Without a doubt, no one likes the idea of going through a heartbreak. It can be a
harrowing experience. Therefore, I am going to share a key that will drastically reduce your chances of having your heart
broken.
The tip is to simply determine what you both want from the relationship from the
onset. When there are no unrealistic expectations, you two know what you are getting yourself into and so eliminate the
chances of being shocked later on.
I understand and agree that you can never be so sure. You two may have great plans at
the beginning but things may go haywire later on. However, most times things actually
go haywire because you two don’t even know that you initially wanted different
things out of the relationship.
How? you ask. Well, supposing you want a
fling and nothing more, be upfront about
that. If he is on board then go for it. If you
want a committed, serious relationship, ask
him to know where his head is at. If he can’t
give a straight forward answer or says
something like, “Let us see how it goes”,
then honey, move on.
Like I said earlier, you may not know the
end of a matter from the beginning but you
can definitely decide what your intentions
are! When you two agree on your
intentions, you won’t be shocked later on.
You won’t suddenly realise that you wanted
more and he wanted a fling all because you
both assumed wrongly.
While there might be a lot of reasons for
heartbreaks, remember that a breakup is
not necessarily tantamount to heartbreak.
You two may go your separate ways
(breakup) because it didn’t work out and
not that someone got hurt (heartbreak). To
achieve the former instead of the latter, be
certain what either of you want from the
relationship from the very onset.

Avoid heartbreak?
It’s not that easy when it comes to human emotions