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I was single and searching, so my desperation to have a girlfriend was beyond a normal man, I was like an hungry lion

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One fateful day, i decided to go online in search of love. I login to my Instagram account, and started exploring various profiles from comments and likes i saw on KraksTV .

One particular account, with the name Maryjane sounded so cool, calculated and intelligent, so i quickly jumped into her DM, and she responded well.

Fast forward to two months after. we started seeing each other, and barely one week after our encounter, she dominated my house and properties. She started demanding for things way beyond a normal friend.

I was yet to ask her out, or show any pre-posed advances at her. I just wanted us to be friends for a month, before asking her to be my official girlfriend, but it seems she's taking charge already. She's all over me, directly and indirectly.

I called her to order, and found myself consolidating a crying baby. I took the blame for making her feel sad, and she thanked me with spiritual bonding, which i never intended to do.

Maryjane continuously started demanding for things she dreamt of having, while on the other side i kept encouraging her to pick up a struggle.

I was forced and pressured to ask her out on a date, against my will and happiness.

Please FAM, what do you think might be her plans, because I'm down to earth confused.

my advice for you: don't even try to ask her out if you don't her to suck you dry. beside, both of you have conflicting personality.

RuthDaniels:
Anything done out of desperation leads to trouble.



Welcome Sir to Fatherhood without being a father

Lol crying baby daddy

RuthDaniels:
Anything done out of desperation leads to trouble.



Welcome Sir to Fatherhood without being a father

She's not pregnant for me!. So how can i be a father?.

Flee from liability

If you love her so much, then open a shop for her to be selling recharge card and fufu, she should slay in hustling, not on instagram.

Keep her busy to know how money is being made.

You are not her father that she should rely on.

OfficialDad:


She's not pregnant for me!. So how can i be a father?.

Lol....You are already playing the roles of a father without being her father. You dig?

fuckerstard:

Lol crying baby daddy

donstan18:
Flee from liability

If you love her so much, then open a shop for her to be selling recharge card and fufu, she should slay in hustling, not on instagram.

Keep her busy to know how money is being made.

You are not her father that she should rely on.

Bro, she never gave me time to even love her properly. Everything seems to be unfolding too fast.

lolz at the fufu and recharge card selling, that's a very perfect suggestion.

But, I've tried my best as a friend to keep her working and busy, but she's so persistent on staying at home.

RuthDaniels:
Lol....You are already playing the roles of a father without being her father. You dig?

No, I was unable to dig. Please can you point out those things I'm doing that portray the role of a father to her.. Please?.

A girl with double name na double wahala be that.mary and Jane together.2 in 1

Lalasticlala This issue is so Paramount, I need candid advises.

Hmmm. This is serious. You got to meet her online, invited her to your place, and she felt comfortable already, and possibly plan to own your life. Congratulations you're married.

Please breakup with her fast. That relationship is poisonous..

Shey u be dindinrin ni,u are not her father for her to keep demanding from u even before u ask her out,some girls character shaa..


If u truly love her,sit her down and explain that u are facing a financial challenge that u may not be able to cater for her oncoming needs until u are free and she should try to understand u when it's come that if u have some thing in care ur hand and it's not to difficults that u will do it....


After that, don't spend for her like weeks or a month and see how she can endure and if she endure that sit her down again to know which work she can do so that u can assist a little and tell her is becuz of ur last challenge that u won't like not to meet her needs again that u will want her to stand alone instead of demanding from u always

RuthDaniels:
Anything done out of desperation leads to trouble.



Welcome Sir to Fatherhood without being a father

wicked

Association of awon Oga save a broke chewing gum girl....

Grave mistake ....

OfficialDad:
Lalasticlala This issue is so Paramount, I need candid advises.

lala don't like such lazy girls
if it was snake issue u have a chance

Kissup:
A girl with double name na double wahala be that.mary and Jane together.2 in 1

where is your sense?

donstan18:
Flee from liability

If you love her so much, then open a shop for her to be selling recharge card and fufu, she should slay in hustling, not on instagram

Keep her busy to know how money is being made.

You are not her father that she should rely on.

@ emboldened

I can't stop laughing at that part

I think you will have a successful career in comedy tbh.

MissCokie:
Hmmm. This is serious. You got to meet her online, invited her to your place, and she felt comfortable already, and possibly plan to own your life. Congratulations you're married.

Please breakup with her fast. That relationship is poisonous..

Breaking up might attract unwanted fight. She might be dangerous

Funkybabee:
Shey u be dindinrin ni,u are not her father for her to keep demanding from u even before u ask her out,some girls character shaa..


If u truly love her,sit her down and explain that u are facing a financial challenge that u may not be able to cater for her oncoming needs until u are free and she should try to understand u when it's come that if u have some thing in care ur hand and it's not to difficults that u will do it....


After that, don't spend for her like weeks or a month and see how she can endure and if she endure that sit her down again to know which work she can do so that u can assist a little and tell her is becuz of ur last challenge that u won't like not to meet her needs again that u will want her to stand alone instead of demanding from u always

Thank you for the advice. But seriously, I remember sometime ago , I asked her to make a list of businesses she could possibly handle, and she couldn't write anything down, for over a week.

Like one lady stated above " any decision made out of desperation is always devoid of rational reasoning"

Like coke without the Cola,

Congratulations bro, you have become a dad without a daughter. You either become an addict or go for rehab

So let the spending continue, or you end the relationship.

greiboy:
@ emboldened

I can't stop laughing at that part

I think you will have a successful career in comedy tbh.

My Nigga

These ladies should stop being lazy, it's better to sell and carry ugu leaves in reality, than carrying it on their head on instagram pictures just to get likes.

Time no dey

OfficialDad:


Thank you for the advice. But seriously, I remember sometime ago , I asked her to make a list of businesses she could possibly handle, and she couldn't write anything down, for over a week.

That one is serious


Give her some space to think

you don buy market

Lalas247:
Association of awon Oga save a broke chewing gum girl....

Grave mistake ....

She never looked broke to me, even presently. She claimed that, she could afford majority of the things she's asking from me...I'm confused, and solely enduring my plight.

Lalas247:

lala don't like such lazy girls
if it was snake issue u have a chance

Lalasticlala have got to like them, because i need random advises.

One chance slay queen

greiboy:
Like one lady stated above " any decision made out of desperation is always devoid of rational reasoning"

Like coke without the Cola,

Congregations bro, you have become a dad without a daughter. You either become an addict or go for rehab

So let the spending continue, or you end the relationship.

What's the possible method i can use to scare her away. I mean , an harmless prank.

donstan18:


My Nigga

These ladies should stop being lazy, it's better to sell and carry ugu leaves in reality, than carrying it on their head on instagram pictures just to get likes.

Time no dey

hahaha

@ ugu leaves D

It is true sha

It is better they hustle in reality than to hustle for maga on Instagram

Funkybabee:




That one is serious


Give her some space to think

A week+ is enough time to think. Don't you think so..

See, the issue here is this, I want to hands off, you're a girl, what tactics would actually work?.

OfficialDad:


What's the possible method i can use to scare her away. I mean , an harmless prank.

Easiest trick in the book bro

If she is truly after your money, just fake sudden financial inadequacy due to an unfortunate event and watch her run away faster than her shadow.