MissRaine69:
Before religion was a traditional marriage not sacred? Are you any less married if you have a traditional marriage instead of a white wedding? Does his familt not refer to you as daughter in law? This is the issue with Nigeria trying to serve far too many masters and getting conflicted

uruego:
Please, wait until you exchange vows in the church and blessed by a man of God. You may decided to do same on the traditional wedding day(i.e exchanging vows and receiving marital blessing) This opinion may not be popular but the standard of God cannot change.

dfrost:


I think it has to do with the individuals, not the government. The law recognises all types of marriage. It is Nigerians that like complicating their lifestyle all in a bid to intimidate or prove nothing.

dfrost:


I think it has to do with the individuals, not the government. The law recognises all types of marriage. It is Nigerians that like complicating their lifestyle all in a bid to intimidate or prove nothing.

bittertruth1234:
If you are still going to have church wedding after traditional wedding you can't have sex.But it only traditional wedding your plan then sex can follow

ShitHead:
Dumbest question ever!

You said: "traditional marriage." So, there is a marriage.


You can Fvck in the morning, afternoon and night, in the kitchen, toilet, balcony, bathroom, spread legs wide open and throw them up in the ceiling for deeper penetration...just fvck, fvck,fvcccccck! Doggy, monkey, wheelbarrow, missionary, scissors, cowgirl....ooooooo! Just fvck, fvck,fvck...bam-bam, pam-pam, jigijigi...anyhow. Marriage is marriage. White wedding nah traditional marriage for the white people, our own too nah traditional marriage. PLEASE FVCK, FVCK!

chauvinist:
Yes

Once you don pay dowry, brideprice, elders don drink palmwine, break kolanut, the papa don pray for you, give consent


My brother.... Go on a fuxking spree with ur wife

Church wedding is unnecessary White man's traditional marriage, it does not validates anything ignorance in Africa...Na black mentality dey worry us

EverGlorious:

First of all, the true author of Christianity is Jesus Christ himself and not the 'white people'.

To answer your questions if you haven't gotten it by now, NO, Christians are not allowed to have sex after Traditional marriage because the marriage ain't valid yet until the Christian marriage.

Chikita66:
Yes, even God is in support of traditional wedding cos he attended one in bible and turn water into wine.

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ACCURATE.

NairaMaster1:


Over accurate. Non of my sons will waste their money on a borrowed culture again. NEVER.

Pricelessangel0:
This question was asked in our church and the answer was in as much as u know u re bringing her to church, there should be no intimacy, thats why it is adviced both should be done within close range to avoid temptation

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THE WEDDING THAT JESUS ATTENDED IN THE BIBLE WAS A TRADITIONAL WEDDING. HE EVEN OFFERED THEM JARS OF WINE TO SHOW THEM SUPPORT. THEY ALL GOT DRUNK AND HAD UNLIMITED SEX AFTER THE RECEPTION.


WHAT WE HAVE THESE DAYS ARE INVENTED DOCTRINES. AS LONG AS BOTH FAMILIES HAVE JOINED THEIR CHILDREN IN MATRIMONY, IT HAS BEEN JOINED EVERYWHERE... INCLUDING HEAVEN, OR WHEREVER THEIR GODS RESIDE.

UDUJ:


At the bold face, I take it that was a joke right?

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DON'T EVEN THINK I MEANT PLUS JESUS.

EverGlorious:
I know a lot people here are going to bash me for this but it's okay. I'm not the right or worthy person to say this but since no one here have no plans of saying this its good people know the Truth.

First of all, the true author of Christianity is Jesus Christ himself and not the 'white people'. This has been a sad misconception for a very long time till now. If I write a book and I want you and your whole family, friends and relations to read it and know it, and live by it and I give it to you first to read it and pass on, that doesn't make you the owner or creator of the book, you where just privileged to share it to other people. The white people don't own Christianity neither did they create it. And it's not 'black' mentality, for all those that'll always like to give themselves an excuse to do wrong. Well that's by the way. And FYI it's proper name is Christian marriage and not 'white wedding'.

In order for your marriage to be truly valid, three things must check, if any one is left out, your marriage is incomplete and may suffer in future (and by then the only people you can point at is your village people):
- the hospital
- the family
- the church

- the hospital has to check in the sense that the couple has to find out their compatibility status or else they'll be doing their children, their pockets and even their self serious bad. Compatibility status like your genotype, blood group, and any other related tests in the hospital/lab.

- the family has to check in the sense that both couples families have to agree and consent to giving their children away (though this is mostly the case of the woman). In some countries there's nothing like traditional marriage. They just fix a dinner where the families come together and know themselves and agree on what's up. But here in Nigeria culture, we do ours in an amazing manner where both families come together and the ladies family gives her hand out to the other family and they come to an agreement, in a grand style. This is our culture and this is good, very good.

But my friend your marriage is not yet complete, yes you've gotten your parents blessings, fine. But you see marriage is a special gift, a sacrament from God. And if he has given us such great gift, won't it be fitting that he bless it for us through his servants, our ministers in our Church?

- the church has to check in the sense that every marriage has to be blessed and bonded by God through His ministers so no one can put asunder. Yes I know, people seize this moment to point at the broken 'Christian' homes, cheating husbands/wives and co., but if you understand God you'll know that he allows some things just to test our faith. Constant prayer is needed in every marriage, in every home. Christian marriage is not to make your marriage known to the world, but rather to make your marriage known to God, to bring God into your marriage. It can be done between you, your spouse and the priest/pastor of your church. The misconception nowadays is that you must invite the whole world before you know you've done Christian marriage. And that's why many people shy away and give lousy excuses why it's not important and unnecessary. Now I tell you, a Christian marriage can be done between you and your spouse and a few family members. You don't have to do it big. Cut your coat according to your size. Besides the Christian marriage has nothing to do with the reception. It's just additional celebration.

Sorry this had to be this long. To answer your questions if you haven't gotten it by now, NO, Christians are not allowed to have sex after Traditional marriage because the marriage ain't valid yet until the Christian marriage.

EverGlorious:


Yes bro of course it's "MARRIAGE". The Lady is given to the man and his family and the two are joined together as husband and wife, by "THE FAMILIES", by the families, don't you get?

Are you an atheist? If yes then fine, I understand.

But we're Christians by culture. And we should live that way.

Earthbound:
Twitter is now church abi OP? Your matter na later.


Traditional wedding, then church wedding is the highest level of double standards.

MaziOmenuko:


Would have been nice if you quoted some scriptures to validate your claim. All you typed was based on your own personal view and nothing biblical.

Meanwhile, you may need to read up the history of what we now call 'White marriage'. It was never recorded in the bible, unless the bible is no longer the source of your faith.

EverGlorious:


Yea maybe you could also quote for me the part of the bible that says "all people of God must find everything of Truth in the Bible", while you're doing that, you can also look up the word "Bible" in the Bible. If you don't find it then we've all been deceived, ain't it?

EverGlorious:


You know, some people actually justify, I mean really justify sex before marriage. So is it this one they wouldn't? This isn't new. Know the Truth and accept it, or don't. It's up to you.