannot do anything. We have spent all his money on trying to get him well. I am so sad. They say its a spiritual attack. Many people have prayed. We have gone to several prayer houses,no change. Some say,his ex wife cursed him. I have prayed and cried all I can.

Now,my problem is........full story@



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Re: How Do I Carry On From Here When My Husband Needs Me. by Jochabed(f): 7:50am On Apr 03, 2018
Very Sad story,may God see you through. But the little i know about God is that he does not contradict himself.

God said "I Hate Divorce" Mr Bankole was a married man,and got divorced and said "God" told him to marry you? And he is an evangelist,he should know the scripture better. Tell him to go back to God in TOTAL REPENTANCE because he lied against the Most High. I wish him quick recovery.Amen
Re: How Do I Carry On From Here When My Husband Needs Me. by Nobody: 4:58am On Apr 04, 2018
Any advice slightly different from this will be a very BIIIIIIIG LIE.
Jochabed:
Very Sad story,may God see you through. But the little i know about God is that he does not contradict himself.

God said "I Hate Divorce" Mr Bankole was a married man,and got divorced and said "God" told him to marry you? And he is an evangelist,he should know the scripture better. Tell him to go back to God in TOTAL REPENTANCE because he lied against the Most High. I wish him quick recovery.Amen
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Re: How Do I Carry On From Here When My Husband Needs Me. by Nobody: 4:55pm On Apr 04, 2018
OP, keep cooking your half done stories, but just know that

Re: How Do I Carry On From Here When My Husband Needs Me. by Beke2020: 8:51am On Apr 14, 2018
You nailed it. Am very sure oga evangelist know this truth, but he is blinded by his selfish desires
Jochabed:
Very Sad story,may God see you through. But the little i know about God is that he does not contradict himself.

God said "I Hate Divorce" Mr Bankole was a married man,and got divorced and said "God" told him to marry you? And he is an evangelist,he should know the scripture better. Tell him to go back to God in TOTAL REPENTANCE because he lied against the Most High. I wish him quick recovery.Amen
Re: How Do I Carry On From Here When My Husband Needs Me. by Nobody: 10:00pm On Apr 14, 2018
That is the way to go sister tell him you guys are committing adultery and sinners will surely go down that way.
If you can't tell him then watch yourself you might be in his shoes soon. This is not a curse mind you.
Jochabed:
Very Sad story,may God see you through. But the little i know about God is that he does not contradict himself.

God said "I Hate Divorce" Mr Bankole was a married man,and got divorced and said "God" told him to marry you? And he is an evangelist,he should know the scripture better. Tell him to go back to God in TOTAL REPENTANCE because he lied against the Most High. I wish him quick recovery.Amen

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