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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Lagbaja01(m): 9:15am On May 27, 2018
Well, somebody somewhere is doing the same to your future wife.....life is based on sowing and reaping
donshaddow:
My 1 naira advice! Look for a girl or 2 sef... Keep them and let them be servicing you till you're ready to marry. Works like a charm!
#experience

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by princetom1(m): 9:16am On May 27, 2018
courage2702:
I need practical help to overcome my struggle against the use of prostitutes. I picked up this terrible habit shortly after my graduation from university sometime in 2012 and it is a vice that has wrecked my life. The last success was 13 months without any sexual involvement with any one before i had a sad event in my life that made me go back to my vommit. Any body with practical advice should please come up with it.. yesterday I went down on my knees again to ask him to give me another chance to fix my life for good. But I really need to take practical actions as faith without work is dead
I have an amazing future but this lifestyle may cut it off if don't fight it headlong.

I am 30+ old man that really wish to settle down but not until I quit this habit that has disconnected me from God as well as made my life miserable.
I am from a Christian background.


How u defeated it the first time will still work... It's a simple match, solve it same way u solved it before that makes u get result

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by JerryQ: 9:18am On May 27, 2018
Talk to a friend you know can help you. This kind of friend Is rare and most times you only have one or two of such. Whom do you talk to when ever you are in deep problem? Someone you are not ashamed to open up to yet you are safe with. You need open up to this person immediately. Since you are of a Christian background, the person should be a solid Christian, ahead of you in age and status, most likely married. Open up to Him/Her and ask for help.

One more thing, move out of your family house. God grace(help)!

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by bionixs: 9:21am On May 27, 2018
EastGold:
You know what?

Cut off that preek pushing you to olosho
The Bible says anything that will not lead you to heaven, remove it
lame
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by b0rn2fuck(m): 9:22am On May 27, 2018
courage2702:
I need practical help to overcome my struggle against the use of prostitutes. I picked up this terrible habit shortly after my graduation from university sometime in 2012 and it is a vice that has wrecked my life. The last success was 13 months without any sexual involvement with any one before i had a sad event in my life that made me go back to my vommit. Any body with practical advice should please come up with it.. yesterday I went down on my knees again to ask him to give me another chance to fix my life for good. But I really need to take practical actions as faith without work is dead
I have an amazing future but this lifestyle may cut it off if don't fight it headlong.

I am 30+ old man that really wish to settle down but not until I quit this habit that has disconnected me from God as well as made my life miserable.
I am from a Christian background.

i was a great prostitutes customer but glad it's been over 3 years I pick one now, infact even the so place now seems disgusting to me

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Iwanttoto: 9:24am On May 27, 2018
b0rn2fuck:
i was a great prostitutes customer but glad it's been over 3 years I pick one now, infact even the so place now seems disgusting to me

Lol.. grin
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 9:26am On May 27, 2018
Please let's not forget to pray for the safe return of our sister, Leah Sharubu. She has no one in government to negotiate and pay for her release like the other girls. We're the only ones she has.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by stepo707: 9:28am On May 27, 2018
Determine never to return, pray sincerely for God's help, Never watch porn or view naked pictures of women, Never pass the route where you will see prostitutes, date a decent gal a d then marry, avoid alcohol also,delete the contact of any prostitutes on your phone

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by AreaFada2: 9:28am On May 27, 2018
courage2702:
marriage is something I know that will help me at the long run,but not until I get my life back on track. I can't afford to put someone's daughter through this.Thanks for pointing it out .
Good that you have recognised that the habit is not good for you.

First try to understand why you patronise sex workers. Sadly marrying even Miss World will not stop using sex workers if addicted to it.

One thing to consider is exploitation and poverty. Many sex workers are being pimped by unscrupulous people, are drug/alcohol addicts or are very poor. Either way using them means being party to their exploitation. Not something that should sit well with you.

I am sure you feel wretched or dirty each time after using SWs. The few minutes of pleasure is not worth that guilt you feel..

Also try to understand how you came to disconnect sex from love, wooing a lady and dating.

Remember too that the habit is completely against who you are deep down. Find a girl you fancy. Focus on her. With time you will learn to keep yourself for her.

Find every reason not to go to or pass through the area SWs are. Avoid going out at night or weekend nights if those are the times you are most likely to see SW. Instead if you're a Christian, organise a home Bible study group during those times to strengthen you spiritually.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Nobody: 9:28am On May 27, 2018
Lakeside79:


Bro the fact you feel bad about this shows your spirit is still alive.. so keep the good fight !

