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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by kenzysmith(m): 3:08pm On May 01, 2018
am think am a slave to sex if am not having sex. am masturbating, if am not masturbating am looking at neaked photos any girl that just even greet me sex come to mind
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by ndcide(m): 3:10pm On May 01, 2018
HerexG:
As for me I'm of the opinion that "Sex before marriage" best suits our present age. I will use this short true life story to buttress my point. Please read this carefully and it should be a lesson to learn from, it's a true life story that happened to someone in my neighborhood just few months ago. The guy involved is a devoted church worker so he held strictly the church's "Sex after marriage"

It all started with "he's my brother in the Lord and she's my brother in the Lord". I got attracted to this my sister in the Lord Sis Funmibi, a devoted church worker as myself from the church but from another branch. So I thought to myself marrying a born again Sister from the church should be the best any man can ask for. After studying her character and her devotion to the church, I made my intention known to her. Sister Funmibi accepted my marriage proposal and fews days later we made our intentions known to our family and consequently the church. I was so excited that I have hit a jackpot for finding a lady like Sister Funmibi, as a church boy that I'm I must get married to her first before she can come into my house. So I kept fantasizing about our wedding night and her becoming my wife, so we further speed the marriage preparation up. I have always wanted to meet with my Fiancee's family church pastor for counseling but she will always stop me telling me that after all we are not getting there. To cut the story short, she chose a random church instead for our wedding. At this stage I have been blinded by her charms all I could think of is to bring her into my house.

Our wedding night wasn't as romantic as I thought it would be, we started making out kissing and carresing. I noticed each time I tried to press her left breast she she cry's out in pains saying " Please don't touch the left breast, you can touch the right one". I was like " waris happening here", she wouldn't even allow me to open the breast to see not to talk of sucking. We would have just sex without intimate pre-intimacy, I was thinking maybe it's because of her church background or that she's not yet used to me that's why she's behaving that way to me. She even finds it difficult to UnCloth or get dressed in my presence, I was like with time she should be able to change. Couple of months later Sis Funmibi my wife started falling sick, she will get better today but days later gets sick again. I will try to inquire from her Doctor what's exactly happening to my wife, he will mention one random common sickness. Until one day the doctor finally opened up to me that my wife has breast cancer. I was really devastated, I really felt cheated and deceived. She knew all these while that she has breast cancer and yet she kept it away from me. After battling to save her medically, spending the bulk of my resources to save her life, I finally lost her.

Now choose for yourself which is more ideal in our present world?

Your story does not add up and has nothing to do with sex before marriage.

To your topic,

My response to you is...

Acts 5:29 (KJV) ........ We ought to obey God rather than men.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by majamajic(m): 3:13pm On May 01, 2018
lalanice:
Huncle why should I encourage what I don't practice

in other words u are a Virgin
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by hilaryxoxo(f): 3:13pm On May 01, 2018
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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Anusiemgood(m): 3:13pm On May 01, 2018
lalanice:
Huncle why should I encourage what I don't practice
Believe me,you are a fool.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by markode777: 3:14pm On May 01, 2018
Preshy561:

haunty,are you innocent?

One deep sex foodie spotted. Don't repent you hear? keep looking for people to question to cover yourself.
When its your turn to face judgement, you will question God too.. mumu.. Keeping allowing the devil wear you like cloth
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by majamajic(m): 3:15pm On May 01, 2018
sin or no sin ....... I like sex before marriage, I can't buy what I know nothing about !!!
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 3:18pm On May 01, 2018
thatigboman:
chairman, why cant u marry someone just because she is from kogi?
Dont be surprised, u may marry a kogi girl.


Bros I no fit.

If stew like make e de on top her pussy, I no want.

I no even fit be Kogi man friend self

I just hate that state
Evil people everywhere
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by markode777: 3:18pm On May 01, 2018
HerexG:


My Dear no Devil, we humans are the Devil's. Why would you want to spend your life with someone you are not sure if he or she is sexually OK. My Dear don't allow religion put you in a deep mess you can never correct in life.

My Dear no Devil, we humans are the Devil's. Why would you want to spend your life with someone you are not sure if he or she is sexually OK. My Dear don't allow worldliness and your canal knowledge put you in a deep hell you can never correct in life.[/quote]

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by rickyrex(m): 3:19pm On May 01, 2018
The story does not tally with weather to have sex before marriage or sex after marriage. If you had narated that she gets pregnant before marriage to confirm her feterlity it would have been a different case. More so this issue of pregnancy has forced so many women into marrying a man they never desired. Some will say impregnate so she won't leave, some say if you don't impregnate her another will do. Common folks what God had ordained to be yours can never be dragged with you. I don't just want to narrate a story of what the desperacy of wanting to impregnate a woman who is not ready for marriage or wants sex after marriage has coated my friend. But mehn sex after marriage is the best. Let be guided with the bible and Quran

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by thunderbabs: 3:19pm On May 01, 2018
Answer:
All of the above.

