This days many marriages have been broken and the rise in broken homes have increased to 99%,this is because many people choose their spouse without considering the important factors involved.. Some important factors to be considered a listed as follows;


1)Religious belief : Religion is an essential part of a believers life,religion adherents behavior,what an individual does,wears,says,eat and drink may be determined by faith ,it promote marital harmony and stability.

2)Physical Appearance :make sure your marriage partner has the desired physical characteristics before taking the marriage oath because it gives happiness to marry someone that people appreciate her beauty or his good looks.

3)Personal disposition : This is the natural characteristics of an individual,you need to understand the character of your spouse. This includes,dressing habits,likes,dislikes,attitude to life,shyness,ambition,temperament,e.t,c.

4)Cultural/family background : Knowledge of the cultural background of either spouse is mandatory. Intending couples should try to study the family background of their spouse in order to find out whether or not there are some traits that indented spouse inherited from their family which are not compatible to theirs

5)Health condition : Areas where information needed based on these include,Genotype,mental ability,sexual experience,rhesus factors,her HIV status and state of mind,all these will enable them tackle future challenges.

6)Age difference : Some say Age has no barrier to marriage but the fact remains that too much gap in age could be source of marital problems. An example in a situation where a 75yrs old man is unable to satisfy a 25years old girl,That may lead to infidelity or unnecessary marital conflicts that may lead to divorce.

7)Educational Attainments/vocational skills.

Nature of job. 9)Value orientation : This deals with what individual considers important,useful and appropriate based on personal opinion,rather than scientific reasoning.

10)Peer influence : Friends have an important influence on teenagers and youths,it is important for would be husband or wife to study the kind of friends their partner keep to avoid marital conflicts No matter how marriage is examined,the ideal things is for marriage to be enduring,comforting and rewarding. A would be couples need to understand themselves very well before going into taking marital vows of knot tying. There is no perfect spouse on earth or perfect individuals,it is just our ability to manage situations that will determine if we have gotten the best or worst. It is also necessary for would be couples to seek marital counselling before deciding on marriage.
By Counsellor Sunny

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source:http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2018/05/10-factors-to-consider-before-choosing.html?m=1

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ladygudhead:
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ladygudhead:
THIS IS GOOD.

..Bro no matter whathe u do..do not choose KillaBeauty or Hisduchess from nairaland. ..they will ruin you
. Oyindidi is OK thou! (Real talk)

Cool.

I’ll have you know that I’m a 100% wife material and you’re just jealous that you cannot afford me. No offens.

MrCork:



..Bro no matter whathe u do..do not choose KillaBeauty or Hisduchess from nairaland. ..they will ruin you
. Oyindidi is OK thou! (Real talk)

KillaBeauty:
I’ll have you know that I’m a 100% wife material and you’re just jealous that you cannot afford me. No offens.

^^^ wifey material who spend 23 outter 24 hour on nairaland...yeah. .. ..we said yor head was not correct earlier. ..u said it was normal (smh)

MrCork:



^^^ wifey material who spend 23 outter 24 hour on nairaland...yeah. .. ..we said yor head was not correct earlier. ..u said it was normal (smh)

Please stop talking to me I’m not on your level. You’re just an angry midget

MrCork:



^^^ wifey material who spend 23 outter 24 hour on nairaland...yeah. .. ..we said yor head was not correct earlier. ..u said it was normal (smh)

KillaBeauty:
Please stop talking to me I’m not on your level. You’re just an angry midget

^^^wot level u on about?

.. I have a babe..u dont
. .I drive range rover spot. .u don't
. .I have class ..u don't
. ..I have big dik.. u don't
. .my girl azz wider than yor face
..my girl gat curves..u don't

....so apart from stalking nairaland. .wot level u talking about? (Smh) ....

Pls stop quoting me people would think I know you and you’re not on my level

MrCork:



^^^wot level u on about?

.. I have a babe..u dont
. .I drive range rover spot. .u don't
. .I have class ..u don't
. ..I have big dik.. u don't
. .my girl azz wider than yor face
..my girl gat curves..u don't

....so apart from stalking nairaland. .wot level u talking about? (Smh) ....

KillaBeauty:
Pls stop quoting me people would think I know you and you’re not on my level

..ok..so u upset coz i have a woman. .correct. ..listen up my love. .if u want moiney, ask nicely. ..but if u want me..serrrrrrrrrioooooooously. .we can' discuss?..frustration is an serous illness (real talk)..

The only thing to consider is the personality of the person you want to marry.

If your personalities match you'll live together forever.

MrCork:



..Bro no matter whathe u do..do not choose KillaBeauty or Hisduchess from nairaland. ..they will ruin you
. Oyindidi is OK thou! (Real talk)

Ok. Noted! since you are speaking from experience. Whoever give himself up to be ruined na im palava...na only u waka go.

ladygudhead:
Ok. Noted! since you are speaking from experience. Whoever give himself up to be ruined na im palava...na only u waka go.

MrCork:



..ok..so u upset coz i have a woman. .correct. ..listen up my love. .if u want moiney, ask nicely. ..but if u want me..serrrrrrrrrioooooooously. .we can' discuss?..frustration is an serous illness (real talk)..

Mr..........be careful

rebirthforgoody:





Mr..........be careful

^^^kaiiiiii. .see lightskin yellow iCe cream. ...sweery. please can I drink u?.

MrCork:



^^^kaiiiiii. .see lightskin yellow iCe cream. ...sweery. please can I drink u?.

Hmmm where will you start from?

rebirthforgoody:




Hmmm where will you start from?

..yor left booooobsi will be fine ma. ...I like left

Financial compatibility is also important

MrCork:




..yor left booooobsi will be fine ma. ...I like left

See as you worwor reach

rebirthforgoody:




See as you worwor reach

000ooo grow up please & quit actin like a children...can I suk.. yes or know?

MrCork:



000ooo grow up please & quit actin like a children...can I suk.. yes or know?

Oya come oooh