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Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by majorbravo: 8:05pm On Jun 07, 2018



1. IGNORANT DUMBO
These are the kind that when you ask them for advice or useful information, they keep acting clueless and dumb. Their usual reply to everything you ask is "I dunno oooo".

Although there might be the occassional cases where what you're asking may be difficult and they actually don't know the answer to a question, that doesn't mean they should not even bother to try or point you in the right direction, some may be afraid to answer because of your temper,

but majority of them don't like to tell you their ideas because they are in competition with you in their heads, they keep useful information that would better your life away from you because they want to be better than you. If you have this kind of friend, It's time to say goodbye.

More here: https://bravadoland..com/2018/06/ignorant-dumbo-these-are-kind-that-when.html

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by majorbravo: 8:41pm On Jun 07, 2018
2. ENERGY DESTROYER a.k.a hater
These people are everywhere, always telling you how not to live your life but are nowhere to be found when you need advice on how to make your life better.

Do not associate with these kind of people, they never bring anything good into your life, they are just sticking around to pull everyone down.

These people are very common online, though they might be close friends or family members, all they do is monitor you and condemn every attempt you make at creativity. Do not hesitate to block haters.

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by majorbravo: 8:41pm On Jun 07, 2018
3. ABSENTEE BENEFICIARY a.k.a Ghost-worker
Never keep friends who just claim to be friends for friendship sake, if they aren't contributing to your life, they are not your friends, contributions range from ideas, positive advice, showing up when you invite them etc.

If they are always full of excuses not to turn up for you, never call you, but only pop in once in a blue moon to ask you a favour when they need something, eliminate them from your life.

They are the kind that would disappear for 5 years not a single call, ignore your dms on social media, only to remember you when you make it big, or when they are about to get married and they need someone to be their best man, maid of honour, or when they want to launch a book and need someone to sponsor their event.

When you spot this kind, only conduct dealings with them as you would with a business client, they are not truly your friends.

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by majorbravo: 8:41pm On Jun 07, 2018
4. MALICIOUS GOSSIP
There is always that one friend that comes to your house in the morning when you were just planning to go out to hustle or work, and instead decides to give you the early morning gossip on each and every one of your mutual friends.

These gossips are usually always about something negative that happened to people you know, the only time they say something positive about others is when they want to use it to spite you, If a woman seeking fruit of the womb has a friend like this, the first news they would bring is: "Hmmmm, have you heard? Doreen, your younger cousin has put to bed o, hmmmm some women are really fertile than others ooo".

When there is no news about your friends, they go on to gossip embarrasing stuff about celebrities who are doing far better than themselves. i.e Cee-cee and Tobi, Miracle and Nina, or Messi and Ronaldo.

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by majorbravo: 8:43pm On Jun 07, 2018
5. GREEDY LEACH
My favourite on this list, these kind of friends constantly put weights on you and if you aren't careful would hang all their responsibilities on you for the rest of your life. Now it's important i explain this in more detail.

There are people who have run into some problems and genuinely need your help, I am not referring to those people.

I'm talking about those greedy lot who constantly feel they are entitled to everything you have. They won't work, even when you try to find them something to do, they would always come back for more, they are always begging.

They are the kind that would have 100 million and still beg you that have only 20k for money. They are never satisfied.

The danger with these kind of people is that they wont hesitate to sell you out if it would benefit them.

Lalasticlala

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by Bills2307(m): 10:29am On Jun 08, 2018
Nice
Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by Ohraybs(m): 10:29am On Jun 08, 2018
majorbravo:
5. GREEDY LEACH
My favourite on this list, these kind of friends constantly put weights on you and if you aren't careful would hang all their responsibilities on you for the rest of your life. Now it's important i explain this in more detail.

There are people who have run into some problems and genuinely need your help, I am not referring to those people.

I'm talking about those greedy lot who constantly feel they are entitled to everything you have. They won't work, even when you try to find them something to do, they would always come back for more, they are always begging.

