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Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by adahlee(f): 1:12pm On Apr 06, 2018
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I started masturbating when I was 14. I was naive and was scared to death about sex. But I was on my bed one evening and I put my pillow in between my legs. I humped and had an orgasm. I felt guilty afterwards because I was brought up in a Christian home and was taught not to touch myself. I saw myself doing it repeatedly. I couldn't use my fingers cos my v*** was tight. I just rubbed my clit, orgasmed and felt guilty. It went on an on until I started watching porn. It started with softcore porn and graduated to hard anal sex. I hardly masturbate now. I just watch porn and cum. I'm 23 now and I have a boyfriend. I told him I wasn't ready for sex yet. He's agreed to it because he vowed to remain celibate till marriage. I still watch porn and I feel bad afterwards. Soo.... Am I a virgin?

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I don't think I deserve to be called a virgin. I have a boyfriend. We do oral and I give him handjobs and blowjobs. But no Penetration. I don't let him touch my v***na cos I'm scared of breaking my hymen. I do oral to help him release when his hormones are raging. Am I a virgin?

So, my question is "IS VIRGINITY OVER HYPED"
I know it's part of our culture for a girl to be chaste till marriage. But can she survive without any form of sexual activity?

Because most "virgins" masturbate and practice MouthAction. So, can ladies stand the test of time?
Not involving guys because they have raging hormones and society doesn't expect much from them.
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by bjayx: 1:17pm On Apr 06, 2018
If no penetration, you're a Virgin. That's the best gift you can give Ur hubby.

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Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by Cadec007(m): 1:21pm On Apr 06, 2018
you are still a vîrgin......and no, never ever think vírginity is overhyped...it is the best gift u can give the guy u love,if u doubt ask gals who lost it through force

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Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by adahlee(f): 1:24pm On Apr 06, 2018
So......
They should masturbate or do MouthAction?
If u ask me, sex is sex, regardless......
But what do I know sha
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by McBrooklyn(m): 1:28pm On Apr 06, 2018
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by ubunja(m): 1:29pm On Apr 06, 2018
personally i value virginity. guys who dont value it do so coz mostly they fear they wont get sex till marriage.but a girl you found a virgin is cool to have.its nice.

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Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by boiz2men(m): 1:31pm On Apr 06, 2018
adahlee:
So......
They should masturbate or do MouthAction?
If u ask me, sex is sex, regardless......
But what do I know sha


actually there are no true virgins anywhere in the world. Its a hoax.

even catholic priests are not. they masturbate.

So u are not alone.

other than the fact that a virgin is thought to not promiscous in the marriage, there is nothing more to it.

its just a piece of tissue. Virginity is overhyped. even sex too. We will all get tired of everything

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Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by ubunja(m): 1:50pm On Apr 06, 2018
boiz2men:



actually there are no true virgins anywhere in the world. Its a hoax.

even catholic priests are not. they masturbate.

So u are not alone.

other than the fact that a virgin is thought to not promiscous in the marriage, there is nothing more to it.

its just a piece of tissue. Virginity is overhyped. even sex too. We will all get tired of everything
based on the stupidity you just paraded your name must change to men2boiz
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by adahlee(f): 1:51pm On Apr 06, 2018
ubunja:

based on the stupidity you just paraded your name must change to men2boiz
Lmao
Hanty
Ya mean!!!
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by NeeKlaus: 5:05pm On Apr 06, 2018
ubunja:

based on the stupidity you just paraded your name must change to men2boiz
Because someone has a contrary opinion to yours doesn't make him vapid. In a way, there's always a sense in every nonsense, no matter how little it may be.

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Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by ubunja(m): 5:09pm On Apr 06, 2018
NeeKlaus:

Because someone has a contrary opinion to yours doesn't make him vapid. In a way, there's always a sense in every nonsense, no matter how little it may be.
to you maybe. not to the rest of us
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by Apina(m): 5:21pm On Apr 06, 2018
adahlee:
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I started masturbating when I was 14. I was naive and was scared to death about sex. But I was on my bed one evening and I put my pillow in between my legs. I humped and had an orgasm. I felt guilty afterwards because I was brought up in a Christian home and was taught not to touch myself. I saw myself doing it repeatedly. I couldn't use my fingers cos my v*** was tight. I just rubbed my clit, orgasmed and felt guilty. It went on an on until I started watching porn. It started with softcore porn and graduated to hard anal sex. I hardly masturbate now. I just watch porn and cum. I'm 23 now and I have a boyfriend. I told him I wasn't ready for sex yet. He's agreed to it because he vowed to remain celibate till marriage. I still watch porn and I feel bad afterwards. Soo.... Am I a virgin?

