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Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by yummy001: 8:05am On Apr 14, 2018
OgSammy:
You all goggle 'no fap' it's an American online community that really helps . It also comes with an app . It was developed by an ex Porn Lord. Still amazed we still don't have such platforms in our society today . It has rescued many people from self destruction . We can't deny never underestaimate how much porn and masturbation has destroyed lives . Addicts will never agree to this because they are so having the time of their lives they think .

You are so on point. NoFap on Reddit and the greatest chapter in Napoleon Hill's Classic "Think and Grow Rich" which is "The Mystery of Sex Transmutation" really transformed my life.

@OP, try and look up NoFap on reddit.com. It will do you a lot of good joining these group of guys striving hard to take back their lives. Cheers.

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Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by cooooooks(m): 8:17am On Apr 14, 2018
MhizAJ:
Same thing with pre-marital sex
It makes you lose focus and ambitions
So much emotional baggage attached to these things

Common komot dere. You dey post the same thing to every thread.
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by ikcworldlinks(m): 8:25am On Apr 14, 2018
deepsuk:
Yes same here

Am doiing it now in fact

Are you sure?
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Roilley: 8:42am On Apr 14, 2018
To stop masturbation and pornography is a great cause but it's not impossible. All you need is determination. There are two things you want to deal with, one leading to the other. There is a process it follows which is:

1. Get sexual urge which is normal for everybody
2. Watch porn to amplify the urge.
3. Finally, masturbate.

The first part is inevitable because everyone feels it at some point. However your real problem is the second step, if you can take that out, you are safe. This is because masturbation in itself doesn't make sense I tell you, but with pornography it is the most meaningful thing to do. It is sad that the government is not helping matters by allowing the promotion of things like pornography, cigarettes, alcohol etc. that result in moral and health issues.

The third element, masturbation, it's like karma once you watch porn, there is 98% probability that you will masturbate except if you have not tried the combination before.

To conclude, the battle is yours, don't let anybody deceive you. Try everything within your capacity to block your access to porn, by so doing you will have removed the link between sexual urge and masturbation.

All the best man!

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Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by James4424: 8:42am On Apr 14, 2018
Earthbound:
Are you a teenager?

Porn, masturbation, like everything else must be done in moderation. Take control of yourself.
Good point,
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by PraizEBUBE(m): 8:42am On Apr 14, 2018
only God can help u.... try hard avoid it
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by AK481(m): 8:48am On Apr 14, 2018
Lifeofpolice1:
Even today I also mastruba with porn video

Stop it now that u still have an erection.
Physiologically induced erectile dysfunction might be loading for you.
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Lifeofpolice1(m): 8:49am On Apr 14, 2018
AK481:


Stop it now that u still have an erection.
Physiologically induced erectile dysfunction might be loading for you.
it is hard to stop bro

But can it prevent me from having a Child
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by OgSammy(m): 9:01am On Apr 14, 2018
yummy001:


You are so on point. NoFap on Reddit and the greatest chapter in Napoleon Hill's Classic "Think and Grow Rich" which is "The Mystery of Sex Transmutation" really transformed my life.

@OP, try and look up NoFap on reddit.com. It will do you a lot of good joining these group of guys striving hard to take back their lives. Cheers.
. Ice on the cake .
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Evablizin(f): 9:27am On Apr 14, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


First of all,
Why is your monicker "RetiredMumu" because your writeup and grammar shows you are still very active.

With that said.
I doubt it was masturbation or pornography that ruined your life.
Because the most successful people in the world watch porn and jerk off too.
Lots of your pastors and Imams are addicts too.
I am an addict to both and I couldn't request for a life any better than the one I lead.

Masturbation is a facet of self-discovery and also the purest literal way of loving one's self. You can't love someone right till you learn to love yourself.
That is why you should masturbate.

Check yourself well and go for a church deliverance to fix your destroyed life because I'm suspecting it is spiritual.
Maybe you were masturbating with hair relaxers instead of lubes or watching porn shot with 3 megapixel low-end camera phones rather than HD videos for you to hate both this much.



Nawa oh,this one made me weak.
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Lifeofpolice1(m): 9:28am On Apr 14, 2018
Evablizin:
Nawa oh,this one made me weak.
my love
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by oyemomilara: 9:28am On Apr 14, 2018
[quote author=NwaAmaikpe post=66691471] shocked


First of all,
Why is your monicker "RetiredMumu" because your writeup and grammar shows you are still very active.

With that said.
I doubt it was masturbation or pornography that ruined your life.
Because the most successful people in the world watch porn and jerk off too.
Lots of your pastors and Imams are addicts too.
I am an addict to both and I couldn't request for a life any better than the one I lead.

Masturbation is a facet of self-discovery and also the purest literal way of loving one's self. You can't love someone right till you learn to love yourself.
That is why you should masturbate.