They are the kind that would have 100 million and still beg you that have only 20k for money. They are never satisfied.

The danger with these kind of people is that they wont hesitate to sell you out if it would benefit them.

Lalasticlala
Thats serious and cool write up

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by olaskul(m): 10:29am On Jun 08, 2018
Well...
Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by Alonzoh(m): 10:29am On Jun 08, 2018
Ok
Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by Ibj50(m): 10:29am On Jun 08, 2018
ok
Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by ednut1(m): 10:30am On Jun 08, 2018
we all have these kind of friends. ur friends shud not determine what u make of life abeg. life aint that serious after all by year 2150 all of us go don die throway

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by vizkiz: 10:30am On Jun 08, 2018
ednut1:
we all have these kind of friends. ur friends shud not determine what u make of life abeg.

Show me your friends and I will tell you your future.

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by Chukwu222222(m): 10:30am On Jun 08, 2018
Hmmmmm
Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by shamecurls(m): 10:31am On Jun 08, 2018
Just make it simple by saying having "Flat headed dwarfs" as friends will make your life miserable.

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by Newpride(m): 10:31am On Jun 08, 2018
This is the exact problem facing Nigeria and her past leaders till date ...
Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by Sheq: 10:31am On Jun 08, 2018
majorbravo:
5. GREEDY LEACH
My favourite on this list, these kind of friends constantly put weights on you and if you aren't careful would hang all their responsibilities on you for the rest of your life. Now it's important i explain this in more detail.

There are people who have run into some problems and genuinely need your help, I am not referring to those people.

I'm talking about those greedy lot who constantly feel they are entitled to everything you have. They won't work, even when you try to find them something to do, they would always come back for more, they are always begging.

They are the kind that would have 100 million and still beg you that have only 20k for money. They are never satisfied.

The danger with these kind of people is that they wont hesitate to sell you out if it would benefit them.

Lalasticlala
i made such freinds as a corper this year....this people were leeches who wanted to suck me dry...a fellow girl fa, if i was a guy na we fit say na cause i wan sleep with them.....the first they visited me was the last time i ever made them come.....hungr and greedy people...they even collected transport fare, after making them understand it was my cash for the weeek to the office....i cooked for them ooo , two courses! ....funny i visited then a week before that day and they said i must buy them something ooo which i did but they didnt offer me water.... embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed ....awon assholes.....

Now they seee me on the road and ask if i have forgotten them....they will now be like let us follow u home na...God forbid! Am not going to my house...e go be!


One even said since i claim i havent forgotten her ...i should take her out na..... undecided undecided undecided undecided ....amugbo.....am just a female corper like you

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by slawomir: 10:31am On Jun 08, 2018
ok
Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by Nobody: 10:31am On Jun 08, 2018
nice write up OP

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by mimimile93: 10:32am On Jun 08, 2018
All naija girls are number 5..

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by Nobody: 10:32am On Jun 08, 2018
Okay sad

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by Kesterkendra(m): 10:32am On Jun 08, 2018
ednut1:
we all have these kind of friends. ur friends shud not determine what u make of life abeg. life aint that serious after all by year 2150 all of us go don die throway
Lol, quite agree with you

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by mimimile93: 10:35am On Jun 08, 2018
vizkiz:


Show me your friends and I will tell you your future.

This thing is fake..
I have a lot of friends who smoke, play gambles yet am not doing any of it.. Friends do not determine your future.. It's a personal decision to succeed or fail in life...

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by ednut1(m): 10:37am On Jun 08, 2018
vizkiz:


Show me your friends and I will tell you your future.
u don mean it angry
Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by jrusky(m): 10:37am On Jun 08, 2018
Expantiate more better on point number 3 because of Nigeria lazy youth girls they tend to turn the number 3 point to means of asking money and if their friends not given them or not having at that particular time he or she is their enemy so tell them being their does not implies bank must be broken to please them.