Second story

I don't think I deserve to be called a virgin. I have a boyfriend. We do oral and I give him handjobs and blowjobs. But no Penetration. I don't let him touch my v***na cos I'm scared of breaking my hymen. I do oral to help him release when his hormones are raging. Am I a virgin?

So, my question is "IS VIRGINITY OVER HYPED"
I know it's part of our culture for a girl to be chaste till marriage. But can she survive without any form of sexual activity?

Because most "virgins" masturbate and practice MouthAction. So, can ladies stand the test of time?
Not involving guys because they have raging hormones and society doesn't expect much from them.
False assumption(bolded), how many virgins do u know?. "Virginity is overhyped" is a poor mans version of money is the root of all evil. People will always try to downplay what they dont have, if you are a virgin; keep yourself for your husband cos u dont expects us to start trying to connect our borehole to a Well undecided

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Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by Apina(m): 5:32pm On Apr 06, 2018
boiz2men:



actually there are no true virgins anywhere in the world. Its a hoax.

even catholic priests are not. they masturbate.

So u are not alone.

other than the fact that a virgin is thought to not promiscous in the marriage, there is nothing more to it.

its just a piece of tissue. Virginity is overhyped. even sex too. We will all get tired of everything
How many catholic priests are there in the world? How many do u know personally? Wats virginity? If afyer reading these questions and u still havent realized how stupid u are, then u must be irredeemable undecided
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by Nobody: 5:34pm On Apr 06, 2018
adahlee:
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I started masturbating when I was 14. I was naive and was scared to death about sex. But I was on my bed one evening and I put my pillow in between my legs. I humped and had an orgasm. I felt guilty afterwards because I was brought up in a Christian home and was taught not to touch myself. I saw myself doing it repeatedly. I couldn't use my fingers cos my v*** was tight. I just rubbed my clit, orgasmed and felt guilty. It went on an on until I started watching porn. It started with softcore porn and graduated to hard anal sex. I hardly masturbate now. I just watch porn and cum. I'm 23 now and I have a boyfriend. I told him I wasn't ready for sex yet. He's agreed to it because he vowed to remain celibate till marriage. I still watch porn and I feel bad afterwards. Soo.... Am I a virgin?

Second story

I don't think I deserve to be called a virgin. I have a boyfriend. We do oral and I give him handjobs and blowjobs. But no Penetration. I don't let him touch my v***na cos I'm scared of breaking my hymen. I do oral to help him release when his hormones are raging. Am I a virgin?

So, my question is "IS VIRGINITY OVER HYPED"
I know it's part of our culture for a girl to be chaste till marriage. But can she survive without any form of sexual activity?

Because most "virgins" masturbate and practice MouthAction. So, can ladies stand the test of time?
Not involving guys because they have raging hormones and society doesn't expect much from them.

It's not over rated so keep your legs closed , at least until you reach 25. It's not about the virginity but the power you have by keeping your virginity. If you wait until 25 then you would have grown emotionally and understood yourself and your body before having a relationship. When you become sexually active, you will become weak and your heart will rule your head, which leads to stories that touch such as; he cheated but I love him and he's horrible to me but I love and so on and so forth.

Long story short, keep your virginity intact until you are old enough to understand love and relationships.
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by izzou(m): 5:37pm On Apr 06, 2018
Virginity is priceless

But it doesnt really guarantee anything. At least, nothing I know of

I just see virgins as people who refused to join the crowd. They were patient and they obeyed. That's all

There are still good and decent girls that aren't virgins. Some lost theirs through rape, ignorance and the rest.

As much as we should value virgins, we should also not demean those who lost theirs

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Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by boiz2men(m): 5:43pm On Apr 06, 2018
Apina:

How many catholic priests are there in the world? How many do u know personally? Wats virginity? If afyer reading these questions and u still havent realized how stupid u are, then u must be irredeemable undecided

you must be a Catholic. Did I break your heart by stating the obvious? You must really think your priests are infallible. I'm sorry, that are not. They are humans not gods. Even angels came down from heaven to have sex with earthly women. How much less man that has blood.

If any catholic priests is celibate, he prolly touches himself.

You must be smart to call one stupid.
and with all your wisdom and smartness, you missed such a fact..


Didn't the Pharisees think they were holier than Jesus?

You feel smarter now. I'm not surprised.
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by Apina(m): 5:49pm On Apr 06, 2018
boiz2men:


you must be a Catholic. Did I break your heart by stating the obvious? You must really think your priests are infallible. I'm sorry, that are not. They are humans not gods. Even angels came down from heaven to have sex with earthly women. How much less man that has blood.

If any catholic priests is celibate, he prolly touches himself.

You must be smart to call one stupid.
and with all your wisdom and smartness, you missed such a fact..


Didn't the Pharisees think they were holier than Jesus?

You feel smarter now. I'm not surprised.

