hello nairalander please I want to.know if is normal, am a young guy that is financially OK, both personal and family, I.can't seem to fall in love, I get tired of ladies no matter how beautiful she is am yet to see a lady that will steal my heart, what should I do, pls...growing financially but feeling.empty

Define what you want in your lady and search for it only then you won't get tired of her.
Outside beauty

Divay22:
Define what you want in your lady and search for it only then you won't get tired of her.
Outside beauty

What can one get from a lady apart from "Bleep"

donstan18:


What can one get from a lady apart from "Bleep"

Alot!
When you meet the right one.

Divay22:
Define what you want in your lady and search for it only then you won't get tired of her.
Outside beauty

Do ladies themselves know what they want?

They don't even understand love in its deepness outside money let alone knowing what they want

Divay22:
Alot! When you meet the right one.

Name two

shedybaba44:
hello nairalander please I want to.know if is normal, am a young guy that is financially OK, both personal and family, I.can't seem to fall in love, I get tired of ladies no matter how beautiful she is am yet to see a lady that will steal my heart, what should I do, pls...growing financially but feeling.empty

I'll advice u pray. I'm not a religious fanatic but I found that all d effort to find true love outside the creator of love is most times fruitless.

I always say God created love and demonstrated the way it shd be followed but ppl think they can achieve fulfilment outside God's precept. Love is like Christ and d church(bride). He paid the churches' dowry with his life and asks for nothing than for the church to submit living for him alone.

Jesus wants someone who will stand for him when he hasn't answered d persons prayer and d person is going thru a hard time even though he has answers to what d person wants. He want someone who can give him out of what he has as tithe and offering even when things seem tough. As in someone who although trusts dat He can do all things, is not after those things but after him himself and who believes God loves him even when it doesn't seem like it.

In this context, man is like Jesus, woman is like d church. But many don't understand. That's why u find a bride demanding for money always and never give a token from what she has to her husband who she claims to submit to.

Until this reality is understood, marriage will keep looking like a burden.

donstan18:


Name two

Being considerate and understanding
We still have ladies who are considerate to their man's feelings and understand him.

Believe in him and his capabilities.
They Encourage him and if possible join hands with him to make his dreams come true or achieve his goals.

Quality time.
Ladies still have quality time with their man and all expenses paid by her.

Even assisting him financially (of which almost a lot of ladies have done)

Relationship is about give and give and not one side giving and the other receiving....
Alot of ladies still do these things i just mentioned and even much more.
So outside sex, ladies have alot to offer...

RadicallyBlunt:

Do ladies themselves know what they want?

They don't even understand love in its deepness outside money let alone knowing what they want

If you feel ladies don't know what they want, then that's your opinion and for knowing anything outside money, they do..

Divay22:

Being considerate and understanding
We still have ladies who are considerate to their man's feelings and understand him.

Believe in him and his capabilities.
They Encourage him and if possible join hands with him to make his dreams come true or achieve his goals.

Quality time.
Ladies still have quality time with their man and all expenses paid by her.

Even assisting him financially (of which almost a lot of ladies have done)

Relationship is about give and give and not one side giving and the other receiving....
Alot of ladies still do these things i just mentioned and even much more.
So outside sex, ladies have alot to offer...

Well said

donstan18:

Well said

I feel like using your head to smash the well
Hey, I hope you'll stop downgrading ladies





Morning good

shedybaba44:
hello nairalander please I want to.know if is normal, am a young guy that is financially OK, both personal and family, I.can't seem to fall in love, I get tired of ladies no matter how beautiful she is am yet to see a lady that will steal my heart, what should I do, pls...growing financially but feeling.empty

Men or women my dear?

Divay22:
I feel like using your head to smash the well Hey, I hope you'll stop downgrading ladies




Morning good

Lol I don't downgrade ladies, why will I even do that

Morning, how you, today?

Boxer007:


Men or women my dear?

woman

RadicallyBlunt:

I'll advice u pray. I'm not a religious fanatic but I found that all d effort to find true love outside the creator of love is most times fruitless.

have dated alot of Ladies, to get to know them but, nothing it makes me look like a flet but am not and u saying pray, I Don't know how to say such prayer honestly.

Divay22:

Being considerate and understanding
We still have ladies who are considerate to their man's feelings and understand him.