God bless.
Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by adeniyiemmanuel(m): 10:40am On Jun 08, 2018
majorbravo:
4. MALICIOUS GOSSIP
There is always that one friend that comes to your house in the morning when you were just planning to go out to hustle or work, and instead decides to give you the early morning gossip on each and every one of your mutual friends.

These gossips are usually always about something negative that happened to people you know, the only time they say something positive about others is when they want to use it to spite you, If a woman seeking fruit of the womb has a friend like this, the first news they would bring is: "Hmmmm, have you heard? Doreen, your younger cousin has put to bed o, hmmmm some women are really fertile than others ooo".

When there is no news about your friends, they go on to gossip embarrasing stuff about celebrities who are doing far better than themselves Cee-cee and Tobi, Miracle and Nina, or Messi and Ronaldo.
majorbravo:
5. GREEDY LEACH
My favourite on this list, these kind of friends constantly put weights on you and if you aren't careful would hang all their responsibilities on you for the rest of your life. Now it's important i explain this in more detail.

There are people who have run into some problems and genuinely need your help, I am not referring to those people.

I'm talking about those greedy lot who constantly feel they are entitled to everything you have. They won't work, even when you try to find them something to do, they would always come back for more, they are always begging.

They are the kind that would have 100 million and still beg you that have only 20k for money. They are never satisfied.

The danger with these kind of people is that they wont hesitate to sell you out if it would benefit them.

Lalasticlala
majorbravo:
4. MALICIOUS GOSSIP
There is always that one friend that comes to your house in the morning when you were just planning to go out to hustle or work, and instead decides to give you the early morning gossip on each and every one of your mutual friends.

These gossips are usually always about something negative that happened to people you know, the only time they say something positive about others is when they want to use it to spite you, If a woman seeking fruit of the womb has a friend like this, the first news they would bring is: "Hmmmm, have you heard? Doreen, your younger cousin has put to bed o, hmmmm some women are really fertile than others ooo".

When there is no news about your friends, they go on to gossip embarrasing stuff about celebrities who are doing far better than themselves Cee-cee and Tobi, Miracle and Nina, or Messi and Ronaldo.
hmm well said...
Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by BiafranBushBoy: 10:41am On Jun 08, 2018
debygrin:
nice write up OP

Black is truly beautiful.

You know what I mean right? Smiles...
Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by OROZ(m): 10:45am On Jun 08, 2018
Simple, if ur not loosing friends as u grow, note ur not heading to success or not moving, fact.

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Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by Aniwhyte(m): 10:45am On Jun 08, 2018
Sheq:
i made such freinds as a corper this year....this people were leeches who wanted to suck me dry...a fellow girl fa, if i was a guy na we fit say na cause i wan sleep with them.....the first they visited me was the last time i ever made them come.....hungr and greedy people...they even collected transport fare, after making them understand it was my cash for the weeek to the office....i cooked for them ooo , two courses! ....funny i visited then a week before that day and they said i must buy them something ooo which i did but they didnt offer me water.... embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed ....awon assholes.....

Now they seee me on the road and ask if i have forgotten them....they will now be like let us follow u home na...God forbid! Am not going to my house...e go be!


One even said since i claim i havent forgotten her ...i should take her out na..... undecided undecided undecided undecided ....amugbo.....am just a female corper like you



You must be very bitter, with a wicked soul.... Spits
Re: Having These 5 People As Friends Would Keep You Unsuccessful by 400billionman: 10:51am On Jun 08, 2018
majorbravo:
2. ENERGY DESTROYER a.k.a hater
These people are everywhere, always telling you how not to live your life but are nowhere to be found when you need advice on how to make your life better.

Do not associate with these kind of people, they never bring anything good into your life, they are just sticking around to pull everyone down.

These people are very common online, though they might be close friends or family members, all they do is monitor you and condemn every attempt you make at creativity. Do not hesitate to block haters.




Monitoring spirit can destroy your destiny for life IN their heads you are a prodigal son who does not want to be useful SHARE your growth ideas with them and see them destroy it

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