Did u think or listen to yourself when typing this crap? Do u know d difference between assumptions and facts? You couldnt answer even 1 of the questions I asked and u call that load of bunkum facts. I dont have to be a catholic to be allegic to stupidity undecided
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by boiz2men(m): 5:58pm On Apr 06, 2018
Apina:

Did u think or listen to yourself when typing this crap? Do u know d difference between assumptions and facts? You couldnt answer even 1 of the questions I asked and u call that load of bunkum facts. I dont have to be a catholic to be allegic to stupidity undecided


Read up blue balls you ignorant mortal. You think everyone can withstand that?

You were actually waiting for an answer to your baseless question.
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by ubunja(m): 6:31pm On Apr 06, 2018
boiz2men:



Read up blue balls you ignorant mortal. You think everyone can withstand that?

You were actually waiting for an answer to your baseless question.
what a response grin
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by swiz123(m): 6:46pm On Apr 06, 2018
bjayx:
If no penetration, you're a Virgin. That's the best gift you can give Ur hubby.


I am very much disappointed at your level of ignorance.


A virgin is one who has never had any sexual experience,not just penetration.


That op is just the same as these nairaland girls who hate ubunja for no other reason than his prefrence for virgins

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Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by adahlee(f): 10:23pm On Apr 06, 2018
swiz123:



I am very much disappointed at your level of ignorance.


A virgin is one who has never had any sexual experience,not just penetration.


That op is just the same as these nairaland girls who hate ubunja for no other reason than his prefrence for virgins


Mister, don't quote the op.......
I copied it
Just wanted to keep myself busy
Sex ain't my problem.
Capiche?
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by bjayx: 6:29am On Apr 07, 2018
swiz123:



I am very much disappointed at your level of ignorance.


A virgin is one who has never had any sexual experience,not just penetration.


That op is just the same as these nairaland girls who hate ubunja for no other reason than his prefrence for virgins
Ur mumu get doctorate degree o. Ignorantly, U dont want to learn. If a girl tongue kiss a man, sucks a mans dick ...isn't that sexual experience Does that make her disflowered? Ur stupidity is amazing!
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by ubunja(m): 6:44am On Apr 07, 2018
bjayx:

Ur mumu get doctorate degree o. Ignorantly, U dont want to learn. If a girl tongue kiss a man, sucks a mans dick ...isn't that sexual experience Does that make her disflowered? Ur stupidity is amazing!
do all that to an under-age and its rape. losing virginity is not about the hymen but about sexual contact. many girls have anal sex daily to maintain the hymen, but you have to see you cant class them as virgins anymore.
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by bjayx: 6:46am On Apr 07, 2018
ubunja:
do all that to an under-age and its rape. losing virginity is not about the hymen but about sexual contact. many girls have anal sex daily to maintain the hymen, but you have to see you cant class them as virgins anymore.
Even wit the sexual contact, you v to be specific cos some will still classed as virgins. Is anal nor penetration
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by ubunja(m): 6:49am On Apr 07, 2018
bjayx:

Even wit the sexual contact, you v to be specific cos some will still classed as virgins
some like which? kissing?
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by bjayx: 6:50am On Apr 07, 2018
ubunja:

some like which? kissing?
O boi...free me abeg.
Read all thru again... Pls no offence
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by ubunja(m): 6:52am On Apr 07, 2018
bjayx:

O boi...free me abeg.
Read all thru again... Pls no offence
you shouldnt have started what you cant finish with me.
now, what acts do you mean?
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by adahlee(f): 9:32am On Apr 07, 2018
ubunja:
do all that to an under-age and its rape. losing virginity is not about the hymen but about sexual contact. many girls have anal sex daily to maintain the hymen, but you have to see you cant class them as virgins anymore.
Jeez!!!!
Anal is even worse than vaginal penetration.
They aren't virgins
They're OLOSHOS grin
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by Zhahovic(m): 9:35am On Apr 07, 2018
virginity is always seen as symbol of purity. ..but I still think it's overhyped..
..
marrying a Virgin does not automatically mean she will make a good wife...
..
and being pure and untouched down there does not mean your heart or state of mind is pure or clean either...

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Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by TheUpsetGirl(m): 10:25am On Apr 07, 2018
ubunja:
do all that to an under-age and its rape. losing virginity is not about the hymen but about sexual contact. many girls have anal sex daily to maintain the hymen, but you have to see you cant class them as virgins anymore.

there's no age of consent law in Nigeria
Re: Is Virginity Over Hyped?? by TheUpsetGirl(m): 10:28am On Apr 07, 2018
adahlee:

Jeez!!!!
Anal is even worse than vaginal penetration.
They aren't virgins
They're OLOSHOS grin

the lady who you copied it from is an idiot.

you should keep it because you want to not because of some Bible trash or a man.

your body belongs to you not some bastard that has probably had sex with other ladies .

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