You try you succeed, you try you fail the important thing is to keep knowing you have to bear this and never get comfortable in doing wrong

Never believe it's okay to tell yourself that if on Sunday you cry and accept Jesus you are free from guilt no you keep fighting

You pray for strength each morning and face each day believing that day is the day you win and if at the end of the day you fail don't despair pray that night again for renewed strength to try again the next day , reenforce this with avoid temptations from going to the wrong places, veiwing pornography and information you consume

Watch out for triggers, what makes you always susceptible to this? Is it alcohol, boredom, certain thought processes , particular movie scenes then try hard to manage these as much as you can

There's no such thing as anyone laying hands on you and it disappears or any special.prayers , it's all in you to manage with the good Lord by your side bro

It's a life time struggle and we should continue to fight this till our last days

Sometimes it can take a whole life time to conquer one propensity

Just keep on keeping on and realize there's nothing wrong with you, you aren't some broken being you are just human and will give this your best shot to be the best you can be

Fight the good fight with all the might bro

We all have our battles daily , you are not alone

We are all immensely flawed creatures

All.the best






Great one.God bless you

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by ibnchokomah(m): 9:29am On May 27, 2018
Get a good mentor. Mentorship is good especially in situations like this.
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by FunnyDude(m): 9:29am On May 27, 2018
b0rn2fuck:
i was a great prostitutes customer but glad it's been over 3 years I pick one now, infact even the so place now seems disgusting to me

Oh my God!!! Even you? There is hope for Nigeria.
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by frozen70(f): 9:30am On May 27, 2018
courage2702:
marriage is something I know that will help me at the long run,but not until I get my life back on track. I can't afford to put someone's daughter through this.Thanks for pointing it out .
The problems Lye's with you and the solutions are with you.
Get a girl friend that may lead to marriage, the moment you get a good one keep constant communication with her.
If you have a big urge for sex try and work on your self and your mind set. Make live to her when its ok for both of you especially her.
As you are doing that bear in mind that she might get pregnant and don't deny it if it happens, by the time you know you have responsibilities your dick won't be getting up any how.
Lastly pray to God to direct your part are remove things that might mislead your way of life.
If you don't do anything fast to save this your attitude, you might be misserable although. Goodluck.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by rolla10(m): 9:31am On May 27, 2018
Lakeside79:


Bro the fact you feel bad about this shows your spirit is still alive.. so keep the good fight !

You try you succeed, you try you fail the important thing is to keep knowing you have to bear this and never get comfortable in doing wrong

Never believe it's okay to tell yourself that if on Sunday you cry and accept Jesus you are free from guilt no you keep fighting

You pray for strength each morning and face each day believing that day is the day you win and if at the end of the day you fail don't despair pray that night again for renewed strength to try again the next day , reenforce this with avoid temptations from going to the wrong places, veiwing pornography and information you consume

Watch out for triggers, what makes you always susceptible to this? Is it alcohol, boredom, certain thought processes , particular movie scenes then try hard to manage these as much as you can

There's no such thing as anyone laying hands on you and it disappears or any special.prayers , it's all in you to manage with the good Lord by your side bro

It's a life time struggle and we should continue to fight this till our last days

Sometimes it can take a whole life time to conquer one propensity

Just keep on keeping on and realize there's nothing wrong with you, you aren't some broken being you are just human and will give this your best shot to be the best you can be

Fight the good fight with all the might bro

We all have our battles daily , you are not alone

We are all immensely flawed creatures

All.the best

U have spoken

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Lexusgs430: 9:36am On May 27, 2018
courage2702:
I need practical help to overcome my struggle against the use of prostitutes. I picked up this terrible habit shortly after my graduation from university sometime in 2012 and it is a vice that has wrecked my life. The last success was 13 months without any sexual involvement with any one before i had a sad event in my life that made me go back to my vommit. Any body with practical advice should please come up with it.. yesterday I went down on my knees again to ask him to give me another chance to fix my life for good. But I really need to take practical actions as faith without work is dead
I have an amazing future but this lifestyle may cut it off if don't fight it headlong.

I am 30+ old man that really wish to settle down but not until I quit this habit that has disconnected me from God as well as made my life miserable.
I am from a Christian background.


Don't quit for God, but quit for yourself....... Each time you have the urge to visit, look for a diversion......

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Pataricatering(f): 9:37am On May 27, 2018
See them ! Rushing to give sincere advice to a d***y male hoe Sleeping with prostitutes ! If it was a woman you people will curse her to the end of the earth ! Dumb hypocrites !

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by 3millionia: 9:37am On May 27, 2018
courage2702:
I need practical help to overcome my struggle against the use of prostitutes. I picked up this terrible habit shortly after my graduation from university sometime in 2012 and it is a vice that has wrecked my life. The last success was 13 months without any sexual involvement with any one before i had a sad event in my life that made me go back to my vommit. Any body with practical advice should please come up with it.. yesterday I went down on my knees again to ask him to give me another chance to fix my life for good. But I really need to take practical actions as faith without work is dead
I have an amazing future but this lifestyle may cut it off if don't fight it headlong.

I am 30+ old man that really wish to settle down but not until I quit this habit that has disconnected me from God as well as made my life miserable.
I am from a Christian background.



It's simple, get into a relationship and you problem is solved.