Before and after is all gooder wink
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by hilaryxoxo(f): 3:20pm On May 01, 2018
Its people like you that make Nigeria backward. later you would be shouting "racism" "racism"
"you no fit be Kogi man friend"? Do people still think this retrogressively?
ABEG COMMOT FOR HERE *TUEH*

ladiesreject:



Bros I no fit.

If stew like make e de on top her pussy, I no want.

I no even fit be Kogi man friend self

I just hate that state
Evil people everywhere

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by mzangy: 3:21pm On May 01, 2018
Why do people emphasize on Sex only as if it is the only sin that can lead a soul to hell?
Hypocrites everywhere.
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 3:22pm On May 01, 2018
ndcide:


You are two ignorant jare.. Go and have a relationship with God first before all these nonsense.

With all your likes and what suits you, you can't see tomorrow. The bible says, commit your ways to God and he will direct your paths.

Do you know tomorrow? Do you know the battles ahead?

You are too ordinary. Go first have a relationship with God.

For all, those who use the word "religion" freely are


mostly not Christians or true practicing Christians.


Average Nigerian Christian.

I wanted to insult your generation initially, but I felt there's no need, as I won't be any different from you.

Stay away from my mention

I don tell you be that.
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Talkingboy: 3:24pm On May 01, 2018
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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by MrPresident1: 3:29pm On May 01, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
No correlation. Too bad people don't love truly these days

NwanyiAkwaetiti, how are you? grin

NwokeUmudunu greeting you here o cheesy
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by successtutor(m): 3:30pm On May 01, 2018
Let the bed be undefiled......
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 3:34pm On May 01, 2018
hilaryxoxo:
Its people like you that make Nigeria backward. later you would be shouting "racism" "racism"
"you no fit be Kogi man friend"? Do people still think this retrogressively?
ABEG COMMOT FOR HERE *TUEH*


Why e pain you?


You be from Kogi?
If yes, sorry for you but if no, thank God for you.

When you have Igala, Igbira and Kabba in one state, how can that state not be filled with evil?

ABEG COMMOT FOR HERE *TUEH*
TO YOU TOO
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by seghapp: 3:34pm On May 01, 2018
Weda is gud to u or not is not for you to say....d bible said it all n d bible is our daily guide...marriage is honourable bed undefiled...so my people obedience is better Dan sacrifice...d bible also said he that heareth d sayin ogre mine n doeth dem is he that love me

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by bezimo(m): 3:39pm On May 01, 2018
Sex before marriage:How the enemy wants it.

Sex after marriage:Gods will but anything you see after that you dont want....faith in God can address only if you were devinely guided into marrying him/her....but if you were on your own..hmmm.
I choose Gods will of abstinence..it aint so easy.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by David160(m): 3:41pm On May 01, 2018
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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by David160(m): 3:46pm On May 01, 2018
HerexG:
As for me I'm of the opinion that "Sex before marriage" best suits our present age. I will use this short true life story to buttress my point. Please read this carefully and it should be a lesson to learn from, it's a true life story that happened to someone in my neighborhood just few months ago. The guy involved is a devoted church worker so he held strictly the church's "Sex after marriage"

It all started with "he's my brother in the Lord and she's my brother in the Lord". I got attracted to this my sister in the Lord Sis Funmibi, a devoted church worker as myself from the church but from another branch. So I thought to myself marrying a born again Sister from the church should be the best any man can ask for. After studying her character and her devotion to the church, I made my intention known to her. Sister Funmibi accepted my marriage proposal and fews days later we made our intentions known to our family and consequently the church. I was so excited that I have hit a jackpot for finding a lady like Sister Funmibi, as a church boy that I'm I must get married to her first before she can come into my house. So I kept fantasizing about our wedding night and her becoming my wife, so we further speed the marriage preparation up. I have always wanted to meet with my Fiancee's family church pastor for counseling but she will always stop me telling me that after all we are not getting there. To cut the story short, she chose a random church instead for our wedding. At this stage I have been blinded by her charms all I could think of is to bring her into my house.

Our wedding night wasn't as romantic as I thought it would be, we started making out kissing and carresing. I noticed each time I tried to press her left breast she she cry's out in pains saying " Please don't touch the left breast, you can touch the right one". I was like " waris happening here", she wouldn't even allow me to open the breast to see not to talk of sucking. We would have just sex without intimate pre-intimacy, I was thinking maybe it's because of her church background or that she's not yet used to me that's why she's behaving that way to me. She even finds it difficult to UnCloth or get dressed in my presence, I was like with time she should be able to change. Couple of months later Sis Funmibi my wife started falling sick, she will get better today but days later gets sick again. I will try to inquire from her Doctor what's exactly happening to my wife, he will mention one random common sickness. Until one day the doctor finally opened up to me that my wife has breast cancer. I was really devastated, I really felt cheated and deceived. She knew all these while that she has breast cancer and yet she kept it away from me. After battling to save her medically, spending the bulk of my resources to save her life, I finally lost her.

Now choose for yourself which is more ideal in our present world?
keep deceiving yourself
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 3:48pm On May 01, 2018
Fvck your wife to be very well before you get married.

Dont be caught unaware that you married to a log of wood who same time lacks sex stamina.

