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Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by anigold(m): 5:20pm On May 23, 2018 |
I think everything boils down to understanding and love.. because everyone has a red flag. But some red flags are not to be touched example lying,cheating and unforgiving spirit. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by lastmessenger: 5:21pm On May 23, 2018 |
soledayo:take hear bro. 1 Like |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by Nobody: 5:22pm On May 23, 2018 |
mean is mean.... just had a similar experience last week. I am not sure I will get back. 1 Like |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by ChiefSweetus: 5:22pm On May 23, 2018 |
I'm a 4-time divorcee 1 Like |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by Idrismusty97(m): 5:25pm On May 23, 2018 |
Her family. I thought a rose had grown from sh*t. I was wrong. It was a sh*t garden that grew nothing else.Boy! That escalated quickly . But marriage is hardwork, Just thinking that that woman is who you are gonna spend your entire life with scare the shît out of me. And i see people jumping cluelessly into it without any proactive measures despite all red signs forming love. But then there is divorce, But divorce doesn't works well when you already have kids. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by Babaolorioko(m): 5:25pm On May 23, 2018 |
koikoi2: I just hope and pray you don't look and remember some of this advice [color=#990000][/color] 2 Likes |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by Nobody: 5:26pm On May 23, 2018 |
Great. thread AND very realistic. Very potent set of words. Just sit. Or 'Just rest'. This advice you gave is wisdom (or revelation), so simple, yet powerful. I had same revelation from God. Quite literally. There was a time (quite recently) I was praying to God for a husband. And later, the next day, very early in the morning as I was waking up, though still sub-conscious, I distinctly heard "I will bring him while (and when) you are resting. When I fully woke up, I knew immediately, that was the audible voice of God (which I have come to hear more often. I asked God for some explanation. And, I got one. Resting, not literal for sleep. But, just means- sit still. Stop striving. Just be. And, what will be will be. Today my new motto in life is this: whatever has my name on it (love, people, wealth...), will find me. Emphasis on "find me". Amen. Rapsino: 9 Likes |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by afos002: 5:27pm On May 23, 2018 |
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Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by pocohantas(f): 5:27pm On May 23, 2018 |
majekdom2: Share with us... |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by Idrismusty97(m): 5:29pm On May 23, 2018 |
ChiefSweetus:Congrats. "A smart man makes a mistake, learns from it, and never makes that mistake again. But a wise man finds a smart man and learns from him how to avoid the mistake altogether." -Roy H. Williams 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by Paperwhite(m): 5:30pm On May 23, 2018 |
Timely advice! |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by Godson201333(m): 5:30pm On May 23, 2018 |
Number 15 is true,I have never see a relationship whereby Mum gives warnings and the relationship last.. 6 Likes |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by Nobody: 5:31pm On May 23, 2018 |
pocohantas:hahaha, I don't ''publicize'' relationship events. we can do private |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by tydi(m): 5:31pm On May 23, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: my sister ,how can you hope for the best when you see the red flag, let me put it this way you caught your fiance on fone making a call with an unknown person in a hidden place ,u came asked him whom he was with on the fone, he told you his sister , and u came to be a close pal to the sister , u later called his sister asking him after his brother when last ,she heard from him ,she said quite a while(2weeeks ago) , so you are to go ahead and marry the guy believing that he is to be a truthful person and hoping for the best of truths from him. else the person is desperate to get married. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by Oreofepeters: 5:31pm On May 23, 2018 |
okay |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by faithfull18(f): 5:33pm On May 23, 2018 |
Hmm, love is blind, marriage opens the eyes. 2 Likes |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by pocohantas(f): 5:34pm On May 23, 2018 |
majekdom2: But you've publicised some in the past. I am sure of one where you talked about a self-centred gf. I am waiting... |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by tydi(m): 5:37pm On May 23, 2018 |
anigold: |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by tydi(m): 5:37pm On May 23, 2018 |
anigold: what would you say about forgiving but not forgetting? |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by oruma19: 5:38pm On May 23, 2018 |
Truth is that, @ least one of these red flags show up in every relationship heading to the alter, some survived and are a perfect union while others collapsed. In the end, it is the lord that perfects everything that concerns us. Marriage is a very big risk, u either lose or gain, I gained, bless the lord oh my soul. ... 4 Likes |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by teamsynergy: 5:40pm On May 23, 2018 |
Silvermoney: and you think her sexual desire wont reduce too? or your body won't age too.... I hope u don't cheat on your wife when she starts having babies cos that seems repulsive to u 5 Likes |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by Nobody: 5:41pm On May 23, 2018 |
pocohantas:publicised - as in full events like the ones that make front page and asking for advice.... naaaaa. I follow instincts rather than ask for advice as no one will understand how you feel. |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by Nobody: 5:42pm On May 23, 2018 |
tydi:You asking means you don't even trust your fiancee. |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by jaxxy(m): 5:44pm On May 23, 2018 |
All great advices to me born out of experience No.6 tho lol |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by pocohantas(f): 5:44pm On May 23, 2018 |
majekdom2: But we are not asking for advice na. I just want to learn from your story, let me know if m bf falls in that category. |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by ImaIma1(f): 5:45pm On May 23, 2018 |
Silvermoney: If you marry someone you truly love, you will be blind to some things. What of those that had sex all through the pregnancy amidst the throwing up and big belly Besides, help her to lose the belly fat. Let her know your feelings towards it. Not all women even retain it. |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by anigold(m): 5:47pm On May 23, 2018 |
tydi:it's almost impossible to forget completely,if someone defrauded you of millions u can forgive the person to forget what happened is almost impossible.. the issue is don't keep malice.. 1 Like |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by Oritzy: 5:49pm On May 23, 2018 |
MarieSucre:I have followed you closely ans I have realized that despite being a feminist you are a very unbiased realistic woman with a big heart. You should be a coach people will learn alot from you. |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by mKc9ET(m): 5:50pm On May 23, 2018 |
Rapsino: Word 1 Like |
Re: 15 Divorced People Reveal The Subtle Red Flags They Ignored Before Marrying by tydi(m): 5:50pm On May 23, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: sister truth be told I don't even trust myself ,reason I follow my instincts, trust is not something you buy in a mall nor pick up ,its something we earn! our own so called instincts fail us most times. 2 Likes |
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