Check yourself well and go for a church deliverance to fix your destroyed life because I'm suspecting it is spiritual.
Maybe you were masturbating with hair relaxers instead of lubes or watching porn shot with 3 megapixel low-end camera phones rather than HD videos for you to hate both this much.



Every now and then, you decide to blow us away with a level of stupidity we thought you could not reach but then again, stupid is stupid. So, masturbation is a facet of self-discovery? So, because you conjure big words together and you look back and you're impressed with your 'wisdom'(folly) mean you're right? Please, fix your life.

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Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by mixter(m): 9:28am On Apr 14, 2018
[quote author=sirusX post=66688542]Habits die hard... if not replaced

This is the only remedy. It has become a lifestyle for most youths and especially shy people/ a lot of introverts. The only way to get rid of it is Discipline, and pick up a positive lifestyle to replace the negative habit. The moment your mind is occupied. There lies the keys.
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Tobycharles: 9:28am On Apr 14, 2018
MhizAJ:
Same thing with pre-marital sex
It makes you lose focus and ambitions
So much emotional baggage attached to these things

U seems to be talking from experience

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Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Kingsley10000: 9:29am On Apr 14, 2018
Lifeofpolice1:
it is hard to stop bro

But can it prevent me from having a Child
no but you've just wasted the next president,messi,ronaldo of the next generation
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by oyemomilara: 9:29am On Apr 14, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


First of all,
Why is your monicker "RetiredMumu" because your writeup and grammar shows you are still very active.

With that said.
I doubt it was masturbation or pornography that ruined your life.
Because the most successful people in the world watch porn and jerk off too.
Lots of your pastors and Imams are addicts too.
I am an addict to both and I couldn't request for a life any better than the one I lead.

Masturbation is a facet of self-discovery and also the purest literal way of loving one's self. You can't love someone right till you learn to love yourself.
That is why you should masturbate.

Check yourself well and go for a church deliverance to fix your destroyed life because I'm suspecting it is spiritual.
Maybe you were masturbating with hair relaxers instead of lubes or watching porn shot with 3 megapixel low-end camera phones rather than HD videos for you to hate both this much.







Every now and then, you decide to blow us away with a level of stupidity we thought you could not reach but then again, stupid is stupid. So, masturbation is a facet of self-discovery? So, because you conjure big words together and you look back and you're impressed with your 'wisdom'(folly) mean you're right? Please, fix your life.

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Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Lifeofpolice1(m): 9:30am On Apr 14, 2018
Kingsley10000:
no but you've just wasted the next president,messi,ronaldo of the next generation
I don't think so
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Evablizin(f): 9:31am On Apr 14, 2018
Lifeofpolice1:
my love
My heartbeat. Identify yourself.smiley
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Kingsley10000: 9:32am On Apr 14, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


First of all,
Why is your monicker "RetiredMumu" because your writeup and grammar shows you are still very active.

With that said.
I doubt it was masturbation or pornography that ruined your life.
Because the most successful people in the world watch porn and jerk off too.
Lots of your pastors and Imams are addicts too.
I am an addict to both and I couldn't request for a life any better than the one I lead.

Masturbation is a facet of self-discovery and also the purest literal way of loving one's self. You can't love someone right till you learn to love yourself.
That is why you should masturbate.

Check yourself well and go for a church deliverance to fix your destroyed life because I'm suspecting it is spiritual.
Maybe you were masturbating with hair relaxers instead of lubes or watching porn shot with 3 megapixel low-end camera phones rather than HD videos for you to hate both this much.



who are the 164people that liked this immoral post....why not advise the person to marry or get a girlfriend?

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Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Kingsley10000: 9:34am On Apr 14, 2018
Lifeofpolice1:
I don't think so

we have more Hot ladies now,more populous in number,why not get a girlfriend?......they are many of them waiting for you
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by MhizAJ(f): 9:34am On Apr 14, 2018
Tobycharles:


U seems to be talking from experience
Not really
I know ryte

I've listened to couple of stories from friends and it wasn't a sweet experience for them

Part of the reason you see a lot of single/married bitter ladies today...they are so empty...no direction whatsoever


A lot of ladies open their doors so wide anything/anyone can go and come in at anytime

Even guys are not left out too...so many destined have been derailed because of this
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by synanza1(m): 9:49am On Apr 14, 2018
DeLioncourt:


If god didn't want us to masturbate, he should have made our hands shorter. Lol

How will we then we we
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by sarcasticdude(m): 9:54am On Apr 14, 2018
If u wanna see the best of HYPOCRISY OR HOLIER-THAN-THOU attitudes on NL? just click any thread about PORN OR MASTURBATION.....from a silent observer

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Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Lifeofpolice1(m): 9:58am On Apr 14, 2018
Kingsley10000:
we have more Hot ladies now,more populous in number,why not get a girlfriend?......they are many of them waiting for you
my brother is not easy to get a girlfriend

Any girl I approached they all have a boyfriend, am so tired of that statement
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by kennylyn(m): 10:06am On Apr 14, 2018
oyemomilara:





Every now and then, you decide to blow us away with a level of stupidity we thought you could not reach but then again, stupid is stupid. So, masturbation is a facet of self-discovery? So, because you conjure big words together and you look back and you're impressed with your 'wisdom'(folly) mean you're right? Please, fix your life.

NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


First of all,
Why is your monicker "RetiredMumu" because your writeup and grammar shows you are still very active.

With that said.
I doubt it was masturbation or pornography that ruined your life.
Because the most successful people in the world watch porn and jerk off too.
Lots of your pastors and Imams are addicts too.
I am an addict to both and I couldn't request for a life any better than the one I lead.

Masturbation is a facet of self-discovery and also the purest literal way of loving one's self. You can't love someone right till you learn to love yourself.
That is why you should masturbate.

Check yourself well and go for a church deliverance to fix your destroyed life because I'm suspecting it is spiritual.
Maybe you were masturbating with hair relaxers instead of lubes or watching porn shot with 3 megapixel low-end camera phones rather than HD videos for you to hate both this much.



This mystery guy is something else... Guy ur a genius

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Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by IamEmem(m): 10:19am On Apr 14, 2018
RETIREDMUMU:
I will make this post more straightfoward.
I always a guy that dont have a sociable life and a shy one,i dont roll or talk to pple i dont know,even the one i know i barely talk to them.
I dont gat a bit gut to talk to girl or stay in their presence which eventually awarded me into wanking myself to releasing and also leads me to have a huge taste to search for pornography online.
I had being in this nasty lifestyle for over three years which OVER TIME RESULTED into these negative reaction:

- i got an errection in any slight body contact with the opposite sex
-i got tired and dislike any girl i see,like i dont want to be in relationship
-i got more sexual urge than normal
- i got more errection in any sight of an attrative girl
- i patronize sex brothels which i never do before in my life
- i lose my ambitions and my focus because now i feel like doing any how(spending extravagantly,dont go to church again,dont thiNK LIKE B4.....)

THESE BEHAVIOURS NOT IN ME BEFORE I START THESE HABIT

please i beg you in the name of God and Allah dont MASTURBATE OR LOOK UP FOR PORNOGRAPHY,they will over time DESTROY U!

Mods, let's help people.

i got an errection in any slight body contact with the opposite sex
i got more sexual urge than normal
- i got more errection in any sight of an attrative girl

Your brain and hormones working a trick on you.
i got tired and dislike any girl i see,like i dont want to be in relationship
Your personality, you have the traits of a gay.
i patronize sex brothels which i never do before in my life
- i lose my ambitions and my focus because now i feel like doing any how(spending extravagantly,dont go to church again,dont thiNK LIKE B4.....)

Your decisions. There are people who do same, still go to church and achieve their ambitions.
Dont blame masturbation and porn for your laziness.
Take charge of your life and be moderate in all you do.
Peace.

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Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Kingsley10000: 10:43am On Apr 14, 2018
sarcasticdude:
If u wanna see the best of HYPOCRISY OR HOLIER-THAN-THOU attitudes on NL? just click any thread about PORN OR MASTURBATION.....from a silent observer
grin cheesy
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Kingsley10000: 10:47am On Apr 14, 2018
Lifeofpolice1:
my brother is not easy to get a girlfriend

Any girl I approached they all have a boyfriend, am so tired of that statement
it's very easy bro...is it not guys like you that date them? go with ugly ones instead
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Lifeofpolice1(m): 10:50am On Apr 14, 2018
Kingsley10000:
it's very easy bro...is it not guys like you that date them? go with ugly ones instead
chaiii

No problem just remember nobody is ugly

Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by 4C2215131: 10:50am On Apr 14, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


First of all,
Why is your monicker "RetiredMumu" because your writeup and grammar shows you are still very active.

With that said.
I doubt it was masturbation or pornography that ruined your life.
Because the most successful people in the world watch porn and jerk off too.
Lots of your pastors and Imams are addicts too.
I am an addict to both and I couldn't request for a life any better than the one I lead.

Masturbation is a facet of self-discovery and also the purest literal way of loving one's self. You can't love someone right till you learn to love yourself.
That is why you should masturbate.

Check yourself well and go for a church deliverance to fix your destroyed life because I'm suspecting it is spiritual.
Maybe you were masturbating with hair relaxers instead of lubes or watching porn shot with 3 megapixel low-end camera phones rather than HD videos for you to hate both this much.





Hahahahahahah....hehehehehehe...
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Kingsley10000: 11:14am On Apr 14, 2018
Lifeofpolice1:
chaiii

No problem just remember nobody is ugly
I mean the fat short dark in complexion ones with low self esteem,start from them
Re: How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life by Jewelnutch: 11:15am On Apr 14, 2018
I just finished wanking wtf are you saying lmao? I just got out of the bathtub.

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