You will be cheating for the rest of your life if you find your self in such shoes.


And when you have a side-chick that fvcks you well, Your home starts to crumble cos she no longer be important again.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by dapsoneh: 3:48pm On May 01, 2018
HerexG:
As for me I'm of the opinion that "Sex before marriage" best suits our present age. I will use this short true life story to buttress my point. Please read this carefully and it should be a lesson to learn from, it's a true life story that happened to someone in my neighborhood just few months ago. The guy involved is a devoted church worker so he held strictly the church's "Sex after marriage"

It all started with "he's my brother in the Lord and she's my brother in the Lord". I got attracted to this my sister in the Lord Sis Funmibi, a devoted church worker as myself from the church but from another branch. So I thought to myself marrying a born again Sister from the church should be the best any man can ask for. After studying her character and her devotion to the church, I made my intention known to her. Sister Funmibi accepted my marriage proposal and fews days later we made our intentions known to our family and consequently the church. I was so excited that I have hit a jackpot for finding a lady like Sister Funmibi, as a church boy that I'm I must get married to her first before she can come into my house. So I kept fantasizing about our wedding night and her becoming my wife, so we further speed the marriage preparation up. I have always wanted to meet with my Fiancee's family church pastor for counseling but she will always stop me telling me that after all we are not getting there. To cut the story short, she chose a random church instead for our wedding. At this stage I have been blinded by her charms all I could think of is to bring her into my house.
U don't need to have sex for a truthful lady to let you know her health status, more so cancer
Our wedding night wasn't as romantic as I thought it would be, we started making out kissing and carresing. I noticed each time I tried to press her left breast she she cry's out in pains saying " Please don't touch the left breast, you can touch the right one". I was like " waris happening here", she wouldn't even allow me to open the breast to see not to talk of sucking. We would have just sex without intimate pre-intimacy, I was thinking maybe it's because of her church background or that she's not yet used to me that's why she's behaving that way to me. She even finds it difficult to UnCloth or get dressed in my presence, I was like with time she should be able to change. Couple of months later Sis Funmibi my wife started falling sick, she will get better today but days later gets sick again. I will try to inquire from her Doctor what's exactly happening to my wife, he will mention one random common sickness. Until one day the doctor finally opened up to me that my wife has breast cancer. I was really devastated, I really felt cheated and deceived. She knew all these while that she has breast cancer and yet she kept it away from me. After battling to save her medically, spending the bulk of my resources to save her life, I finally lost her.

Now choose for yourself which is more ideal in our present world?
do u need to av sex for a truthful lady to let u know she has health challenge, more so cancer?
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by vaxx: 3:49pm On May 01, 2018
if your plan is to live a monogamy life instead of polyamory , sex before marriage maybe very logical option because you will not be increasing your chances of long-term success if you go into a marriage not knowing whether you’re sexually compatible. i even advocate for living together before marriage, in my opinion, you will discover so many things about your partner that you would not otherwise. People are different when they are out on a date versus when they are at home relaxing. They will have habits you would not see otherwise. It’s important to know these sorts of things before you get married, so you are not going insane a year into your marriage because your husband left that fucking toilet seat up and you fell in again for the 4th goddamn time!

Just my two naira.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Evangelistofluv: 3:56pm On May 01, 2018
Chaiiiiiiiii this your story can't be shoot by ukwa... Was there no room for medical examination before marriage? You allow her to dodge seeing the Pastor to escape medical report and u AGREED....
You did not have sex with her before marriage so tell us how she charmed you.......
There are still millions of believer's who still practicing no sex before marriage and are VERY SUCCESSFUL.
YOU DID NOT PRAY PERIOD

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Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by Rozaytee: 4:02pm On May 01, 2018
dasparrow:
As a believer in Christ Jesus, I don't support the idea of sex before marriage. The bible calls that fornication and God is against it. If you are against homosexuality, then you should also be strongly against fornication and adultery because those who practice these things can never make heaven.

Nigerians love quoting Bible to homosexuals referencing the bible but they won't remember the Bible when they are screwing their boyfriends and girlfriends whom they are not married to. Bloody hypocrites!
Christians are even worse
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by gonkin(m): 4:07pm On May 01, 2018
Sex before marriage is bad but for me i believe sex before marriage is best. Some guys after a lot of sex when they get tired of the girl, they start misbehaving. Imagine that kind of thing in marriage.
These days i feel its even best to get a girl pregnant 1 month or 2 months before marriage cuz these day some girls are wombless. They have done so much pills that sperm cant swim up their fornix anymore. Its safe for both genders. Although the only disadvantage is that some dudes just wanna put sticks in holes.
We cant be too safe.

Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by akeentech(m): 4:09pm On May 01, 2018
Rozaytee:
Christians are even worse
You are included
Re: Sex Before Marriage Or Sex After Marriage? by northvietnam(m): 4:10pm On May 01, 2018
lalanice:
Mtchwwwww..... So people should go committing fornication and adultery upandan because of lame excuse of stories like this abi? What about all the plenty and legit reasons why sex outside marriage is wrong undecided all the diseases, heart breaks and abortions angry


use a condom

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