Fam download latest gospel and worship Mixtapes on https://mixtapes.ng/latest/gospel-worship/
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Goddyj(m): 9:37am On May 27, 2018
EastGold:
You know what?


Cut off that preek pushing you to olosho

The Bible says anything that will not lead you to heaven, remove it
But I have seen people without preek that go to oloshos for romance,kissing and hugging purposes grin grin

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Lexusgs430: 9:40am On May 27, 2018
Pataricatering:
See them ! Rushing to give sincere advice to a d***y male hoe Sleeping with prostitutes ! If it was a woman you people will curse her to the end of the earth ! Dumb hypocrites !

We await a ladies confession..... Are you willing to confess?

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Crankshaft: 9:42am On May 27, 2018
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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by jpphilips(m): 9:43am On May 27, 2018
courage2702:
I need practical help to overcome my struggle against the use of prostitutes. I picked up this terrible habit shortly after my graduation from university sometime in 2012 and it is a vice that has wrecked my life. The last success was 13 months without any sexual involvement with any one before i had a sad event in my life that made me go back to my vommit. Any body with practical advice should please come up with it.. yesterday I went down on my knees again to ask him to give me another chance to fix my life for good. But I really need to take practical actions as faith without work is dead
I have an amazing future but this lifestyle may cut it off if don't fight it headlong.

I am 30+ old man that really wish to settle down but not until I quit this habit that has disconnected me from God as well as made my life miserable.
I am from a Christian background.


Olosho is not free so go broke!!

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by malware: 9:43am On May 27, 2018
RiyadhGoddess:
Haa @op you better contact that young man who contacted HIV and shared his story of recent due to his excessive ashawo patronage. Just a word from him will reset your brain quick

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by donshaddow(m): 9:44am On May 27, 2018
Lagbaja01:
Well, somebody somewhere is doing the same to your future wife.....life is based on sowing and reaping

Opened your profile to see who you really are, and hey! You're one of those freebies low life ranger.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by gidig(m): 9:45am On May 27, 2018
What I am about to tell you is how to fight the flesh.

You will not do so by just the power of your own will. When you hit a low point, you will fall back.

What iam about to type may sound weird but it is the only way of true freedom if you have experienced Christ.

If you are born again, it simply means you human Spirit had come alive. He is the one that must be empowered to strengthen you against the flesh. Your flesh is currently winning the battle.

Look through the scriptures for God's promises on righteousness and right living. Scriptures thar talk about your body being consicrated unto God. Use a concordance if you must.

Write down those scriptures and declare them with your mouth in a personalized format.

For example, if you want to use the s ruptures that says that 'don't you know that your body is the temple of God' ; you declare that ' my body is the temple of God and I therefore do not yield my body to sexual sins. The same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead dwells in this mortal body. It quickens my body such that desire for sex is within my control. I do no have any urge to have sex with prostitutes as my urge us to do the will of God alone.
I come against every demonic spirits that I may have opened myself up to. For this cause I list the son of God made manifest that he may destroy the works of Satan. The works of Satan in any area of my flesh and life is destroyed. I am the righteousness of God through Christ Jesus. I DO NOT Yield My Members To lust of any kind. I AM Holy

Memorize these promises. Even when you find yourself walking to the place of the prostitutes, keep saying it the battle is between your recreates Human spirit and your flesh. It is your duty to keep the flesh under- not God's. Use your mouth.
After a time of doing this, you will see that the desire to do this Wil become so repulsive to you that you will wonder why you were going there in the first place.
By the heart we believe but with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. God had forgiven you. Don't let am Satan or any religious person condemn you. God wills that you use all He has made available to access his freedom for you.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by donshaddow(m): 9:47am On May 27, 2018
3millionia:



It's simple, get into a relationship and you problem is solved.


Fam download latest gospel and worship Mixtapes on https://mixtapes.ng/latest/gospel-worship/
That's what I suggested and a low life boy says otherwise.
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Quality20(m): 9:48am On May 27, 2018
relocate to shari'a states like sokoto, zamfara,Kano etc
Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by Apple22: 9:50am On May 27, 2018
Feeling the urge to have sex is a normal part of human nature. However, these feelings can sometimes interfere with daily life and relationships, sometimes in a very detrimental way. Finding ways to control your sexual urges may help you improve your quality of life, your relationships, and your productivity. You can learn to avoid situations that make you have sexual urges. You can talk to others about your concerns, even seeking professional help if you feel your sexual urges are negatively impacting your life.

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by jaxxy(m): 9:50am On May 27, 2018
courage2702:
marriage is something I know that will help me at the long run,but not until I get my life back on track. I can't afford to put someone's daughter through this.Thanks for pointing it out .

U need to have principles. Prostitutes are not for responsible human beings. The actvites of a prostitute shud turn u off naturally if ure thinking right. Its unhealthy and unattractive. Change ur mindset

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Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by ElsonMorali: 9:53am On May 27, 2018
Open your EYE and you'll be fine.

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