Believe in him and his capabilities.
They Encourage him and if possible join hands with him to make his dreams come true or achieve his goals.

Quality time.
Ladies still have quality time with their man and all expenses paid by her.

Even assisting him financially (of which almost a lot of ladies have done)

Relationship is about give and give and not one side giving and the other receiving....
Alot of ladies still do these things i just mentioned and even much more.
So outside sex, ladies have alot to offer...

Hello oo

*in a static voice* "Nigeria calling to Divayy come back down to earth"

Dont you think we have a better chance to see snow in Nigeria than to find ladies like this here in Nigeria?

pryme:


Hello oo

*in a static voice* "Nigeria calling to Divayy come back down to earth"

Dont you think we have a better chance to see snow in Nigeria than to find ladies like this here in Nigeria?

We still have them.. Abi your sister no follow

donstan18:


Lol I don't downgrade ladies, why will I even do that


Morning, how you, today?

So iyam na blind abi.
I even noticed you find joy in doing that, pls turn it down.

I'm bouncing in the Lord and you?

Divay22:

We still have them.. Abi your sister no follow

No. But am trying to change that, but you know young girls they believe they know what they are doing so they don't need any advice. They will listen to you, but taking your advice is a different movie entirely.

Divay22:

So iyam na blind abi.
I even noticed you find joy in doing that, pls turn it down.

I'm bouncing in the Lord and you?

I don't think you are blind, but it takes a courageous heart to take the bitter truth

Can I ask a question?

Bouncing in the lord? Wow! That's cool, I'm happy you'v changed your siggi

I'm good and strong.

pryme:


No. But am trying to change that, but you know young girls they believe they know what they are doing so they don't need any advice. They will listen to you, but taking your advice is a different movie entirely.

I don't know how i turned out this way, but being raised by a single mum has taught me alot of things even without saying the words..
If my mum was not self-reliant even when she was with my dad, she wouldn't have been able to stand on her own today and fortunately or unfortunately i am becoming like her..
Everyone knows what's best for them.

donstan18:


I don't think you are blind, but it takes a courageous heart to take the bitter truth

Can I ask a question?

Bouncing in the lord? Wow! That's cool, I'm happy you'v changed your siggi

I'm good and strong.

Ehn. But stop generalizing

Sure

For you to love you have to believe that nobody is perfect try to understand whoever you are trying to date

Divay22:

I don't know how i turned out this way, but being raised by a single mum has taught me alot of things even without saying the words..
If my mum was not self-reliant even when she was with my dad, she wouldn't have been able to stand on her own today and fortunately or unfortunately i am becoming like her..
Everyone knows what's best for them.

You choose your path, and it's a good one, I will be hard living a life of integrity in this country where integrity is hard to come by

shedybaba44:
woman

Women are useless. Brother, men are best

You are desperately in need of a soul mate?.... Disturb God about it and fate will drive you to that special someone....

Thank me later.

donstan18:

What can one get from a lady apart from "Bleep"

DISSAPOINTMENT AND REGRETS.

CAPSLOCKED:

DISSAPOINTMENT AND REGRETS.

Rude

I don't seriously knw why some think that LOVE TRULY EXISTS, it may hv existed during the olden days but not now that cheating and divorce hv filtered the all place..
Those who tink that LOVE exist,Una wehdone ooh.
As for me LOVE ISSA SCAM..
I won't forget wen I overheard sec skul girls talking to each other and saying that they can't LOVe sum1 who can't buy iPhone or Lavish Money on Them..

LOVE NA SCAM,
THERE IS NOTHING LIKE LOVE NOWADAYS
MAKE MONEY AND SEE GIRLS COMING TO UR HOUSE AS IF YOUR HOME IS A PILGRIMAGE CENTER

Boxer007:


Women are useless. Brother, men are best

And you're proud of your life abi

Divay22:

Being considerate and understanding
We still have ladies who are considerate to their man's feelings and understand him.

Believe in him and his capabilities.
They Encourage him and if possible join hands with him to make his dreams come true or achieve his goals.

Quality time.
Ladies still have quality time with their man and all expenses paid by her.

[s]Even assisting him financially (of which almost a lot of ladies have done)[/s]

Relationship is about give and give and not one side giving and the other receiving....
[s]Alot of ladies still do these things i just mentioned and even much more.
So outside sex, ladies have alot to offer..[/s].

in which country? Nigeria?